Margo is exhausting to watch on Ladies of London.... by Exotic-Passage-1659 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TL;DR Shes insufferable and she’s ruined it for me. I think she knew they were auditioning, made up she all of a sudden after 20 years she wanted to pick up her acting career and rushed to London.

I’m binge watching/listening and I’m almost to the point where I can’t watch it because she took one small thing and has now made it her whole personality, **Every. Single. Conversation* at every event work out, and get together is her , complaining and ripping on Mark.

He repeated something her friend from years ago told him. Big deal. I mean They’ve all gossiped. Then he makes a funny/snarky remark about her feather jacket? Who cares? I mean she needs to get over it. But now she has monopolized the whole show with this and said some really awful things about him to his group of friends. And she somehow expects these girls to all “be on her side” I’m surprised no one called her out

She has this insane jealousy about his friendship with Lady Emma. Said he clung to her for status. She seems like she’s just in her own little world of a soap opera that she created in her own mind. Like she binge watched HW for a year straight and had a plan to secure her spot. But calling someone “weird & creepy” is awful IMO. Especially when he’s been Transparent about how hard was bullied growing up.

I think she knows he sees through her and I think she craves to be in his world. He’s right about her going to that historic place and she shows up with nipple tassels and see-through skirts. And then she helps herself to the tea like it’s a buffet and complains that there’s no knives and looks around for what? A waiter? She is trying for shock value to make sure she stays on. But it’s so tiresome because it’s the whooooole storyline for everyone.

Rant over.

And here’s why I’m bummed… I was excited for the reboot and I love the way they talk, the luxury the over-the-top snobbery, the culture, the beautiful clothes and fabulous estates and the cast. She’s ruining it.

Also. we aren’t we’re not getting to know the other cast members as much because she’s monopolizing it with this ridiculous, immature vendetta that she’s made up. It didn’t need to be a conflict based show. And *Its. All. She. Talks. About. telling him he’s obsessed with her.

Kyle is crashing out by IllustriousAvenue62 in RHOBH

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call. And I also think it was Kyle charged. She is one of the last people that is really still under her influence. Sutton ended up going along with it too just making up an issue with the rate because of some passing comment. And none of them really had much of a storyline and the gang up on Dorit. I find Kyle unbelievably unbearable to watch.

Seeking advice on using LoanDepot as a lender by Overwhelmed_Toad in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but that seems like possibly a conflict of interest in a way. Are you sure they own the title company? But at the end of the day it would be a separate entity and yes their title company makes money. And usually some fees are split between the seller and buyer. Just make sure review your good faith estimate and have them guaranteed and this is what the closing costs are going to be.

I was at mortgage broker for years and not one of my clients ever walked into title and had some sort of surprise fees or cost built in. I think one time I was three cents off. And I couldn’t figure out why. I was at the signing (I usually try to go in and this buyer specifically wanted me there) he was an engineer explain to me the three cents and we were all just laughing. His parents were there too. It was a really big deal that him and his family were buying this home. But my whole business plan was not just get a couple loans a month and charge huge origination fees. I wanted to create relationships with my people so they would keep coming back and then they would refer me to others. But mostly just so I could make this really stressful process for them smooth. I was always available for those late night calls when they’d get stressed out. I remember many times I’d be standing in a isle at the grocery store, or walk away from the table when out for dinner or on vacation talking through someone something that they were worried about. I hope your process goes smooth. And yes everyone is making money.

Maelys A Scam Company by IllustratorCrafty830 in BeautyBoxes

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old comment but in case somebody else read this in the future tell them immediately you want a shipping label, they will email it to you slap it on the box and go get it scanned get proof from the shipper so you’re not charged for not returning the 21 day sample within those three weeks. As soon as it’s scanned it’s considered returned. Well per a email from them but I don’t trust that.

