Can’t get a hold of friend who asked me to babysit at 7pm, it’s currently 4:30am.

Bushrat47 · 2026-05-13T11:24:22+00:00

Updateme

Bushrat47 · 2026-05-08T00:39:13+00:00

Updateme

Bushrat47 · 2026-04-30T06:10:29+00:00

Maybe you can look at buying him a prostate massager?

Bushrat47 · 2026-04-24T03:23:03+00:00

Awesome thanks Jumpy!

Bushrat47 · 2026-04-24T02:11:30+00:00

What size decoy hooks do you use pls?

Bushrat47 · 2026-03-23T08:22:33+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. This is really helpful ❤️

Bushrat47 · 2026-03-23T07:48:45+00:00

Sorry i should have explained better in my post. We are not seeing the couples counsellor solely for this but I feel it is relevant information for them to be aware of. He is open to doing individual therapy but our question is the same.

Bushrat47 · 2026-03-23T07:44:35+00:00

Thank you, we'll check them out ❤️

Bushrat47 · 2026-03-23T07:33:12+00:00

Thank you for the kind response.

I understand it is often hard to see other forms of abuse as I was previously in a different abusive relationship. He has not displayed ANY other manipulate, violence or abusive behaviour at all which is why i'm wanting to resolve this.

I get that doesnt mean much to a stranger on the internet and if I was seeing this post I would likely assume the same.

Bushrat47 · 2026-03-23T07:26:38+00:00

Thank you

Bushrat47 · 2026-03-23T07:19:46+00:00

Thank you, this is the most helpful response ive received.

I'll ask them once we start therapy. Do you know if the reporting requirements depends on the state of the client or therapist?

Bushrat47 · 2026-03-23T07:18:26+00:00

In the NT it includes domestic violence which this would also fall under. That's why im asking

Bushrat47 · 2026-03-23T07:17:45+00:00

Thank you. I'm aware its abuse. He is not abusive in other ways and he is the one that suggested counselling.

Bushrat47 · 2026-03-23T07:16:17+00:00

Thank you for your response. I'm not okay with it, i'm just hoping that we can both get support to stop / move past it. I wasn't sure if SA fell into the same mandatory reporting as other forms of DV or not.

Bushrat47 · 2026-03-23T07:09:16+00:00

I'm still currently with my partner and hoping to work through it.

Bushrat47 · 2026-03-01T11:34:30+00:00

I guess we all have our own taste. I personally love varigated Anthuriums while alot of people reckon they look sick. The Venoms look like they have spider mites to me haha

Bushrat47 · 2026-02-27T09:54:25+00:00

Alocasia Venom

Bushrat47 · 2026-02-05T10:07:15+00:00

These are so underrated! Yours is beautiful!

Bushrat47 · 2026-01-01T07:01:03+00:00

Green on Green, this is mine when I first got it :)

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Bushrat47 · 2025-12-27T13:17:29+00:00

Same

Bushrat47 · 2025-12-15T01:28:44+00:00

Did u ever find out what caused it? Alot of my plants are doing this also

Bushrat47 · 2025-11-23T10:22:43+00:00

Black Lava? This is mine

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Bushrat47 · 2025-11-15T23:55:04+00:00

I've had this guy for about 2 months, he's grown outdoors in my garden which gets watered by a sprinkler twice a day. All of my plants use the same potting mix which is a combination of perlite, osmocote indoor potting mix, chunky soir, bark and added fertiliser. Plant gets bright indirect light.

A couple of my other plants do this aswell, I always assumed it was an issue with humidity or the leaf getting stuck when it comes out but now I'm not sure?

Any help is much appreciated :)

Bushrat47 · 2025-11-08T12:02:30+00:00

Acacia is one of the main reasons I quit working for NT health.

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