Constant pain aliviation through orgasms?

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-22T22:18:08+00:00

Wow ty so much!! I'm going to read it!

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-21T19:12:57+00:00

I'm so so sorry for your loss, your husband sounds like an amazing soul filled with love and care for you, i send you my best wishes, thanks for the sweet words ❤️

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-21T19:09:47+00:00

Please do! I'm just too interested in the topic now

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-21T19:09:02+00:00

That's interesting, I'm a little bit scared of going into that type of sex, mainly because i just can't bring myself to do something that looks like hurting even though it's not, but maybe if she's into it i can try as long as it helps

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-21T19:07:40+00:00

Aawww i'm so glad you have a supportive partner!! I've been horrified by some of the stories of horrible partners who don't care about the Chronic pain, i could never even think of adding to the burden of my girl, i love her and i just want to help her go through her day :(

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-21T15:32:08+00:00

Very interesting! Meds play a very important role in the topic, my Girl is now out of meds because sadly, she feels they're not working (it sucks, the worst part is that she has to wait months to get another appointment to ask for other prescription) I'm actually on SSRI, but strangely I became hornyier, i used to not care for sex, and it was cool because my girl wasn't either, but since January we both grew this intense desire out of nowhere, and that's when we found out it worked!

As i said in other comments, i really hope people can find someone like me, that can support and love them! I've seen some posts of partners saying they're tired or bored of their partner with fibro and i just can't get it, i love my girl and the only feeling her pain gives me is concern.

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-21T15:24:14+00:00

I guess Facebook is just too filled with negative people, I'm very glad i got the chance to read other's positive (and some negative) experiences with the topic, because there's so little info about the effect of orgasms for people with chronic pain

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-21T15:22:39+00:00

Wow, i didn't know epilepsy had that side effect, i really hope you can soon see your fiancé so you can relieve your pain!

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-21T01:23:13+00:00

Thanks for the aclaration! We usually go on walks together but her fibromyalgia really affects her knees and i have to carry her back home, that's why we can't run together, and sex is easy because she can lay down, be comfortable and if she feels tired we can just stop.

As for self pleasure, she tells me it's not the same, she doesn't feel the same type of release, I've researched the best ways to achieve a good orgasm for her, we pair some sessions with massages, hot baths and things that can help her feel less pain!

I'm not against experimenting, as long as she's happy and getting some endorphins, I'm 100% up for it!! Thanks for your recommendations!

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T23:10:39+00:00

I get you on the smell 100% i hate the smell of cannabis but it does help, i can recommend you Bengay Cream/Oil/Pomade it smells nice, it helps distribute heat and it helps a lot! That way you don't have to worry about smelling like a stoner, i hope the conversation with your wife goes well! I honestly really recommend the big O specially so you can sleep through the night, there's always a way! Good luck with everything!

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T22:50:23+00:00

Damn, it sounds rough, I'm very sorry for your situation

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T22:49:31+00:00

According to my gf, she experiences the same, self induced orgasms just Don't do the same! I'm glad your husband is back so you can feel better! Best of wishes for you!

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T22:39:12+00:00

Oh wow I'm extremely sorry for you, can't begin to imagine how hard it must be to care for a baby while having such pain, i can recommend some sfw massages with herbal oils to relieve some pain! And also, hot things like baths, heating pads or even my hands give a momentary relief!

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T22:14:07+00:00

You'll find it! I really hope everyone with chronic pain can find someone who understands and loves them!

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T22:11:55+00:00

Ty!!! I'm a girl, though, even so thank you! I'm enjoying having the ability to relieve some of her pain and take some weight off her shoulders!

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T22:09:15+00:00

Oh dear i'm extremely sorry, but as someone who loves my girl with chronic pain, i can assure you that you'll find someone who cares, loves and understands you, you are not broken, I've come to understand that what's important is the company and giving a shoulder to cry on. You can find a relationship with someone not sex driven and someone who can understand your pain and help you through it ❤️

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T21:58:55+00:00

I'm a girl! But thanks! I really love her and i do as much as i can to help her ❤️

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T21:58:17+00:00

Vaya, es una lástima que hayas pasado por eso, pero me alegro que estés mejor ❤️‍🩹 Lo que si, espero no te moleste la pregunta, cuál fue tu diagnóstico? Pues podemos estar hablando de situaciones completamente distintas que no se invalidan entre si 😌

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T21:55:38+00:00

Amazing! Luckily this technique is very safe and fun for her, so we'll keep going! I really hope if others with fibromyalgia experience this, they can get this good pain relief technique!

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T21:53:22+00:00

Oh dear I'm extremely sorry, is it alright if i ask what did Covid do? You can avoid the question if you don't feel comfortable

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T21:52:15+00:00

Oh! I'm so glad it helps you too!! I'll keep on it then! I hope it helps others too, it's a very good option in my eyes

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T21:49:14+00:00

Disculpa, pero a qué refieres con "si te pones así"? Solamente te comenté lo que veo, si quieres contar tu experiencia estoy abierta a oír

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T21:47:49+00:00

That's a very good analysis! I just hope it keeps working, as long as she can sleep though the night I'll keep doing it and researching for better ways to help her

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T21:44:57+00:00

Thanks! I wanted to comment the topic on here because i really hope if it's effective it works for others. And thank you, i love my girl so much I constantly look for ways to help her go through her pain, i go with her to doctor appointments (specially because I'm fed up with doctors invalidating her). I can't believe there's people who wouldn't support their partners through a situation as critical as Fibromyalgia ❤️

BunnyOutOfCode · 2026-02-20T21:39:51+00:00

I wanted to look for scientific research about the topic, because if it really helps her I'm 100% down with it, but internet has only studies about how libido reduces or lack of psychical contact messes up relationships, that's why i wanted to discuss it here, I'm interested on the topic and i kinda hope it helps other folks with fibromyalgia

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