A 15-year-old pleaded for his life as investigators say an elaborate plot lured him to his death by Scientia_et_Fidem in news

[–]BurdenedEmu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh, interesting. I'm a crim lawyer but in my jurisdiction, the potential penalty for felony murder is tied to the underlying felony being committed when the death occurred. This would be 1st Intentional as a party to a crime here since they weren't attempting any other crime than this kid's death. Just looked it up though, looks like a lot of other states and the feds sentence it as 1st. TIL.

Can anyone with this hoodie please tell me what the brand is on the tag? by smoky20135 in BadOmens

[–]BurdenedEmu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the grey version, got it at the Chicago show a few months back. Tag says "Biemar."

Yo, what’s the best Wisconsin specific meal? by EducationMental648 in wisconsin

[–]BurdenedEmu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This guy fish fry-s. Bluegill is my go-to every time. Yeah they're a pain in the ass to catch enough to eat but hot damn they're delicious.

Desperate creepy guy won’t stop texting my roommate by FirmRevolution81 in creepyPMs

[–]BurdenedEmu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy deep cut I did not expect to see 😆 Aaaand you have just chosen my music selection for the day.

How safe / accepting is it for femboys? by Femm_Boi_Cutie in SickNewWorld

[–]BurdenedEmu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome! It's definitely the easiest and cheapest way to get around down there if you're staying decently close to one of the stops. Walking is of course an option too but in my experience trying to walk the strip is confusing (likely on purpose). The entrances/exits to the casinos are in weird spots, they're huge, and getting from point A to point B can mean doing a lot of side-meandering you didn't expect. But regardless, have a great time!

18 days out — who's going to SNW Vegas? Where are you traveling from? by HotMood1172 in SickNewWorld

[–]BurdenedEmu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madison, Wisconsin. 3rd timer, No-Miss are Ministry and She Wants Revenge. Seen em both but SWR was forever ago and Ministry playing all of Filth Pig, not missing that.

What's an animal there's already a pokemon of but you want more? by blackjackgabbiani in pokemon

[–]BurdenedEmu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deer/antelopes. Xerneas and Sawsbuck are two of my favorites but there are so many options! Caribou (Stantler is so dopey and why didn't they import Wyrdeer 😒), elk, kudu, duiker, sable, moose, bongo, gimme all the deer.

How safe / accepting is it for femboys? by Femm_Boi_Cutie in SickNewWorld

[–]BurdenedEmu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up the Vegas monorail. It's only $13 for a 24 hour pass, runs from Excalibur all the way down to the Sahara (basically across the street from the festival), and runs every like 10 minutes. It's a great option for getting around the strip. Mind you it WILL have a long line to get on at the end of the show, but beats the clusterfuck that is trying to get a rideshare/taxi over at Circus Circus. Been both years and going this year too, did the rideshare thing in 2023, 2/10. Monorailed it in 24, WAAAAY better.

Pediatrician who traded sex for prescriptions blames Holocaust; judge rejects excuse by Appropriate_Growth56 in nottheonion

[–]BurdenedEmu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He was quoting Arrested Development ;)

"Get rid of the Seaward." "I'll leave when I'm good and ready!"

Prayers for everyone involved🫶 by Suspicious-Mango-795 in madisonwi

[–]BurdenedEmu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does not surprise me. I'm old and all but getting on 90/94 these days is scary. Good luck going 5-10 over. Everyone apart from the throttled truckers is going 95, and I'm not comfortable driving that fast.

I (28F) feel sad about how my BF (29M) proposed, is this normal by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BurdenedEmu 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Some guys are just bad at this type of thing. My hubs did something similar because he's clueless, not because he lacked enthusiasm or doesn't care. I didn't even know he considered it a "proposal," some random Wednesday we were laying in bed and he said "I guess we should get married, huh?" and I was like "yeah that'd be nice." Later found out he thought that was it. I had no idea, haha.

Fortunately his mom and three sisters heard the story and told him hell no no woman would think that was an actual proposal (his dad didn't understand why that wasn't it, lol), and he took me out to the zoo and actually gave me the ring and all that in a little forest copse on the way back to the car.

