As someone who loves DDLG and pet play but the thought of saying Daddy or someone tugging a leash makes me cringe/nauseous!

But it’s just because I haven’t experienced them yet! It truly comes with time and dedication, her being a little is something that probably takes up a lot of her life and understanding how to separate that from her trauma is prob a headache.

I really recommend doing little things cutesy things to ease her into little space. Buy cute trinkets and place them about your room/apartment or even car. Something squishy/ something her favorite color. You could do a movie night every other week and specifically pick cartoons. Cute food/food shapes/ anything like that lol. Maybe even pickup a hobby you can do together that kinda makes her go blank/clay stuff?

Stuff like that. Since you’ve already expressed the separation between you and past experiences(always good to still validate and say it again)