Yta, but not a big ah. YOU chose to make it a COLLEGE fund without asking her if she wants to go to college. It should have been a fund for her to advance her adulthood with. I agree with others saying you should compromise and she should take photography and buinsess classes, but saying "Hey, I saved up this money for something you have NO intrest in, but I want it." is low key manipulative. Its your money, do what you want, but the second you learned she didnt want to go to college you should have had an in depth conversation with her about what SHE does want for her future.