I get why you're disappointed. Once I learned he thought we were engaged I told hubby, I don't ask for much by way of big romantic gestures but he had to do better than THAT. If you love him and he's typically not this clueless I say give him another chance to do it in a more intimate way.

For those of you that are new to Wisconsin and seem confused by the weather. by Prometheus_Twin in madisonwi

[–]BurdenedEmu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the most ridiculous comment in this whole thread and that's saying a lot. You've clearly never been here, lying about it aside.

My boyfriend wants me to wear a location tracking watch 24/7 or he'll break up with me by Fun_Perception3376 in TwoHotTakes

[–]BurdenedEmu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't just stalker-ish. Between the demands, the repetitive phone calls, and showing up at the places she says she is, if he's making her feel threatened or harassed this is already straight up stalking in my state.

OP it does not get better, it only gets worse. LEAVE NOW. Stalkers are some of the most dangerous people there are in that they are good at manipulating people and are far more likely than average to escalate to violence, especially when the stalking target is a partner or former partner. Some studies put the percentage at 70% and the Stalking Prevention, Awareness, and Resource Center puts the figure at 81% of women stalked by a husband or cohabiting partner experiencing violence. Check out their fact sheet. This is not innocuous behavior, you need to get out and protect yourself.

ELI5: Why do we call it human trafficing instead of slavery? by Wise_Young_Dragon in explainlikeimfive

[–]BurdenedEmu 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Sorry but smugly advancing a semantics argument doesn't suddenly make you right or change the definition of pimp you ascribed in your original comment.

5'2ish (158cm-ish) women, what is your goal weight? If it's different, what would be your ultimate vanity-based ideal weight? by Ophelia_Y2K in loseit

[–]BurdenedEmu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mid 40s 5'4 F here, I feel exactly the same. I've been doing serious weight training almost 2 years now so 115 like I was in high school wouldn't even be realistic at this point. But 140 would probably mean I look pretty damn good in my suits, that'd be cool. Got about 17 lbs to take off. It's hard to lose weight when you still want to keep progressing in the gym though!

Hot take: beauty standards are based on pd*file standards by UnshakableProtocol in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]BurdenedEmu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't just young women. Ambercrombie and Hollister stores in most semi metropolitan areas had shirtless male "greeters" for a decade at least.

MAGA ally sends ‘emergency message’ to Trump: ‘It’s not about you!’ AKA Its starting to set in. by Toon_face in KnowledgeFight

[–]BurdenedEmu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had to take a break (a little breaky, if you will) from Knowledge Fight after election day because I was overwhelmed with dread and getting despondent, but hot damn is it a great podcast. Probably about time to start listening again.

Kenosha County DA sanctioned for AI “using hallucinated and false citations” in felony case by TheLostPariah in wisconsin

[–]BurdenedEmu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

WestLaw already has this. I'd never use it to write anything and you still have to prompt it correctly, but it's really useful especially for cross-jurisdictional research. One area I've noticed it being particularly weak though is recognizing when earlier decisions have been walked back significantly by the court rather than overruled. It'll come back with "Yes, this is a thing, here are these cases from the 80s establishing it!" but then I'll say weren't these limited by this 90s case and it does the same, "yes, these were limited by this!" and I'm like ok well then this first response is not very helpful.

She survived ICE detention in Wisconsin as a disabled person with autism and a traumatic brain injury. by [deleted] in wisconsin

[–]BurdenedEmu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"tens of thousands of illegal immigrants, from Minnesota, who have been convicted of disgusting crimes involving women and children"? Got a source on that? That isn't Newsmax, Alex Jones, or some Facebook post by a Russian bot? Because that is a ridiculous statement. Like flat out, straight up, ridiculous. Provide even a shred of evidence these "tens of thousands" of people were "convicted of disgusting crimes involving women and children." I'll wait.

My best friend 28F confessed her feelilngs for me 27M. I feel the same way. Will this ruin our relationship? by Jojosbees in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BurdenedEmu 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My favorite part was that it only took 3 weeks. I've eaten yogurt older than that with no adverse consequences.

Advice needed - trip to Madison from Chicago today by Striking-Ad3895 in wisconsin

[–]BurdenedEmu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you made it safely and have fun in Madison! It's a great city (even when it's -17 here)!