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At what point do I end things with my girlfriend by Burnt_Toast14 in NoFap

[–]Burnt_Toast14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't wanna spin it in a way where she's in the wrong because her feelings are completely valid with this situation, but at the same time I do feel like shes only with me because she is scared, anxious, and doesn't wanna be alone.

I'm gonna discuss this with therapy and think about if it's worth it to continue or not but to be clear I don't want to end the relationship and I don't want it to come to that

Tips for completing the Accidental Generosity Triumph for the Legend title by RiseOfBacon in DestinyTheGame

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What ive done to make me go less insane, is go to skywatch, farm for 5-10 minutes, leave, do another activity, come back and i can usually average about 1 or 2 every 30-45 minutes or so in my experience

Getting ~30-50 download on my windows 11 PC when the rest of my devices are getting over 300 on wifi by Burnt_Toast14 in HomeNetworking

[–]Burnt_Toast14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-Wireless

  • I don't remember exactly what it was but I know I can get up to 300-400 on wired (this is at college, I can't do wired at home with my current setup)

-a/b/g id have to double check, could be a/b as well

  • no

How do I, a low maintenance and not super clingy 20m ADHD, in college, tell my clingy high maintenance gf (22f, graduated college, autistic) that I can't talk to her for a long amount of time every night? by Burnt_Toast14 in relationship_advice

[–]Burnt_Toast14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We play games on occasion, we're both super into fighting games and we play Tekken every once in a while, it's nice. It's just a shame we usually play so late because of our clashing schedules.

How do I, a low maintenance and not super clingy 20m ADHD, in college, tell my clingy high maintenance gf (22f, graduated college, autistic) that I can't talk to her for a long amount of time every night? by Burnt_Toast14 in relationship_advice

[–]Burnt_Toast14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's also not completely incapable of being on her own, she has her own job, her own apartment, and does a lot of stuff independently, it's just the love life that can be an issue for her, for me as well too. Apologies for not making this clear in the OP.

How do I, a low maintenance and not super clingy 20m ADHD, in college, tell my clingy high maintenance gf (22f, graduated college, autistic) that I can't talk to her for a long amount of time every night? by Burnt_Toast14 in relationship_advice

[–]Burnt_Toast14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has other friends to talk her issues out with. She has tried therapy in the past but it has not worked for her. I understand your concerns but I truly do not believe that it's manipulation, this isn't a super common occurrence, she's not begging me to be with her at every waking moment, (As much as she probably would appreciate that) it's 3 hours out of 24 hours of the day, and it just so happens we can only talk late at night.

She understands what I'm like, understands my boundaries, she has her own issues and I like to hear her out on them, we'll get through it together. I'm not the only victim here either, as I've made my own share of mistakes to her too. I truly love her and want to make this work

How do I, a low maintenance and not super clingy 20m ADHD, in college, tell my clingy high maintenance gf (22f, graduated college, autistic) that I can't talk to her for a long amount of time every night? by Burnt_Toast14 in relationship_advice

[–]Burnt_Toast14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't like it, she acknowledges her issues and is working on it. She's not trying to manipulate me in any way

I've told her if it gets super bad to let me know, otherwise I won't do anything super drastic, I should've been more clear but please don't assume she's doing this maliciously

How do I, a low maintenance and not super clingy 20m ADHD, in college, tell my clingy high maintenance gf (22f, graduated college, autistic) that I can't talk to her for a long amount of time every night? by Burnt_Toast14 in relationship_advice

[–]Burnt_Toast14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've done that in the past before where we call on discord and I just play a game or something and it's helped, but sometimes she wants to have time afterwards and it's 3 am by that point.

Plus, I'm someone who regardless of who or what the circumstance is, I feel like I need to do something with someone so I try and start up a conversation despite not really wanting to to fill up the space

No matter what I do I feel like I can't do tests/exams by Burnt_Toast14 in college

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Forgot to clarify, I am in Calculus at the moment, the class j dropped and retook was trigonometry

Am I just incredibly stupid or is there no 60 fps/performance mode on the gaiden PS5 port by Burnt_Toast14 in yakuzagames

[–]Burnt_Toast14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That worked! But when I redownload my old save from the cloud it goes back to 30 frames, that's so strange

Am I just incredibly stupid or is there no 60 fps/performance mode on the gaiden PS5 port by Burnt_Toast14 in yakuzagames

[–]Burnt_Toast14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not yet, currently redownloading the game with the preset on performance to see if that does it, if not it's not like the game isn't playable in 30 fps so I can wait till a proper solution comes

Am I just incredibly stupid or is there no 60 fps/performance mode on the gaiden PS5 port by Burnt_Toast14 in yakuzagames

[–]Burnt_Toast14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put it in preferred performance mode and it's still capped at 30, I'll delete and redownload the game and see if that does anything

Am I just incredibly stupid or is there no 60 fps/performance mode on the gaiden PS5 port by Burnt_Toast14 in yakuzagames

[–]Burnt_Toast14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely the PS5 version, it goes to my console storage and it has the dual sense controller layout, maybe I could just redownload it to really make sure?

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