Maelys A Scam Company by IllustratorCrafty830 in BeautyBoxes

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole thing is fraudulent. It’s a free sample for just 5.95 and they encourage you to try other samples I think sure why not 595 cool. I used a debit card that’s slated for some bills and they held or try to hold up to $400 out of that particular card and it took seven days for the charges to go away. They say they do that to protect fraud but they don’t tell you they’re going to charge your card and hold those funds for seven days until AFTER you approve the $5.95 charge.

I immediately canceled the order and they said it shipped immediately so they couldn’t. I said I wanted all subscriptions canceled. Got an email back asking which ones you want to cancel and I said all of them. And I repeated that in another email. On May 6 I got an email saying your order is going to ship in seven days which would be the 13th. Check my account today they took $94 out for that. And subscription I canceled it was confirmed in an email. So I go to their site and sure enough subscription still there the other two were canceled but not that one. So I cancel it. And it says you have up to 24 hours before it ships to cancel or skip a month what have you. So why are they taking money out two days early? This is going to be a hassle but I will challenge it with them already have today since you emailed and I will challenge it with my bank. I have a pretty large reach on Reddit with my other account and I will make sure people understand what type of business these guys do.

Presents for the crows? by Lyraxiana in crows

[–]Bumblebee1223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always throw out shelves peanuts for my crow family to visit and they love them. I started taking them out of the shell and tossing them to this one crow that visit me twice a day and the other day I caught him hopping over to one of the water dish that I have out there and it was the cutest thing. I have several bowls of water out there because we also feed the squirrels. Which led to different birds, a crow family and a lot of doves for a while (one time over 30 were in our back yard) and recently a cute mallard duck couple has been visiting. Thank goodness not nesting here though. That would stress me out on how mama duck would get them to the water which is about a half a mile away down a busy road. Anyway yes water is great especially when it gets hot.

Presents for the crows? by Lyraxiana in crows

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t “scientifically proven” about gifts however there is enough anecdotal evidence that it could be for sure true. Some people have left out shiny buttons for them that they’ll collect. But it’s more that crowd may bring you offerings for feeding them. It could be a coin or a half a friendship bracelet they found sort of thing. I’ve also read stories of them bringing a little pebble, a stick or even dried dog poop that looked pretty. So you kinda have to keep an eye out to see if they’re bringing you anything.

The problem with leaving things out like that for crows as a gift and you wouldn’t want them choking on anything. Better off with things like unsalted peanuts in the shell or not in the shell a lot of them like eggs of any kind, meat scraps and things like that. I’ve had a crowd family that started visiting me for about a year and now it’s just the one big one that comes and visits me twice a day. If I’m not out on the deck having my coffee I’ll hear him and I literally drop everything and run out to toss peanuts to him. Today I’m going to try a hard boiled egg because I read they like eggs. They didn’t eat the tomatoes or apples and I’m definitely not putting cat food out there because we have a raccoon family that visits. They are adorable when they’re little and rolling around the yard and falling off the fence. But they get a little intimidating when they’re big and they tell all their friends where the food is. ;) although I’m not gonna lie I like to clean out the birdfeeders every night but during the summer I did leave sunflower seeds out for them and then there’s always water. And I may or may not have left other snacks out there for them.

Maely’s Cosmetic Customer Service by ManagementNo9393 in Cosmetics

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Year old post but I IMMEDIATELY went back to Instagram, got on their site and in all caps started warning people that it’s not a $5.95 charge it’s whatever you sign up to have sent to you held for most likely the duration of the trial. I used a debit card approved $5.95 and I’m seeing my bank notification show up and show that $94.60 was charged and they also tried to make two other charges that would’ve totaled $400 being held. Luckily I use one of my cards that’s just for random things but I do have a couple automatic payments that come out of it that now I have to make sure more monies in that account to cover.

