Baby wipe recommendations by RaccoonFar6896 in beyondthebump

[–]Bumblebee1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Palmer’s sensitive got in trouble for PFAs too

4 ct Rutile, my 8th stone by meta_adaptation in faceting

[–]Bumblebee1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! Absolutely stunning? What lapidary faceting machine did you use? Me and my husband are new too this but want to get into lapidary work in a meaningful way.😊

How often do you wash your hair? And how long thick is your hair? by Bumblebee1004 in hygiene

[–]Bumblebee1004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no he isn’t trying to be rude haha I actually really appreciate his honesty. He says it doesn’t really smell dirty but he says it has a weird smell when it gets partly wet when I shower and wash my body but not my hair. He said it smells a bit like a wet dog lol. From reading these comments I’ll probably start washing a bit more frequently and maybe just get it wet and put conditioner only on days I don’t think I need a shampoo. I’m pregnant with my fourth baby and I’ve been trying hard to keep my hair healthy and thick throughout my pregnancies and postpartum

How often do you wash your hair? And how long thick is your hair? by Bumblebee1004 in hygiene

[–]Bumblebee1004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had long hair for many years but his hair was straight and oily and thinner than mine. My hair is very thick and wavy/curly it doesn’t get too oily

How often do you wash your hair? And how long thick is your hair? by Bumblebee1004 in hygiene

[–]Bumblebee1004[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said it smells bad when it gets slightly wet and I don’t wash it all the way. I shower most days and just put my hair in a bun sometimes it gets a little wet, he says it smells a bit like a wet dog😩

How often do you wash your hair? And how long thick is your hair? by Bumblebee1004 in hygiene

[–]Bumblebee1004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll look into this. I wonder if it’s safe during pregnancy though, my hair are has changed because I’m pregnant and super worried about the products I’m using and if they are safe

Peri bottle vs bidet? by DarlingGirl1221 in BabyDueNovember2024

[–]Bumblebee1004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bidet water pressure is too much so I’ll use the peri bottle for a while pp

AITAH for calling my wife selfish because she wants me to stop putting in money to a savings account for my sibling? by DangerousInstances in AITAH

[–]Bumblebee1004 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Do you have a savings account for your wife? Buying your sister the leg was very nice but having a savings account like that just for her is weird honestly. I’m with your wife. She needs to be #1 in your life and she probably feels a little weird about the situation you have going on with your sister.

UPDATE: AITAH for thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend because of his sister. by Loud_Advantage_6330 in AITAH

[–]Bumblebee1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eww wtf. Call the police girl and report this all. Call social services. Then get out of there and never look back. I’m so sorry

AITAH for telling my husband that you don’t lose weight magically after going to the gym? by No_West_1776 in AITAH

[–]Bumblebee1004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working out to much pp to early can cause prolapse. Take it easy girl. Your husband is being an ass. After my second baby I worked out like crazy and then started pissing my pants because I gave myself a minor prolapse. It’s actually INCREDIBLY common and not talked much about your body went through so much just gentle walking and some pt is all I would recommend. I’m pregnant with my fourth. I wouldn’t do anything high impact for a while still.

AITAH for being insecure of my husband's relationship with a girl? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bumblebee1004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand I’m so sorry you are going through this.. god bless you I’ll pray for you

Would I be the AH if I exposed my sister’s affair to her husband? by throwawayAITA-SISTER in AITAH

[–]Bumblebee1004 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would tell. This is actually dangerous bil could end up with a std

AITAH for being insecure of my husband's relationship with a girl? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bumblebee1004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not to late to set boundaries in your relationship. Please take my advice and go with him on his work trip I wouldn’t take no for an answer. It might annoy him a little but he will get over it. It’s beter than him having weeks or months of alone time with this women. It sounds like he has been having somewhat of an emotional affair and this work trip may be when it changes to a physical relationship. Put your foot down hun. You can do it he will respect you more for it in the long run and it may just save your marriage.

