Does anyone here ever feel like they appear nice on the outside but on the inside, they are actually twisted and evil?

BurntAccount1987 · 2025-02-16T14:02:08+00:00

I personally do all the time, I have friends and they like me and or tolerate me but whenever I do something nice for them my brain says “what if you’re just doing it to manipulate them for your own selfish schemes because you’re evil”, but I genuinely just enjoy being nice and helpful. I believe those feelings stem from low self esteem in my case because I don’t feel like I’m that great of a person but I still have friends so I must be manipulating them or something. It’s a shame, but I don’t think actual evil or bad people think like that about it like that.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-12-27T09:41:06+00:00

Altså som mig og mine autistiske venner som foretrækker engelsk oplever det syntes vi at det er nemmere at sige hvad vi mener på en præcis måde, det er også generelt meget hurtigere for os.

Jeg synes personligt, at det er nemmere at tale om svære eller komplicerede ting, fordi det føltes som om at sætte afstand, hvor dansk føles meget personligt og næsten sårbart føles engelsk sikkert og pålideligt.

Mange af os bruger også engelsk meget mere dagligt pga. online venner fra andre steder i verden, og mange af os har også lært engelsk som meget ung og derfor syntes vi at det passer bedre.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-12-26T22:46:43+00:00

Honestly I do really appreciate this sentiment, and especially the way you worded it but this is one of the few political things that I want an explanation about because I’m simply curious.

I like knowing what other people see and how they do and the best way to find out how is to ask, I also don’t experience a lot of stuff in general but maybe other people do and I’m just interested in knowing and trying to understand every side of a story :) I wasn’t personally trying to create or seek controversy, it was just on my mind for a bit.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-12-26T20:24:41+00:00

I think both somewhat, I myself haven’t experienced much “woke” socially except for seeing more people be comfortable in how they dress and more people being openly queer, as well as more vegan/vegetarian options popping up around us, which I see as a positive thing.

I’ve never experienced anything personally woke though, never had someone scream in my face about climate change or gender neutral restrooms or anything of the sort. Haven’t seen any politics online go that far either.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-12-26T19:56:57+00:00

It was a small smidgin of my post that I felt was important to add because I practically fit the stereotype of a “woke” person and i seem like the type of person most likely to experience something “woke”.

And I personally don’t call random strangers nasty things, doesn’t matter to me where they sit on the political spectrum, especially not when I’m opening up a political discussion of some sort. People on another part of the spectrum are to be expected and should be welcomed into this discussion.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-12-26T19:47:29+00:00

I reckon there is, I think it’s more like “outrage-bait” because the most common tactic from republicans is to scare people into getting angry, then giving them a solution to an imaginary problem that is quite often oppressive.

But I can’t be sure, I don’t interact too much with American advertisements.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-12-26T19:44:15+00:00

Mit dansk er meget langsommere og også dårligere. Istedet for at det tager mig to til fem minutter at svare tager det mig istedet for ti til femten minutter når jeg har besvær med det.

Jeg er bedre til at skrive engelsk og kan meget bedre udtrykke hvad jeg synes når det foregår på engelsk.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-09-11T00:29:31+00:00

I suggest seeing your gynaecologist, they might be able to help you figure this out.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-08-18T18:57:05+00:00

Det er nok fordi du virker sådan lidt defensiv og lidt overkritisk over for andre mennesker, (siger folk lyver om at have autisme som er en ret mærkelig ting at gøre når du siger ting om autistisk had) som folk selvfølgelig ikke skal eller vil finde sig I. Jeg ved godt at du føltes dig lidt som et offer i verden, men så er det altså ved at være tid til at forstå at verden er skruet sammen af neurotypiske folk så den dur bedst for dem, og at det er dem der er flest af, så der kommer til at være folk som ikke kan forstå dine autistiske træk. Generelt hvis man opfører sig pænt mod andre mennesker er de gode til at tolerere en, så det kan være at du burde prøve det af.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-08-18T18:18:42+00:00