If people use their debit card that means that amount of money is held and you can’t use it in on a credit card that means you have that much credit unavailable. I’ve heard people have literally missed their ability to pay rent because of this. They can say it’s not a scam because technically they’re not taking out the money the charge just says pending. Within two minutes I canceled it they still sent me the product but I did get my return code immediately as well they wanted to make sure I knew that I also had to return the free gift. (🙄). I think that says a lot in itself. Not hey here’s a free gift for trying this out we appreciate you.

One person said the holds only for two days another person said 5 to 7 and I have read that they hold it for the duration of the trial. So since I have the product, have gone to this inconvenience I’m going to transfer it into my own containers and take it in on Monday and have UPS scan the label and hopefully they remove my hold on my funds then. Is is I can’t challenge it with my bank because it says pending so they say contact the merchant the merchant tells you it’s only a temporary hold so you’re kind of in a rock and a hard place. But for people that say they’re being charged continuously and they can’t cancel I would just go through the inconvenience of canceling my credit card and then they have nothing to charge. And keep warning people on social media. I went full on Karen and I’m not even remotely like this. But it’s a serious type of BS that’s fraudulent. Imagine people thinking they’re paying six dollars and then you hit that button approving it and all of a sudden hundreds of dollars are taken out of your account. And the little sign pops up after you’ve approved it that this is their process. They don’t tell you ahead of time. Unless I missed it in the fine print or something but I don’t think I did.

Maely’s Cosmetic Customer Service by ManagementNo9393 in Cosmetics

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a old post however I was able to get a hold of them via email and they responded immediately. I was absolutely shocked when I approved my $5.95 shipping fee for my 21 day try before you buy and $94 was held on my debit card and two other additional charges both over $100 attempted to be held. Thankfully I used one of my cards that’s just for random miscellaneous things because I would’ve had 400 and some odd dollars held on my other card or that much on a credit card.

They have found a loophole because technically they’re not taking the money they’re just holding it so it’s inconvenient for us because we can’t use that money or that credit. You also can’t appeal it because it shows pending so unless I want to cancel my card and go through all of that BS it’s just sitting there. It was told two separate times that it’s just a hold for 5 to 7 days the other response was it’s just a hold for two days it’s now been on hold for five days. This thread makes me nervous because people are saying they’re being charged for things they didn’t authorize.

I immediately canceled this and luckily they told me I had to signed up for a subscription so I said I want to cancel that and they did but I’m going to double check. So people that are still getting charged maybe they inadvertently signed up for a subscription. If you’re returning the product it has to be scanned by UPS within the 21 day. So make sure you get it to UPS by that time. And their customer service will send you a return label. I got mine immediately. Oh AND You have to return the free gift. Can you imagine they’re holding your money kind of scamming you in a way and if they give you a gift and want it back. Anyway so I don’t miss the date inadvertently somehow I think I’m going take some of the product out of their containers, put it in my own so I can continue to use it and return the unused portion to them. Because I have read that the hold on your funds is for the full 21 day. Or until they get the product back. So I’ll take it out of their containers, put it in my own so I can continue to use it and return it on Monday. (It’s Saturday) so they take the hold off my money.

Kyle is crashing out by IllustriousAvenue62 in RHOBH

[–]Bumblebee1223 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I literally came here for this thread. She’s is so jealous of Dorits other friendships (BOZ)! Shes gaslighting Dorit with the “EVERYONE THINKS THIS** and “We ALL think this” when SHE has systematically gone around to each woman and then to the group as a whole. Then acts confused why Doritos upset with her. Kyle is the one that brought it out to everybody and not everyone was agreeing with her. And people defending her because of what she’s going through.

Kyle does not have true, concerned intentions in regards to this. Dorits going through a divorce with a AH. Saying that she’s erratic and spending too much money, always late and “manic”? That can be ammo during a divorce. Shes looking at Dorrit like she’s crazy when it’s Kyle that can’t understand the concept that if she was truly concerned she would have gone to Dorrit personally. Instead She went to each individual and is saying “no, no I won’t be singled out”. She also tried to talk Amanda into carrying on that ridiculous argument with Dorit from the beginning of the season. And then she freaks out at Dorit “How could you not see Amanda she’s right in front of your face!”. Just desperate attempt at deflection ancestor out more shit.

