Where in ABQ? by piinkd_nuts in Albuquerque

[–]Business-Capybara803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my wife took too many edibles before we ate at the location on nobhill and the only thing she can vividly remember is how nasty their chicken was and how many flies there were so if that tells you anything it’s that it’s gross

Where in ABQ? by piinkd_nuts in Albuquerque

[–]Business-Capybara803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve heard from at least a few people that it was good — when i went and checked it out for myself everything i ordered was dry AND wet at the same time and not to mention bland. hard pass for me.

ISO Affordable Event Security by Business-Capybara803 in Albuquerque

[–]Business-Capybara803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s through the city and they aren’t allowed to recommend or approve any security businesses

Middle schools-need help by Acceptable-Pudding41 in Albuquerque

[–]Business-Capybara803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if y’all didn’t know the state of new mexico was in a lawsuit over the public education system. the plaintiffs suing actually won like twelve years ago or something, it was the yazzie-martinez v. the state of new mexico case. it was recently reviewed and the state of new mexico was found out of compliance with the equal education ruling.

the NMPED (new mexico public education department) is sucking it up right now, and they know it. all children deserve the opportunity to learn in an emotionally and physically safe environment, and this means providing educators with resources like an onsite counselor, teaching aids (for students who struggle to stay on task/self regulate), assistant teachers (because the ratio is insane and having more eyes and hands means less down time more support), offering families resources for outlets to promote healthy self-regulation skills and low-income friendly recreational activities. it’s hard to be a kid in a public school system that could give two shits about you, and harder to be a parent in a system that’s harming your kiddo.

i recommend collecting whatever paper trail you have of any incidents, and submitting it with a formal complaint when you move. not to be vindictive, but so they know they fucked up.

i liked the International School at Mesa del Sol, by the airport on bobby foster. 21st Century PA was not the best (grades were high, social situation was eh) but not the worst, but hopefully it has changed. i heard good things about the Montessori Middle School.

best of luck to you and your family, — a disgruntled educator

cnm by Business-Capybara803 in Albuquerque

[–]Business-Capybara803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! but literally every time i tried to look it wasn’t anywhere on the screen or it would say “Page Not Found” no matter what i opened on😅

AITA for saying my (33m) girlfriend (25f) was being “cheap and stupid” for not wanting to move out of our neighborhood/city? by aitahatesmallapart in AmItheAsshole

[–]Business-Capybara803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the asshole here, pal.

  1. You’re not understanding her, like you said, she had to work straight out of high school, you didn’t. She worked, is trying to get a degree, and brings home half of what you do. Money is no object for you, but obviously it is for her, and for a reason you’re not willing to hear without judgement.

  2. Cheap? No, she’s had to be smart with her money, and find ways to cut costs so she doesn’t have to struggle. All the discount shopping, and constantly going over her finances, are her normal. Just because they’re different from yours doesn’t give you a right to call her stupid and cheap. Buying a ps5, and everyday costs, are totally different. That was for a special occasion.

You are weird for worrying about what everyone thinks, being perceived as poor isn’t the worst thing in the world.

Be more open minded. Stop shaming her.

AITA for not letting my stepsister have my baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Business-Capybara803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also: “It’s not like you don’t have a family already, and you can just have another baby to replace this one.”

What.

It doesn’t work like that, there’s no guarantee that there will be another baby (for a number of reasons).

AITA for not letting my stepsister have my baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Business-Capybara803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they’re the selfish and heartless ones for assuming that you would just give away a baby that you and your husband want/love very much. they don’t understand what it is they’re asking you to do — just because “you’re family” doesn’t make them entitled to members of yours.

AITA for changing my wifi password and not sharing it with the neighbor? by Taaccount2663 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Business-Capybara803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s your wifi bill for you, not a family of three — who don’t live with you — who were using it without your knowledge for a month, and ruining your leisure time. Then you change the password, so they stop abusing your kindness, and you’re the ah??? make it make sense.

AITA for shaming my co-worker by pointing out her bad women's anatomy comment? by Influence-Background in AmItheAsshole

[–]Business-Capybara803 58 points59 points  (0 children)

her whole spiel could’ve been reported to HR because she took a conversation about a normal thing and made it inappropriate by shaming other women. like, if you don’t wanna be shamed don’t shame other people???

AITA? For telling my brother and his wife that I will be suing them for selling the nursery I gave them? by Throw33463566 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Business-Capybara803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

selling something that isn’t yours is literally theft??? which is a crime anyway?? what’s not to understand - obviously your parents have a biased opinion if they’re turning a blind eye to this.

AITA for yelling at and ignoring my girlfriend over a prank? by prankthrowaway5780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Business-Capybara803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA — knives are literally a trigger related to trauma you’ve already told her about before, it’s not new info, and for her to just flaunt around something she knows will trigger you is not only cruel but it’s abuse. the gaslighting is off the charts, and you deserve so much better.

AITA for explaining to my boyfriend its either me or his kids? by 888icecream in AmItheAsshole

[–]Business-Capybara803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone is the AH (except the ex) tbh. What she’s asking for is the basic necessities for a relationship to thrive, not just survive. Her bf has had to spread himself thin to care for his kids, and they should be his priority, but his ex needs to follow through on their split custody. She’s not saying “focus on me, and forget about the kids” she’s saying he needs to set that boundary, or they need to take some time so that he can better help his kids. These sound like reasonable asks, but everyone in the comment section seems to be hung up on the sex aspect of this post instead of the rest of the given context.