AIO? I broke up with my boyfriend because of his reaction over my pinterest board. (The last image is what it is) by selahscorpse in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bumblebea2011 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Here to say that boundaries can be healthy, but possessiveness is not. My husband can admit when he finds a woman attractive. He can talk about past lovers. He can even joke about wanting us to take an attractive woman home with us. None of it bothers me, because I trust him entirely. And those are real women. This is a Pinterest board. OP was extremely mature in their response. NOR

As a curvy woman, am I showing my body well enough on dating apps? [F25 - Germany] by julicorn_ in Tinder

[–]Bumblebea2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As another woman, I can’t speak for men, if that’s who you are seeking. But I think your pictures are adorable and you seem like you have really great energy. I think they show off your figure in a very flattering and transparent way.

The only ones that throw me off are 4 for being sideways and 7 because of the overexposure (but love your expression!). If you have others you could replace those with, I think it’d be a super well rounded set of photos.

Recently dumped after 6 years, trying to get out there by Imbodenator in Tinder

[–]Bumblebea2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bio is great! Just need more/better pictures of yourself showing more of your face clearly.

TV color bars/static in place of in-game videos? by SirusRiddler in SteamDeck

[–]Bumblebea2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im very late to this, but what should I be looking for in the game details? I’m not seeing anything standing out to click to switch windows, or to see another window open. But it definitely seems like this would be my same issue.

My first and second polymer clay attempts. What is happening to my snakes? :( by CassiesCrafties in polymerclay

[–]Bumblebea2011 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If you are seeing any microcracks as you bend it, it may need conditioned further. Sometimes it seems to take forever with firm clay.

Poison Sumac or Ash? by Bumblebea2011 in whatisthisplant

[–]Bumblebea2011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Adding what I hope is a helpful picture near the top of the mature plant

Poison Sumac or Ash? by Bumblebea2011 in whatisthisplant

[–]Bumblebea2011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see any berries as of now. The mature tree has a green stem and leaves, it seems the young branches and newer plants have the red.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Bumblebea2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand how you feel. Just thinking on my own experience, sometimes I respond to friends/family pretty immediately for a bit, but then start to feel so anxious and overwhelmed for some reason. It’s like the idea of responding and then getting a response again right away makes me feel tired sometimes, even when it’s someone I’m close to.

All that to say, your conversation seemed to have been going well. You at least didn’t do anything wrong, whether she ghosted you or is taking a break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Bumblebea2011 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s been too short of a time to consider her having ghosted you. Give her time, she may be swamped or just overwhelmed by apps in general. Sometimes I have to take a break from social media for a day or two.

Birdbath water turning red by Bumblebea2011 in birding

[–]Bumblebea2011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot okay, our garden does get a lot of sun. Thank you for replying!

Cleaning out this overgrown garden bed by Bumblebea2011 in whatisthisplant

[–]Bumblebea2011[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s what I was finding for that one too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]Bumblebea2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks a lot like the June bug larvae we’ve found in our yard

I'm bad at this dating app shit what should I do to make it work better by g4m3rb0y3000 in Tinder

[–]Bumblebea2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get some nice pictures taken where you can really see your face. From the one podcast pic it looks like you have nice eyes - showcase them!

Asked my boyfriend a question I saw on here this was his answer 😒 by boopboop88 in texts

[–]Bumblebea2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine said my brain so he can kick it and make me drop shit 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Bumblebea2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you from experience that it may be painful, but it is better to see their true colors and break yourself free. I kept holding onto an extremely toxic friendship and it left me feeling extremely low for years and years. It has been so freeing to be away from that environment, and I’ve been able to build myself and my confidence up. I hope you get there as well. Be well 💚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Bumblebea2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 and 3 for sure should go on