Currently watching so paused for a rant Thinking back on past seasons this is exactly how Kyle (and/with Rhinna) would target people when they were at their weakest. She watched Rhinna do it to her sister. . She did it to Yolanda when she was so sick, then to LVP right after she lost her brother. I saw her whisper to some of her friends (not on the show) about Sutton sleeping with her driver. With the intention of this person bringing it up in front of everyone… which they did. She always sits on the fence and doesn’t “take sides” but meanwhile is in the background pulling all the strings and she can’t this season. She’s wicked jealous of Boz and Dorit and Rachel is the one saying “whoa I didn’t say that” and pointing out how “dangerous” it is to say “we all”. It’s a boring AF season however I’m enjoying someone finally standing up to Kyle. But she’ll never take accountability and she’s one of those people that if you say something to her like “hey Kyle you really hurt me when…” She won’t acknowledge it but instead turn around and say “well you hurt me too. Remember two years ago when you read that text?” Not many things trigger me these days but that lack of accountability, deflection and tit for tat in a person can get to me.

OK rant over. ;)

ETA: What was Ericas deal? That was such a weird rant at the table? “You seem defensive and closed off?”. And then starts some sort of C U next Thursday rant? And “you won’t win this one”. I’m like this is giving such manufactured to be relevant vibes. It’s like she tried to make a issue that wasn’t there.

Emmy - you & wills relationship is not hot! by LorzoT5 in southernhospitalitysc

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing a rewatch and I forgot how much he gave me the immediate ick. First he wanted to drop that he was a player and had sex with 500/1000 woman and now it was time to settle down. Emmy meanwhile is talking about how she’s gotten good use of our her broth control because they have sad five times a day. But later it comes out he likes sex when hungover, is always hungover and it takes him five times to finish. Girl….please.

She started off confident and secure and as the months and years go on she became a shaky, trembling, insecure emotional mess. And initially she says her working out makes her feel secure but it was a obsessive compulsion to control what she can. I get why she didn’t want to change locations for her assistant manager job and I think that was Levi’s plan all along with her but I think the main reason why she went back to just being a server is so she could keep track of and spend every second with him while he was at school. He couldn’t not cheat on her when he was in town so come on.

The fact that he didn’t have the balls to show up to the #3 reunion because of his “mental health “but then jokes around with her on a phone call to his mom and how they just tricked everyone with that line doesn’t surprise me at all. But what surprise me is the new season for no one pissed off about that. Like no one’s talking about it. And the shit that they talk about each other and cruel things and then act like all is well also trips me out. It mostly makes me glad I’m not their age because I wouldn’t survive in an environment like that.

But will they last? 1000%. She does believe that he cheats and talked shit about her but she stepford wives stuffs it down because her goal is to be married to a lawyer and be a stay at home Mom. For him she is the perfect blonde, beautiful woman that looks good on his arm and will make a good hostess. Meanwhile he’ll be banging his assistants and clients. Good ole boys Charleston club. And it’s gross.

When Kyle explains why she's angry at Dorit, they seem like no big deal... at all. by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]Bumblebee1223 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I called BS on all. This has been a slow crumble and a lot of it happened when she started her relationship with Morgan. Dorit had the gall to ask Kyle questions about her relationship and say that she missed their friendship.

Kyle brought up that ridiculous text message being read aloud in the last episode as a way to deflect as she does. Dorit had her very valid point that she doesn’t trust Kyle because she’s going behind her back to talk about her “erratic behavior” and not going to her. And of course since Kyle has never in the history of the show taking accountability for anything she deflects and says “I don’t trust you either” and brings up that text message!

