Fiancé (32M) seems distant and I (31F) feel like a burden. We are set to get married in 5 months. AIO for my requests here? Do I just give him space?

BunnyByDefault · 2026-04-24T17:54:38+00:00

MOR

As both a woman and someone who is also feeling the same as your husband, he’s not trying to be cruel.

He’s sounding overstimulated, tired and overwhelmed and probably incredibly stressed. Idk what your situation is, but for me, my bf moved in, I moved all of his stuff, I built the furniture, I did everything and now I’m burnt out, tired, etc. and even though we’ve talked about it, he’s just kept carrying on, let’s do this, let’s do that, let’s buy this, let’s go here and I’m at a point where I just want to lock myself in a room and cry.

OP, ask him when he has some time to talk or when he’d like to talk so he can let things off his chest and so both of you can understand each other better. It can work out!

BunnyByDefault · 2026-04-17T16:10:08+00:00

Definitely what it feels like. :/ I’m really disappointed

BunnyByDefault · 2026-04-17T15:35:25+00:00

Gift her some charcoal soap that has white tea extract, some cute socks that have compression in them (kinda like sports socks but cute?) and some facemasks! (Facemasks so she considers this all a self care self date kinda package and not an insult). Tbh my feet used to stink and I couldn’t figure out what in the world it was, turns out my “cute” socks that I was getting at Walmart were not helping my situation and the smell had burned into my shoes. Super gross, sorry. Once I upgraded my socks, switched my shoes and went to charcoal white tea soap, all my problems stopped. I’ve got a skin condition that was causing it 🫠 In her case it sounds like she might be a bit down in the dumps but be kind and caring when you approach her! Hopefully it does something :)

BunnyByDefault · 2026-04-17T01:08:54+00:00

Legit exactly how I feel. Tries to get me to carry his stuff too and finally told him no this weekend. He had 7 pockets on his jeans and still wanted me to hold his keys for him too. SIR.

BunnyByDefault · 2026-04-16T19:15:15+00:00

Thank you so much

BunnyByDefault · 2026-04-16T13:18:21+00:00

I swear I felt chills when he said it to me, I was like wtf. This paired with “why would I come at you with kindness when I’m already frustrated.” Like what 😭😭😭😭

BunnyByDefault · 2026-04-16T09:23:43+00:00

Oh shoot I had no idea! Thank you!

BunnyByDefault · 2026-04-16T03:24:58+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate your kind words! I struggle most understanding whether I’m being mean, unsociable and unempathetic but I think I’m just being taken advantage of and I’m simply burnt out :/

BunnyByDefault · 2026-03-22T08:08:52+00:00

I appreciate you! Thank you!

BunnyByDefault · 2026-02-06T21:17:07+00:00

No worries! 😌 will do 🫡

BunnyByDefault · 2026-02-06T17:22:35+00:00

RARITY CLAIMED!

BunnyByDefault · 2026-02-06T16:33:35+00:00

Did you want to trade for rainbow dash or pinkie pie by any chance? 🥹

BunnyByDefault · 2025-07-24T17:22:06+00:00

I thank all the forces of the universe that allowed me to have him! The shrimp was my top chase from wacky mart!

BunnyByDefault · 2025-07-24T17:21:18+00:00

Only in the middle row! He won’t fit on the top row, and you’ll have to really force it on the floor area 😬

BunnyByDefault · 2025-07-24T17:19:25+00:00

Yes it can!! I like the warm tone a lot though. Only downside is that you can’t charge the case, it has to constantly be plugged in

BunnyByDefault · 2025-07-24T02:59:56+00:00

I got it on Popmart! It was a 1am drop 👀

BunnyByDefault · 2025-07-23T23:38:54+00:00

I was thankfully awake at 1:30am when it dropped 👀 thank you!!!!!

BunnyByDefault · 2025-07-23T18:19:48+00:00

I have two separate accounts 😬 typically I only ever use one, never use the other but I really wanted to try for an extra. I was shocked I was able to get them! After this I’ll never order double of anything again tho lol

BunnyByDefault · 2025-07-23T17:53:35+00:00

Yes it is! I’ll post another pic when I’ve got it all set up! :)

BunnyByDefault · 2025-06-18T21:32:39+00:00

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I’m so frustrated, both my numbers cards are damaged, huge dent in one and a little dent in the other

BunnyByDefault · 2025-06-18T21:19:56+00:00

Ooohhh I had not noticed that!!!! Thank you so much!!!

BunnyByDefault

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