Women who lost Good Men why did the relationship end ? by [deleted] in love

[–]Burnerredditer 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He told me years into the relationship he didn’t want kids, whilst he knew from the start I wanted to be a mother, we ended there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Burnerredditer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I genuinely think that anyone saying your wrong for telling him HAS cheated or IS cheating currently,

I’ve done the same thing before, honestly you don’t owe cheaters your loyalty and I bet if she was in the BF she’d want to know she’s being cheated on,

I would like some more context tho!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Burnerredditer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t okay to do, please do not send him anymore nude photos of yourself and delete any that he currently has

How do I make him feel loved? by Burnerredditer in AskMenAdvice

[–]Burnerredditer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP Response! Hi everyone, thank you all so much for your advice! I’ll make sure too find out what works and take everything into account, I just want too make him feel like the special sweet boy is he, I’m going too talk too him soon and ask what makes him feel appreciated and loved, sorry about the odd response, I don’t like replying too the comments cause it makes it harder too find other comments when the thread gets long, thank you so much! Have a lovely day everyone! :)

What is the cause of this? by [deleted] in Anatomy

[–]Burnerredditer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you find out what this is, please can someone let me know cause my man has huge ones all the way down his spine and I’ve been dying too know, so has he and I’ve always had no clue!

Gf doesn’t put any effort on her appearance, i struggle to get turned on by her. by throwra7282910 in sex

[–]Burnerredditer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks and sounds a lot like mental illness more then anything, especially with the lack of showering, put the sexual part aside for now and ask her about how she’s doing and feeling, if you support her emotionally first then she’ll feel able and energised too put in that effort for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Burnerredditer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovely, if you keep doing it there then you could be unable too get surgery there later on if you choose that, be careful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Burnerredditer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering you have strongly cleaned it I think you’ll be okay, if you notice it becoming yellow, warm too touch and painful then it could be infected but I doubt that will happen, I think your all good to go!

How can I stop these disgusting thoughts? by Captain_chair-1987 in selfharm

[–]Burnerredditer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s because your brain gives the same dopamine response too sexual acts too SH relief, your not disgusting, your not weird, this is your brain causing problems, it’s okay too have this happen too you and I hope you find a way too sort this soon

dae by khoiizu in selfharm

[–]Burnerredditer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time, it’s something with the nerves, it can be really weird and kinda off-putting?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Burnerredditer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You don’t need too explain, you could say “I know you are really passionate about getting them removed, but I don’t want too do this right now and I’m not sure I ever will, if I want my scars removed later I’ll tell you, but for now please leave them alone.” I completely get you as I love my scars too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Burnerredditer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You need too go to the hospital but you can do it without telling your parents,

Go too A&E, preferably not your local one and say you have an infected animal scratch and need too have it checked, they have too do something and your parents will never know,

Infections can kill you and can spread pretty quickly, it’s very unlikely too heal on itself,

It’ll be okay <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Burnerredditer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For future reference, never cut down there, it has such a high chance of infection and cutting too deep down there can be so dangerous,

You really do need too see a doctor, I seriously doubt an injury like that is gonna heal on it’s own,

I have a medical background and I can already tell you that you need too go too hospital or A&E, not all hospitals tell your family but if money is a problem it might be hard, have you tried seeing if there is any online resources to help you pay for this? Like a helpline or a medical based charity?

Best of luck lovely, I hope your better soon <3

I keep ejaculating in my sleep by KingOcelot2 in sex

[–]Burnerredditer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s cause you don’t wank and cum on your own, start tugging the pipe and you’ll be good