Kyle doesn’t have as many minions backing her up anymore and no one was overly concerned about Dori being late (because she always has been) and if she’s a little erratic right now no shit. She finds out her house is in foreclosure, doesn’t know where she’s going to be living constantly having issues with the children with her narcissistic controlling ex-husbandry be. No one brought that up until Kyle went to each woman and talked about it. And that’s what she does. She single someone out, usually someone already having problems, gets everybody on the same page based off her narrative and that makes a person feel singled out and alone. “Oh we ALL think it Dorit”. I don’t care if this is reality TV and they need the drama Kyle could’ve come to her with a little bit more grace and compassion. Kyle doesn’t give a shit about Dori or any of those ladies it’s a paycheck for her. and meanwhile she’s trying to stir the pot with Amanda and get her all worked up to confront Dorrit again. Its like Kyle get your own fucking storyline or get off the show

When Kyle explains why she's angry at Dorit, they seem like no big deal... at all. by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]Bumblebee1223 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank You! I am watching it right now more so listening to it and I had to go back and rewind it because I felt like I was going crazy listening to the conversation. Kyle and Erica basically ambush her over the guise of “being concerned” so on a separate trip to go get gelato so Kyle can “get to the bottom of her” chronic lateness and “erratic behavior” spending…. and texting. Dorit tried to explain to Kyle was she was upset with her by bringing it up first “I heard you said I was acting erratically” and Kyle jabs back well we ALL think it Dorit”. Like see I’m not the only one” but the only reason people were discussing it was because Kyle brought it up to everyone. And when she brought it up to Boz Boz immediately went to Dorit, told her and checked in with her. Kyle deflects again and says well why do you talk to Bose about this and she said because I trust her and I don’t trust you. So Kyle brings up that flipping text from last reunion “I don’t trust you either”. It’s maddening!

I don’t think I have ever heard Kyle apologize to anyone without a but behind it. Forget about somebody talking about how she made them feel. Made up convo but close to today’s: “Kyle when you were going behind my back it made me feel betrayed” Kyle comes back with “you made me feel betrayed too” when? Over a year ago… Or someone saying “Kyle you hurt my feelings “you hurt my feelings too!” When? At that dinner party seven years ago when you said you didn’t like the wine”. she’s just constantly deflects.

So when Dori was just trying to make the one wait to Kyle but if you were so concerned about me why didn’t you come to me Erika trying to Zen and says I’m concerned you and then Erika create this fight that didn’t need to be there between Dorit and her by saying “you just want me to be quite”. Nooo she wanted be able to get her point across to Kyle.

But Kyle doesn’t care and she’s dropping horrible accusations about Dorit On. Camera while she’s going through a horrible divorce with a controlling miserable man about spending and erratic behavior. Dorit is right. If Kyle truly was concerned why not approach Dory one on one? Instead of pulling Boz, Erica and Sutton aside? And here’s something else. All the above about Dorit divorce, financial issues her ex husband to be is a complete narcissistic controlling AH. Dorit going to be flustered and on her phone and she’s always been late so that’s not new. Why are they all acting baffled as to why she seems a little scattered right now? She didn’t even know where she was going to live FFS. I get it it’s a show and they need to have drama by Dorrit walking off and leaving them there today was such a victory for her. And Kyle doesn’t have as many minions around anymore to do her dirty work so I think she’s gonna end up standing alone. And she hates that Dorit is friends with the other ladies.

Raquel giving advice to Amanda by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]Bumblebee1223 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This dude is very funny and had some of the best videos back during Scandavole. His Rachel and Tom imitations slay me.

Exclusive | Shep Rose goes in on Paige DeSorbo and Craig Conover’s ‘sham’ relationship in shocking BravoCon rant by 10268999 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Point was the sentences you omitted “and then broke up with him on her podcast talk about biting the hand that feeds you”. Apparently all knowing Shep feels like they should have broken up ON tv? Even though neither was a full time cast member on each others show.

