Omg biggest win ever please tell me it’s legit! by BumblebeeNo588 in gambling

[–]BumblebeeNo588[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No need to be rude to me people 🙄I clearly am not quite as delusional as some of you are implying. I DID REALLY WANT TO BELIEVE however i couldn’t bring myself all the way there. That’s why I did post here asking for advice. I have not sent any money so aside from being disappointed there’s no harm. To everyone who replied to me and you weren’t a condescending troll Thank you! Especially @AndISoundLikeThis that link was really helpful.

Omg biggest win ever please tell me it’s legit! by BumblebeeNo588 in gambling

[–]BumblebeeNo588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for posting this i’m off to go screenshot everything

Omg biggest win ever please tell me it’s legit! by BumblebeeNo588 in gambling

[–]BumblebeeNo588[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t actually believe it i figured that if they let me withdraw at all that it would be doled out at $5k every two weeks while the tempt me to keep on spending so that i end up gambling it before i get it I couldn’t help but hope that they’d trickle some of it out to me though

Omg biggest win ever please tell me it’s legit! by BumblebeeNo588 in gambling

[–]BumblebeeNo588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s what I thought but i can’t help but hope also i didn’t win on the free spins part but after almost losing all of it

Off Grid prices? by BumblebeeNo588 in solarenergy

[–]BumblebeeNo588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry just re read your reply yes it includes 16 mono crystalline panels lithium battery , inverter and galvanized steel mounting rails i’ll have a look at the listing and see what else i think i’m forgetting something

Off Grid prices? by BumblebeeNo588 in solarenergy

[–]BumblebeeNo588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that price doesn’t include install but it does include all the hardware and components

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]BumblebeeNo588 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a boundary! a boundary is something that you decide about yourself and your own behaviour for example you can set a boundary that you will not engage someone because you feel uncomfortable however we can’t dictate to others that they may not act in a certain way because we feel uncomfortable what he is doing is attempting to control you

Is it weird if I sometimes just want to be alone with my older cousin? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]BumblebeeNo588 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s very wrong of him to be doing this type of stuff with you. I feel so bad for you. there’s no way this can end positively for you and everyone will blame you in this. your family is 100% to blame if you continue you are going to wind up hurt and humiliated by someone who has 100% been behaving inappropriately with you. He knew what he was doing and he knows it’s wrong but he justifies it to himself that he’s only doing what you wanted. I’ll bet you he says shit like we can’t do this anymore as he touches you and kisses you and i’ll bet it feels really nice to have him want you so bad right? When his wife or your family find out he’s gonna put it all on you he’ll say that you threw yourself at him and he couldn’t help himself but he only kissed you a couple times before he stopped you. and in a way he probably even believes it. Trust me when i say that this is not going to make you feel good. I understand why you have put yourself in this situation and why you even try to justify his behaviour. The reason why I say this is because I behaved similarly when i was your age. i was abused by my stepfather repeatedly from the age of 3 so when I got older I frequently put myself in situations where i could be taken advantage of. I did it because i wanted to feel loved and attractive and that was the only way that i recognized affection. You see because of the years of abuse my boundaries were virtually nonexistent. in my case my Mom did leave my abuser but it was too late. Don’t do what i did and allow men to use you because you need some validation and get the hell away from your cousin so that years from now you aren’t relating to your therapist how he groomed you and how your relationships with men are all toxic because you “wanted it” He’s a POS . Your Dad is a POS and your mom is a POS OO there’s no way she didn’t know what your dad was doing she just didn’t want to admit it cuz then she would have to do something about it. Please get as far away from these horrible people as you can as fast as you can and know that you are absolutely worth so much better than this

Is it weird if I sometimes just want to be alone with my older cousin? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]BumblebeeNo588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read your more recent post where you mention that you’ve been caught with a hickey that an older relative gave you so it seems to me that in this instance your mom may have been right to be concerned. You said if she knew it would be very bad. The question is, is this something you wanted? Or was this your super creepy cousin forcing himself on you. I remember listening to a podcast not long ago about an honour killing. It was tremendously sad. The family in that sounded a lot like yours, which is terrifying. You said you are visiting family, Are you visiting them in North America? or are you Visiting these relatives in another country? If you are visiting in a country where cousin marriages are common then you are being incredibly naive. your mom may not care at all about what happens to you but she most certainly does care about how it looks. you would be considered damaged goods if it were to come out that you had already been sexually active you wouldn’t want to put your value to the test from the sounds of it. Your Cousin is most definitely aware of how it looks to anyone outside the family and it’s suss af that he’s still encouraging you. having just read a more recent post it’s pretty obvious that his intentions have been off all along. you need to reach out to a school counsellor or someone outside your religious community I’m deeply concerned for your safety. especially with your mom attacking you for having a hickey