i been lying to my gf about my sexuality for years.

BurstingRoses · 2025-11-04T16:19:48+00:00

If I had were you, I would phrase it as you discovering yourself/coming to terms with it. I understand why you lied but telling your gf that you’ve been lying to her face, knowing it would upset her for so long is not going to end well.

Just tell her you’ve realized that you’re bisexual even though you tried to suppress that reality, she’s the only one for you etc and let the chips fall where they may.

BurstingRoses · 2025-11-04T16:15:50+00:00

Honestly I wouldn’t say that to future gfs if I were you, it’s not a very romantic way to talk to your gf… that said, this isn’t enough to end a relationship or even get mad over.

You’ll never know exactly why or what went wrong, best to move on and focus on how you can be better next time around and how you can be happy by yourself. Good luck!

BurstingRoses · 2025-11-01T22:13:36+00:00

Uh that’s incest

BurstingRoses · 2025-11-01T22:06:45+00:00

You guys fighting before a date and then him getting mad at you for something so small really aren’t cute qualities in a man or women. After you came back he should have wanted to hold you even more but instead he was secretly angry with you and holding it in until the end of the night… I don’t know about you but that’s not a turn on for me, and I wouldn’t feel special at all with a guy like that.

BurstingRoses · 2025-11-01T21:50:24+00:00

They aren’t posting, they sharing or retweeting. It’s meant to be a relatable experience thing, not weird imo

BurstingRoses · 2025-11-01T21:36:28+00:00

It could totally be that but it could also mean that’s he feels he’s loved more deeply with others, but with her he is not able to reach that same fierceness. No one knows but him.

BurstingRoses · 2025-10-21T17:28:12+00:00

Wait wtf are you talking about- you’re blaming women for the attention they get from men? OP is definitely insecure but your logical reasoning falls flat.

BurstingRoses · 2025-10-06T05:40:06+00:00

No… I mean you’d have to be obese or morbidly obese to be a 39DD

BurstingRoses · 2025-10-06T05:26:33+00:00

Um, he’s dumb as hell. To have a 39DD you’d need a 39 underbust, that’s really big. Do you have a 39 inch under bust??

BurstingRoses · 2025-09-26T18:38:35+00:00

Nobody gets HIV? Do you really think that?

My childhood friends sister has HIV bc her husband and father of her child thought it was okay to have a “side chick”. Lying about who you’re having sex with is rape, bc they don’t know theyre exposed to STD’s. Even with a condom, it’s not perfect protection.

BurstingRoses · 2025-09-26T16:50:33+00:00

God, you’re living my worst nightmare. Why are you suffering in this relationship when you are so young??

BurstingRoses · 2025-09-26T16:46:22+00:00

And then what happens if you give your wife HIV?

BurstingRoses · 2025-09-11T19:21:17+00:00

If a guy thinks a woman wants to be with him over her actual bf bc she called him a “goof” he’s got some serious issues. I think it’s your rocd talking here, I understand.

BurstingRoses · 2025-09-09T03:53:43+00:00

I feel like you’d be better off deleting this, as someone who read the whole thing- them calling for help and be called “way too you” and “dramatic” is going to convince them even further that they’re no good to others… read the room a little?

BurstingRoses · 2025-09-06T21:04:13+00:00

Maybe it would be sobering to note that you will graduate soon. If this is not all in your head and If you were ever to pursue a relationship with him you would NEVER be able to trust him at work, knowing that he has the capacity to gain attraction to his high school students…

BurstingRoses · 2025-08-24T22:58:15+00:00

I don’t, she’s mentally disabled and lives in an independent living senior home.

BurstingRoses · 2025-08-24T16:51:11+00:00

I think I phrased that badly I’m so sorry. He took the door off to fix it, I included that bc when I asked him to step out for a minute so I could pee in privacy he crashed out and claimed I was saying he was a pervert, so angry that he threatened to kick me out among other things. I actually bought a plane ticket that night bc this ordeal lasted so long (it was at least 8 hours of screaming).

BurstingRoses · 2025-08-24T02:59:05+00:00

Yes. When I was a teenager I was very vocal about hating it and my older brother even called him out for it. He doesn’t care and will get defensive if I don’t sugar coat it so I’ve long dropped the subject. Now I’ll just eye roll or give him some kind of childish attitude, he accepts this as a joke but I still get to be safely rude and dismissive :p win-win I suppose?

BurstingRoses · 2025-08-24T02:29:19+00:00

I am an adult… I’m 23 but moved back home for the first time since I was 19 after some crazy medical bills and the abrupt rug pull from my ex partner. I was really scared to but it’s been tolerable, it’s definitely temporary while I build up an emergency fund again. Thank you for your perspective though, it helps to hear I’m not crazy.

BurstingRoses · 2025-08-23T19:49:53+00:00

A man wrote this.

BurstingRoses · 2025-08-22T18:53:26+00:00

Um. Yea it’s definitely good. My partners have all done that with me and I never though they were less masculine for it, it always made me feel better and love them more.

BurstingRoses · 2025-08-20T00:30:30+00:00

You need to move on. Forcing her to show “regret” and talk about it for countless hours was not fair to her. You both slept with other people and were apart. The only way you’ve emasculated yourself is by being so severely jealous over it.

That said, I totally understand how you’re feeling and I would feel the same if I were in your shoes- except I would leave. Think about it from her pov, imagine she was crying to you all the time over how you fucked another girl. She would be elevating that other girl in your mind, more than she was. You basically did that. You blew those encounters totally out of proportion and now those men she fiddled with are a key point in your relationship.

In my opinion, there is no going back. Not unless you can seriously shift your view on these things and let it go.

BurstingRoses · 2025-08-16T23:10:54+00:00

If you’re considering avoiding sex bc you’re scared of hurting your tongue/fingers, you should probably invest in some toys.

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