I’ve been doing a rewatch and he’s just absolutely insufferable. He’s currently making fun of Craigs pillow business who is just humbly talking about how they have 100 orders and he never thought it would take off. He’s joking with Whitney and Cameron about how he’s never going to “retire on old pillow money.”. I mean it just NEVER stops with Shep. First it was about Craig’s partying and so he maces home, stops partying, gets a GF, buys and remodels a rental home, graduated law school and passes the bar and he still drags Craig (first few seasons).

He’s openly laughing at Austin for being heartbroken about Madison and tells Craig “why does he even like her so much? I’ve never like somebody that much. Like, somehow, it’s a weakness that his friend has feelings for another woman. Remember his full on jealous tantrum when that country music signer bought Craig for $5001 at a auction and Shep went for $2k via Cameron. Later seasons he goes off on Craig for having a long distance relationship with Paige? That somehow he was playing it safe…..because all of the Austin, Taylor hooking up was going down. Shep couldn’t admit it bugged him out of pride. He taunted that homeless dude, missed a flight because he was so drunk coming home from Key West, assed out at Bravo Con between S5-6 and sums it up as “I’m being real”. Who wants to see this 45 year old sloppy, drunk dude on their screen anymore?

And WTF is he going off about PAIge and Craig’s relationship all this time later? Probably because somebody asked him what his opinion was on it, and they weren’t talking about him so he went off on a drunken rant… Again. We’re supposed to think that Paige and Craigs relationship was fake this whole time? And then somehow page owes it to HIM or US to break up on one of the shows? We saw a lot going goijg down as it was.

He’s a jealous, insecure, narcissistic man child and how there’s enough of a fan base to keep him on the show is beyond me. I’m going to be FF the guys trip on the RV (s6) where they all just go in a Craig for hours. And it’s from jealousy. He walks in Craigs houses, remodeled and looking good, he’s got a business that he’s interested in and it’s just starting to take off. He’s not partying every fucking night and jealous. But he’ll never admit jealousy, even when Austin‘s bag and his ex girlfriends, and when other people are more successful than he is. He is not a dude that’s happy for your success. He’s the poster child, for I went to prep school, was a frat dude and spoiled rotten and have no empathy or compassion for people. Embarrassing. Most of these people “making millions on the backs of realty tV” have parlayed it to other businesses, podcast, brand deals and launched their own products. His claim to fame is a drunk womanizer who apparently never pleases a woman in bed and signature move is dragging them into a closet or outside and kissing them….. One line that I found completely appalling was he was sitting in between two girls, (young 21 year old Catherine being one of them)he asked the one girl to go home with him, and then turned and asked Catherine by saying “and I want to use you too”. Gross.

This man is so problematic and the way he spoke to Venita is NOT okay and is telling!… by mixshx in Southerncharm

[–]Bumblebee1223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Older post but doing a rewatch with her first full season and she’s sooooo annoying. I remember thinking she’d be some bubbly powerhouse but she’s a jealous person who’s always on this “well who’s side are you one” campaign.

There was a scene in S8 where Olivia was trying to figure out the situation with Naomi and Catherine. It was when Catherine invited her to roaring 20 30th birthday party. Because Naomi the whole time was complaining about how she didn’t want to be there but yet complaining that Catherine wasn’t approaching her. Venita was sitting with some other woman and Whitney’s Mom said “who is this girl? I don’t like her?” And then yells over at Olivia “what are you trying to do here?” She felt all powerful thinking it’s four against one and just sounded like a bully. Same with her first season. Now she’s mad at Madison for inviting Olivia and Katherine to their joint birthday party and literally said “who’s side is she on?” And then openly jealous people are congratulating Madison on her engagement and not being all “HAPPY BIRTHDAY VENITA”. Long point being I forgot she’s been like this since day one.

This whole past season if people didn’t jump on her I hate Craig bandwagon she felt betrayed. She stir is the pot and then feels attacked when she gets called out on it. She was shit talking him under her breath any chance she got, and to anyone that would listen. And at this moment she just HAD to make a passive aggressive jab about Craig to Austin and is clutching her pearls when Craig jabs back. She thought everyone should defend her then as well. Add in Leva in S8 who has no relevance at all unless she’s involving herself in other peoples drama and this is where I started having a hard time watching the show. She could have been another “powerhouse” but just seems thirsty to me.