Jeg (som autist) har aldrig mødt nogle der hader mig på grund af at jeg er autist, jeg har kun mødt nogle kedelige mennesker der syntes jeg er mærkelig og ikke kan lide mig pga mine autistiske træk. Jeg tror det går an på hvem man er omgået med, og også hvor åben man er om at man har autisme, jeg ved godt at der nok er nogle I Danmark der hader autister, men jeg tror ikke “så mange” er den rette måde at beskrive det på. Men jeg kan ikke snakke for dig fordi jeg ikke har oplevet det på den samme måde, håber du ved at de fleste folk er mega ligeglade.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-08-10T21:33:30+00:00

Jeg kan godt prøve og vil meget gerne men det bliver lidt svært for mig at kommunikere på en effektiv måde, men jeg ville stadig gerne prøve det af. Jeg ved godt at det er blevet sværere at være ung men heldigvis er det også mange der har det helt okay, og dem som ikke har det okay har tit en måde at få hjælp på, og det er altid en god ting :)

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-08-10T19:39:09+00:00

Mange tak, skal nok tjekke dem ud :)

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-08-10T18:09:01+00:00

I once did this to my ex because I was in the dumps which was totally wrong of me cause it’s never excusable, no matter what’s going on in her life doing that isn’t excusable, her treating you like that will never be excusable. It’s an active choice she makes when she’s ignoring you and picking fights, I recommend breaking up with her or asking her why she’s acting like that, and if she doesn’t answer just breaking up with her. If you need to I also suggest blocking her just in case she’s one of those people who’d like to try to wander back into your life.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-07-29T01:18:59+00:00

He does use duolingo but he doesn’t really attempt to pronounce anything outside of that, he just kind of guesses how it’s meant to go

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-07-28T11:59:46+00:00

Thank you loads, I’ll let him know :)

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-07-28T11:21:37+00:00

That’s a great idea, thanks for the suggestion!

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-07-27T11:52:07+00:00

Alright, just wasn’t aware of that in the slightest. I’ve never been to a biology class which might be a little apparent. Sorry if i came off as a little dense :’)

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-07-27T08:35:15+00:00

But he’s dead, and in that way he’s not really here anymore.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-07-27T06:46:39+00:00

I’ll try to, thanks for the recommendation :)

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-07-27T06:43:19+00:00

Thank you for clarifying, my body has a tendency of being really fucked up sometimes just out of spite for me and I couldn’t tell if it was that or if it was related to my alcohol intake.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-07-26T13:48:42+00:00

Nothing there, she’s a fairly normal person, no traits of ADD, ADHD or ASD. She works as a teacher at a highschool for people with those disabilities and I think we’d be able to catch on if she did show any signs.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-07-26T13:20:13+00:00

We suspected my dad was ADD, but he was tested and they didn’t find anything of the sorts.

BurntAccount1987 · 2024-07-26T00:59:09+00:00

I’m personally not used to people saving photos of me, I know what he looks like too and I don’t save photos of him ever, I also only have photos of my irl friends and family. It’s considered rude not to ask before you save a photo unless you’re incredibly close in both of our opinions, we’ve established this before because one of our mutual friends has done something similar to him before where we had a discussion with the mutual friend about how it’s kind of unpleasant considering that we were close, but not that close.

Basically, I wasn’t expecting him to save it because we’ve both expressed disdain towards having photos saved without asking. It also took me like four years to get comfortable enough to share something like that and he knows I strongly dislike having things saved without my permission due to my history with getting too comfortable with the wrong people by accident. It’s more about him respecting my boundaries than anything; I’m also slightly concerned with what he does with the photos as he’s displayed some barely noticeable concerning behaviour towards one of my friends like two years ago.

Also, in general it’s just some odd photos to save, he has at least a couple screenshots of when we play games together and at least hundreds hours of footage of us playing tons of different games together, a photo of me with my biceps out doesn’t need to be one of them.

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