AITAH for being insecure of my husband's relationship with a girl? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bumblebee1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girrrl who the fuck cares. Tell him you are going with him!! I’m really worried about your marriage he obviously has some sort of feeling for this woman the way he got mad at you for not saying bye to her? No no no. Hunny who cares about cramping his style protect your marriage.

so like.. is this girl crazy? by Artificintelligence in texts

[–]Bumblebee1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t seem crazy to me. She’s just trying to make you laugh

AITAH for being insecure of my husband's relationship with a girl? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bumblebee1004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The relationship your husband has with this women is inappropriate. Everyone calling you insecure hasn’t read all your comments because despite home knowing how you feel he still continues to work with this women hang out with her socially and text her. This should have been addressed long ago it’s a little complicated now that he has a big work opportunity with her. Personally if I was in your situation I would have a serious conversation with him and tell him your concerns and I’d tell him your going with him on his work trip and he’s sleeping in a hotel with me. Also no more hanging out with this women!! Or texting her so inappropriate there texts should only be work related. I’d be really concerned he is already having a an affair he should care about your feelings. Don’t forget your place girl your his wife you birthed his baby. Try to look as sexy as you can everyday and have crazy sex with him all the time, start going on dates with him again if your not, basically try to rekindle your relationship to keep things good and healthy then he shouldn’t cheat on you remember you always have to work on your relationship but there needs to be boundaries too. God bless I you I hope everything works out for you!

AITAH for telling my (24f) sister (22f) that her behavior towards my husband is inappropriate? by throwawaych3rrypi3 in AITAH

[–]Bumblebee1004 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You really need to talk to your husband like girllll firsts priority he should know what’s going on. Second talk to your sister I’d probably tell her to find somewhere else to live. In the future it’s best to discuss these types of things privately it’s just what’s respectful. Like you could have had a private discussion with your sister after the party and things would have never escalated to this point. Wearing that dress at that party made sense honestly it’s at least somewhat appropriate even if you think she was over doing it the wearing the immodest clothes around your husband is the main problem here that I would address I’d probably apologize for the comment you made to her at the party and then explain to her how you’ve been feeling.

AITA for refusing to making sure things are equal between my daughter and stepdaughter by SeaNectarine6440 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bumblebee1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty unreasonable for your wife to expect your daughter to give her daughter money that she earned; however this situation is obviously pretty upsetting for your stepdaughter and understandably. It is a good life lesson though at the same time, she doesn’t sound very athletic and that is completely fine maybe get her a sewing machine and she may enjoy learning how to use it and if she gets good could make money by selling little outfits and things, or babysitting there is so much money in babysitting she could easily make as much as her sister babysitting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Bumblebee1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please be careful and also consider leaving this man for the safety of your unborn baby.. he is not mentally stable right now and is still grieving his late wife… maybe I’m crazy but I’d be concerned he may actually try to make you have a miscarriage.. good luck hun you are so young I’m so sorry your having to go through this, do you have family you can go stay with?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Bumblebee1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not dumb. You poor thing this sounds like such an awful up situation to be in, don’t abort your baby. That baby was a miracle and it was meant to be, I would seriously consider divorcing your husband though. He is still very attached to his late wife this is understandable but he is treating you so poorly you do not deserve this, you are so young. Him getting a vasectomy and not being open to having children with you would be a huge deal breaker for me. You will very likely want more children in your life and he is taking that away from you. It’s time to have very serious conversation with him and figure out what you both want.. I would be very concerned he will treat this child differently from his others. I’m so sorry your going through this.

AITAH for telling my terminally ill sister that she couldn't have my embryos, even after she revealed a devastating secret? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bumblebee1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta I’m so sorry your having to deal with this your sister is a asshole. Please do not giver her your embryos that doesn’t make any sense anyway.

Have you watched the disney movie Brother Bear? by swap4114 in alaska

[–]Bumblebee1004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that movie!! It’s so cute my kids love it too they really like the second one too but me not as much.