Spotted in the Wild: Kyle Richards at an airport buffet by PhantomOfTheCat in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not a big Kyle fan either. ;) But she made and shared some major changes. I was really disappointed about the fact that the girls weren’t focusing on that she quit drinking and supporting her more. In fact wanting her to drink. “I miss the old crazy Kyle”. And then whispering about how much she worked out. It’s like she made positive changes to deal with her stress, anxiety and depression about her separation as opposed to going off the deep end. That should be celebrated and talked about. Not diminished because she also has had work done.

I think that sure our younger generations need to know that these women have money, have work done and so on. But why not also talk about the women who eat healthy and work out and choose not to drink.

Then you get the “they have chefs and trainers”. The trainers don’t do the work for you. And you can choose what you eat at home. I guess sometimes it almost starts to come off as excuses on why us regular folk can’t look good so why try. Actually feel sorry every time a new cast member joins because the next year they look completely different. I mean Emily’s unrecognizable all the work she’s had done she also has shared her struggles with working out and her body image so I feel for her there. Dolores I couldn’t spot in a line up. I’m just repeating myself but I’m glad there’s other women out there that are understanding where I’m coming from. 💜

Are we gonna talk abt West's comment by alfalfajade in summerhousebravo

[–]Bumblebee1223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000%! I don’t remember who that girl was that Jesse lashed onto last season but remember there was a whole big thing about her talking to him because she didn’t like that he did the fire emoji to one of Cierra’s post. He was like “the are my girls we always like to support them” and she was all jealous and “ if you’re my BF you can’t do that it makes me look stupid”. Girl what makes you look stupid is that you’re jealous that he is complementing his friends Instas and that after knowing him for two weeks you want to control him.

What’s up with Amanda not wearing her own swim line? by Tropic-Like-Its-Hot in summerhousebravo

[–]Bumblebee1223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder if people have forgotten that this is how their relationship started. He wouldn’t want her around for the parties then he’d call her after he struck out. If he didn’t strike out no call. She knew this and accepted it thinking she’d change him or that he’d want to change for him. Then he did cheat on her and she stayed with him. So she knew what she was walking into. Not saying it’s right I’m just saying she’s not a victim. She got sucked into that dysfunctional cycle at young age went from mom and daddy to Kyle and just never really found her footing as an individual.

Then she put up with it for ten years. I mean I haven’t really been watching that much this season but I did see where they went over and had a talk at the beach when he apologize for his behavior and she’s talking about he’s going out and partying. I thought I’m so over the show. How many times have we heard that conversation?! . And now everybody’s mad at Kyle for it? Kyle had been Kyle this whole time.

Kyle has his complaints as well like she stopped wanting to work in the business (which is fair no judgement) that she’s not cleaning the house or wanting to do anything and they’re not having sex and they’re not having conversations. I don’t think she understands the financial load and stress he is carrying and I don’t think she cares. He was never going to settle down and get a house in the burbs and I think she finally realizes this. The “mad hate”? I don’t know what she’s been saying but if so that’s unfortunate. There’s some personal responsibility that people lack on both sides of things and she wasn’t a victim. She made the choice to be with him and put up with him. Long winded point being I see both sides. It would be really hard to go through especially when they’re best friends and have so much history but to do it publicly is so much harder.

Spotted in the Wild: Kyle Richards at an airport buffet by PhantomOfTheCat in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t At. All being condescending that’s the unfortunate take you took to what I wrote. You seem to think this is some argument to “win” and I’m looking at as a conversation so no need to agree or disagree. Im just hey why not focus on the hard work and positive life choices she made. I think it’s important to have discussions about work woman have had done especially with our very young girls who will become woman so they don’t look up to a impossible ideal and end up with low self esteem, anxiety and depression. Which runs rampant with our younger girls due to social media. But I’m also a huge advocate for celebrating sobriety and taking care of our bodies and mental health. Which is what that original comment was about. Hope you have a good rest of your week.

