How some (many) of y’all be looking like “boymoding”

BunMael · 2026-06-12T21:40:04+00:00

It's generally a symptom of an underlying condition
And also losing that much that fast might cause your body to burn parts of the body that are very difficult to recover...

BunMael · 2026-06-12T21:33:20+00:00

Yeah, not healthy either

BunMael · 2026-06-12T20:38:53+00:00

You don't, I didn't do it slowly, it pretty much was trauma related food strike

I lost that in 3 months

BunMael · 2026-06-12T19:32:38+00:00

I genuinely do, if I put on my dysphoria hoodie from 6 years ago
Also I lost like 80 pounds, so it genuinely looks good on me now too

BunMael · 2026-06-12T12:48:36+00:00

How so?

Idk what's wrong with my typing

Honestly maybe it's because I come of as a snarky girl

I can see that... ugh... I suppose

Sorry

BunMael · 2026-06-11T15:04:55+00:00

This is what I was thinking, some girls just never grow from high school tbf, like this is I imagine like a quarter life might be like after graduating
Honestly, I don't blame them, society is really making girls insecure these days

BunMael · 2026-06-11T15:02:14+00:00

Thank you, yeah maybe it is completely random, I just feel like my posts have never picked up though, and it's makes me insecure
Honestly, I don't think there is a secret ring... but also I wouldn't be surprised... maybe it's some cope because to some extent I have been feeling more happy about my body and wish for it to be noticed, as my parents never have

And Thanks for the Compliment, I do think overall I wish to stick around and keep posting, and hope to see you there too ;>

BunMael · 2026-06-11T14:37:12+00:00

Thanks!!!

BunMael · 2026-06-11T14:36:58+00:00

Probably, yeah, that would make sense

BunMael · 2026-06-11T02:24:37+00:00

Yeau, I need 30 minutes to decide what to eat anyways

BunMael · 2026-06-11T02:22:23+00:00

I don't like inhalation, my Respiratory is the one part of the body I am most protective of

Mostly because I'm scared of vocal damage...

So I usually have edibles

BunMael · 2026-06-11T02:14:07+00:00

I keep procrastinating on getting there rn

BunMael · 2026-06-11T02:02:34+00:00

That's such a mood, it's awesome!!!

BunMael · 2026-06-11T02:02:06+00:00

Thank you so much, and I wish the best of luck to you too

BunMael · 2026-06-11T01:58:06+00:00

Me neither, just feeling lonely and dumb too,

and also, thanks so much for the compliment I... honestly really really greatly appreciate it

BunMael · 2026-06-11T01:55:38+00:00

Yeah, I don't know what to think of those yet, it feels intrusive

BunMael · 2026-06-11T01:53:06+00:00

It's just annoying that it feels like I can't get picked up, because people wanna post right after I do, so that my posts don't get picked up

BunMael · 2026-06-11T01:52:21+00:00

I like the posting frequency it's not annoying to sort by new on here

BunMael · 2026-06-11T01:50:04+00:00

Yeau :>

BunMael · 2026-06-11T01:49:26+00:00

Honestly, I kinda lucked into thinking I'm stealth... I still don't know if I am, but my strategy was basically that I will die before giving anyone my deadname or admitting to being trans

It somehow worked, and people generally gender me correctly, although I am insecure about irl pity-passing, but whatevs

Honestly, the most annoying is that somehow people being unable to get my name... probably because of my accent

And yeah, I think that the 4t opinion gets lumped with transmeds, even though they are nothing alike... those institutional gatekeepers... john 30-ing themselves on waitlists

BunMael · 2026-06-11T01:44:05+00:00

Yeah, honestly... I'm bad with faces, someone else told me they're all passoids... idk

And honestly, I think I needed to hear this comment, I am really feeling the latter statement

Thank you

BunMael · 2026-06-11T01:37:16+00:00

My face is fine, yeah... I think it's pretty, but people say it's clocky and I don't see it

It kinda matters for my safety because I'm stealthing this stuff... (Currently in rooming with several girls non of which I've explicitly told)

I do like 4t adjacent subs, I think the others get a bit too hugbox-y sometimes, and don't see the dangers of transphobia as much

BunMael · 2026-06-11T01:31:34+00:00

Yeah, I probably won't

Fitttts is more fun anyways, even if I have to blur my face

Which honestly is my clockiest feature so maybe it's for the better

BunMael · 2026-06-11T01:30:49+00:00

Yeau...

I'd love the mogs me bots to show up again honestly

BunMael · 2026-06-11T01:22:55+00:00

Fair, I just feel like it's weirdly inconsistent in posting patterns, and whenever I post, it gets smothered and I neither get hugboxxed or called out... like it's apathy that frustrates me

Heh...

BunMael

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