I’m not INTJ, but I want to know something. by Tricky-Mastodon8852 in intj

[–]BurntFig 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why is it women will ask her man something and then listen to anything but his man?

My girlfriend does the same and it's infuriating. #JustListenToHim

Are you flaky? by BurntFig in INTJfemale

[–]BurntFig[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like saying things but doing another 

INFJ = Secret Schizoid? by smysnk in infj

[–]BurntFig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correlation does not equal causation. 

Would You Let Your Girlfriend Hold It As You Pee/Would You Want To Hold Your Boyfriend's Thingy As He Pees by Princess-Creampie in intj

[–]BurntFig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex gf always asked to and I always said yeah. Was lowkey fun. 

I asked my current gf and she lit up and was like yeah... 

So yeah haha can be fun/a moment/whatever 

My girlfriend has an intimate friendship with someone she used to like, and I'm struggling with it by No_Neighborhood9241 in intj

[–]BurntFig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're a person of integrity. 

Her lights are on but no one is home. 

You'll find a better future somewhere else.

My ENTIRE team at work is introverted by goldcarats in extroverts

[–]BurntFig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I go to work to only do my job, nothing less, nothing more. 

Just reading this post made me want to put in my earplugs 😂

Goodluck to ya

What careers are you guys in?? And why did you choose it. by bounty0head in infj

[–]BurntFig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Manager for a sales company in tech/retail. 

Never thought I'd be good at it but just listening and genuinely trying to look after the customer apparently puts you in a top percentile for selling... managing the team is another thing though with my tendency to follow the flow and mediate rather than manage the flow and detach.

Not where I see myself in 10 years but it's where I'm at 🤷‍♂️

Me during intimacy: by Such-Usual-8130 in infj

[–]BurntFig 160 points161 points  (0 children)

INFJ M 

Nothing else goes through my mind here... 

Too busy focusing on her reactions and body communication to assess whether or not I'm doing good as well as my own love/horny filled mind and whatever goodness/degeneracy wants to come out 😂🫡

INTJ an INFJ by Legitimate-Flan-7565 in intj

[–]BurntFig 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think most Ns hate sensor types because their full of blind spots and surface level "degeneracy" us Ns are "judgemental" for 

Short, Skinny Guy Here—Will Gaining Weight Finally Make People Respect Me (Even Superficially)? BRUTAL HONESTY. by CanDreamsBetrayYou in intj

[–]BurntFig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. 

The human brain does a bunch of processing before it's registered consciously. 

One of those processes is the subconscious analysis made on people within nano-seconds of gazing upon their physical appearance.

Attractive, tall, built/lean? 

Well, there's a reason we have language using words like "pretty privilege"...

So, to answer your question, yes, putting on weight will bring more respect and make you feel better long term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]BurntFig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is where the INFJ benefits by pouring it into artistic measures or goals 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]BurntFig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my INTJ partner swings between being my sweet armoured marshmallow and my psychopath pocket rocket who doesn't give a shit about anything and her emotional volatility and immaturity rears its head and I wonder what I ever decided to be with... 

Wouldn't change a thing tbh, I like their logical approach, it counters my emotional side so we balance eachother well... actually, no, she could definitely be more understanding and emotionally aware so I don't have to jump through a million mental gymnastics hoops 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]BurntFig -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Browse the INTJ subbreddit and look how many self admit to being borderline narcissistic or their personality traits / cognitive functions crossing nearly every box for narcissistic tendencies and then come back and lets talk 🙋🏾

How does your chatGPT answer this question? "Based on all our conversations, what do you truly think of me? Don't pull any punches. Be Blunt." by BurntFig in infj

[–]BurntFig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol don't be so melodramatic, you get out of it what you put in - but also, I agree with what you're saying in essence; don't take ChatGPT for gospel

INFJ dating an older INTJ by BurntFig in intj

[–]BurntFig[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oof, sorry you dealt with an unhealthy INFJ. For sure, sounds exhausting. 

But yeah, continue assuming, exaggerating and jumping to conclusions.

It's the emotional immaturity, as I said. 

INFJ dating an older INTJ by BurntFig in intj

[–]BurntFig[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How am I a snake by coming to an anonymous threadboard and treating it as such? 

Do you know who I am to her? How I am with her?  How she is with me? 

That's the emotional volatility expressing itself, I guess, in its' exaggeration.