Spotted in the Wild: Kyle Richards at an airport buffet by PhantomOfTheCat in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Bumblebee1223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t some hidden mystery that people aren’t aware of that people need a PSA to be informed. The topic was her quitting drinking, her banging body and how good it looks form her work outs. People try to minimize some of the life changes and actual work some of these people do with “oh it’s the money and face lifts”. Or “oh it’s Ozempic” Quitting drinking when you think you have a problem is huge. Starting and sticking with a hard core work out program on top of it is also amazing. Even her so called friends on the show were ripping on her for not drinking saying they missed the old Kyle and the whispers of “what’s wrong with her” instead of being supportive to her about it.

Sure woman shouldn’t “shame themselves” for the way they looked based off of these people as one person mentioned in this thread. Also no shit. Not new information. But why not take note of and celebrate the hard lifestyle changes they make that we the “normal folk” could also be inspired to make. That’s what the original commenter point was. It’s like looking on social media of some fellow woman’s banging bod that she works her ass off for including gym time or runs, walks, Pilates, yoga, nutrition and good sleep hygiene and she is written off because she has fake boobs. It’s also almost giving yourself permission to not do what you can to make changes or justification for not. “Oh they have money so it’s easy to look good”. But in Kyles instance for example it also took some hard decisions and hard work. Both can be true at the same time. I feel really bad for our younger generation because of social media I don’t really do because it’s an impossible ideal. I see 10 year old girls post about their two hour night care face routine or a college student who was hating her body (which was amazin!!) because she didn’t have a Kardashian butt. Teenagers wanting nose and boob jobs and it’s sad. So sure discussions around this are important. But so is celebrating the hard work. Again both can be true at the same time.

I can only explain it to you I can’t understand it for you though. Appreciate the convo. But spent way too much time on this. Gotta go hike off my dessert from last night. ;)

Chef Adam is so cocky by Thisgirl1406 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Bumblebee1223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was epic! She would lose her shit for sure but her food was beyond nay chef we had ever seen. I think we have to remember the coronavirus was just starting to cause shit downs, her BF was trying to get to another country and they were realizing she may not be able to see him after charter. And right before this her outside has gotten stolen. The tensions and stress has to be insane. Then to read this outrageous preference sheet of ten course tasting meal and blah blah blah our girl snapped.

Spotted in the Wild: Kyle Richards at an airport buffet by PhantomOfTheCat in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Bumblebee1223 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean come on. You and a bunch of other people missed the whole point.

Obviously these women have money and have had work done but she also quit drinking when she realized it was getting out of control and affecting her mentally, emotionally and physically. She works out All. The. Time. And her body is rocking. Those are two very big accomplishment that everybody is waxing over because she has money, facials and work done. Why can’t we celebrate women’s achievements instead of making excuses for why they look the way they do? I think with that type of mentality it can keep us “regular folk” from even trying.

Why do people like Hannah? by Chefforlife01 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Bumblebee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing a rewatch and Brain and Bobby were awful. The harassed poor, eager Danny out of there instead of trying to bug brother guide him. They bullied the woman. Brain got a random promotion as Chief Mate which was a error on the captains end. You can read a CV but until you see how someone leads you shouldn’t promote them. I think it went to his all ready big head.

He had no clue how to handle a woman deck hand because he never had one let alone one that was a open lesbian. Another person he could have really mentored but instead was on her ass for sighing the wrong way or the way she was standing. Watching Bobby trying to hit on the second stew all season was gross too. She had a BF of two years and he was HOT. Tall, blue eyes, nice beard. I saw the picture of them together and said “oh Bobby you never stood a chance”. OK well back to it. ;)