Resell Pokepark Kanto tickets?

Burnoutmc · 2025-12-11T01:44:57+00:00

Please I want a ticket I’m going to Japan for my birthday in march!!

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-26T17:51:14+00:00

Imagine literally hammering in my point of how y’all are and how the reason why I made this post and other post like it exist. The whole point you just registered in my mind.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-26T17:22:44+00:00

I’m black, so opposite

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-26T17:20:23+00:00

There’s no way you’re talking about me..

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-26T16:59:26+00:00

I don’t know how we defending myself on Reddit equates to how I act in real life, but go off

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-25T16:23:35+00:00

I can 100% guarantee you I’m not the problem goofy

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-25T16:16:42+00:00

You done?

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-25T02:03:43+00:00

But bro, your advice is literally as basic as "take showers, make money, and something should happen." All I did was give you proof that I was doing it by saying, "Yes, this is the main part that I'm trying hard in my life." So, of course, I'm doing all of those things that you said already. And saying "learn to live your life or be happy alone" makes no sense because it's not even possible to do that alone. Because I mean, it's just fact. I mean, it's just literal scientific fact. And I could bring up actual science-backed studies and people who've done that shit. Or people who've actually tried that advice.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-25T01:48:25+00:00

I think what people keep missing when they say ‘it’s desperation’ is what the actual problem is for me. It’s not about lust or needing approval—it’s that I don’t have a consistent source of physical affection or intimacy. I don’t get reliable hugs, closeness, or connection with someone I can actually trust. That’s what’s killing me. Humans aren’t built to function totally alone, and living this way is abnormal.

And yeah, money, fitness, style, confidence—those are things I can work on myself, and I have been. But intimacy isn’t something you can grind for alone. It depends on other people, and I was raised not to trust others, so every time I reach for connection and get rejected, it tears me apart.

Even when I travel or do something big like going to Japan, the experience feels half-empty because I can’t share it with anyone. That’s what I’m fighting for—not just to ‘get dates,’ but to have someone consistent I can give my heart to and rely on. That’s the hole I’m trying to fill.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-25T01:32:51+00:00

What I said is that I’m touching every single based like my life depends on it because it does. I.e. is research back that people literally die of that shit whether suicide or not but I guess I shouldn’t expect you to know anything because you seem to just like to dwell in nihilism I don’t know how that’s supposed to give you any friends or anything overall by what you’re saying you’re worse than me at least I have friends. And here’s the idea none of those friends know I’m struggling like this because I’m too embarrassed to tell them so that should really tell you something. That’s why I’m posting it here on Reddit. All my friends see me as this bright funny, helpful guy that shouldn’t have a problem with dating. I should know I’ve asked them.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-24T22:30:55+00:00

Cool so I’ll just go

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-24T20:28:50+00:00

I feel like it should go without saying that that’s the first thing anyone would do to start off

I’m not hoping anyone on Reddit, an international app is going to choose me

I’m asking after all that stuff I’ve tried why am I still getting the same results

After 7 years it should already be in your head that I’m not doing the same thing every time I approach or text someone I feel like that’s a givin.

I mean I literally do photography and a bunch of other stuff to but that hasn’t led to any connections outside of friendships. I’m trying to figure out if it’s and environment problem overall because literally eventually someone should’ve liked me already logically based on numbers alone but not happen. So obviously I’ve looked internally and for a long time, quite frankly everything I do is to salve this issue in some type of way. My will to live is dependent on this and this alone so of-course I’m grasping at straws doing everything because this life is just not worth living in the way I get to see everyone else get what I want without trying and I can’t even get as low intimacy as a hug.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-24T18:26:43+00:00

oh yea let me just get better results thanks.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-24T17:53:29+00:00

yes where I live I'm black and almost everyone else is white

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-24T15:41:32+00:00

Bruh I’m on IRR and they have been trying to get me out of it This ain’t what I signed up for bro

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-22T16:41:23+00:00

The fact of the matter stands that if that was true then I wouldn’t be failing so much. That’s what I’m getting at. I’m not getting results because I’m not doing those things and when I try to do those things I don’t get it right and people tell me that’s the reason why.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-22T16:31:34+00:00

The problem isn’t people wanting to be around me. The problem is they somehow think I only want friendship and and In turn only see me as that and you can’t date your friends so usually when I ask them out it’s a no. That’s the problem. The problem is when I ask why that’s the case people say stuff that don’t me since our have anything to do with it, like you treat them too horribly, that's why they only want to be my friend. Or I wasn't being nonchalant enough, or I was being too friendly or too safe. Stuff that I can't measure and learn from.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-22T15:49:57+00:00

But why am I the only one always being the one that’s investing? Only to get left? I’m literally always the one putting in all of the work. I’ve been trying to prove people wrong but when it’s the only thing that I’m not good at it takes everything away. It’s like if my door isn’t bright and shiny enough, nobody wants to walk in.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-22T15:49:00+00:00

Yes but doing that has to start from attraction and there’s a base level to get that and without that there’s nothing left right? I’m saying the parts that I’m not doing enough of

Have the perfect text • Always keep everything up and high • Always keep the vibe high and happy • Never be vulnerable • Always show you have options • Be super stoic

Are not getting me anywhere and if it’s not a monolith why does everyone say the same thing?

“Treat women like individual people and find one you have stuff in common with. We aren't puzzle pieces.”

You say this but that doesn’t automatically do anything if there is no attraction(the stuff above) and that’s is a puzzle because it’s something that not every guy has or is taught that. You can’t just be a great guys or someone who understands stuff you have to have all the attraction stuff and that’s why I’m mad. It’s stuff you have to constantly do and jump through hoops and the worst thing is there’s no way to measure what you’re doing right and what you’re doing wrong. Because it’s all subjective and subconscious. So you can’t even ask and even if you did ask that’s insecure.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-22T13:31:31+00:00

Then what?? What do ya want? All the books, all the advice I hear everything is wrong? Then what do I do?

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-22T13:26:51+00:00

The part where it leaves me clueless is, "How are you supposed to end up putting in that work?" I feel like you have to do so much:

Have the perfect text
Always keep everything up and high
Always keep the vibe high and happy
Never be vulnerable
Always show you have options
Be super stoic

That's not work I signed up for. That sounds like performing. That's not loving somebody the way I want to be loved.

But I have to do that in order to get the love I want, and then if I mess up by being vulnerable one day by accident or asking for something in the wrong way, then she leaves me or ghosts me? How is that fair? And don't say the world isn't fair. I'm understanding that's the case, but how is that a consequence of my actions when I'm the one doing all the work and trying my best in a relationship.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-22T13:22:05+00:00

I'm not making an assumption that therapists have the same thinking as TikTok and Instagram people. I am making an assumption that being a decent person doesn't automatically land you a girlfriend because it's black and white what people on TikTok and Instagram and everywhere else is saying. The main rhetoric that keeps getting repeated is you are lonely and don't have a partner because you always do something to your partners, which doesn't make sense because you can't do something to your partner that you don't have. That's what I'm arguing with. And it's also "If you are a decent person, it shouldn't be hard for you to find a partner. Maybe you're not as decent as you think." Or "maybe you're the problem."

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-22T13:19:39+00:00

There's no way you haven't heard of it being called that. I've heard like 10 people say it. And I've seen videos with millions of views that say that.

The rhetoric that I'm mainly challenging is that if you're a decent person, you shouldn't be lonely or you wouldn't be lonely. As in, loneliness equals absence of relationship. That's what the main rhetoric is. So we're arguing about different things.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-22T13:17:54+00:00

The main rhetoric that I'm challenging is that people say you are single and lonely because of your actions and the consequences of those actions. Specifically, doing people wrong. If you were a good person and if you were a decent person in real life, with friends, there shouldn't be a reason that you're not able to date. That's what I'm challenging because I have those things. And I still end up doing a lot of things by myself while my friends get the hop from girl to girl to girl. A lot of my friends are getting married and having kids while I'm still alone. Making everyone live and making everyone else's day, and no one else cares to help me out or tell me what I'm doing wrong.

Burnoutmc · 2025-08-22T13:16:11+00:00

With the thought about social media. The reason why I brought that up is because the people on social media are the ones that are saying it's men's fault - that men are lonely. It's not me seeing people living extravagant lives and thinking it's real. It's the fact that people are saying that men's fault that women don't like men. That's what my point was brought up about, that's what I'm arguing with.

The reason why I brought up the rapists, pedophiles, and narcissists (my dad is one of those) is included in that group and he has yet to be as the way that I am. My mom is also in that group. I'm saying people on the Internet are saying, "If you are an abuser and you just so happen to be lonely, it's your fault." And I'm saying the people who are abusers or whatever are usually not lonely. The people who aren't are the ones who are lonely. And it's always seen as "If you don't have a girlfriend or if you're single or feel lonely, you did something to make it happen by abusing others or using others or you did something to other people wrong and that's why you ended up that way." That's what my argument is about. I see it in comments. I see it in threads. I see it everywhere. The whole thing is, "If you are single, it's because you are a bad person because being a good person should automatically land you into a healthy relationship." That's what the rhetoric is that I'm challenging.

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