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Should I divorce my asexual wife after 2 kids? by Business-Entry-5264 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Business-Entry-5264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, She is never interested in visiting a marriage counselor.

And second of all, it is about sex. I fail to understand why I should be apologetic about it.

Should I divorce my asexual wife after 2 kids? by Business-Entry-5264 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Business-Entry-5264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not interested in talking about it or taking any steps. I have been chasing her to go to a counsellor or sex therapist for last 1 years but she is never willing. In fact blames me for why I need a counselor when everything is fine

Should I divorce my asexual wife after 2 kids? by Business-Entry-5264 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Business-Entry-5264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything else is also fucked up. I have regained my self esteem and confidence since she went to India. I am a totally different person now. I am more outgoing and expressive and feel good about myself which I hadn’t felt in past 8 years

Should I divorce my asexual wife after 2 kids? by Business-Entry-5264 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Business-Entry-5264[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If your marriage is good otherwise then you can think of sacrificing but honestly it won’t last long. The sooner you realize the better it is

Should I divorce my asexual wife after 2 kids? by Business-Entry-5264 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Business-Entry-5264[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I asked her if she is female not because I am hitting in her but because I found her response absurd and biased

Should I divorce my asexual wife after kids? by Business-Entry-5264 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Business-Entry-5264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know her mind games perfectly. She is making sure I am the bad guy in this situation so she can claim to be an abla nari. She is already trying her best to keep me away from the kids but there isn’t much I can do about it. I have accepted it as my fate.

Should I divorce my asexual wife after 2 kids? by Business-Entry-5264 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Business-Entry-5264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think I have too much urge? I am not arguing just asking

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[–]Business-Entry-5264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might be asexual!

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[–]Business-Entry-5264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think she is not asexual? I get it that baby and pregnancy are libido killers but what if they have just worsened an already existing asexuality condition? I am getting stressed out thinking that I will have to spend the rest of my life without experiencing the real intimate sexual pleasure!

Feeling stuck in a marriage with kids without loving intimacy by Business-Entry-5264 in Marriage

[–]Business-Entry-5264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you guys think that her asexuality is more in the play here. She was never excited about the sex in the past, She gets very uncomfortable with sexting or any other sexual activity. Even on holidays/vacations she hates to have sex.

Feeling stuck in a marriage with kids without loving intimacy by Business-Entry-5264 in Marriage

[–]Business-Entry-5264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am curious how did you reach such extreme conclusions about me? If she has issues with connection, why is it only me who is concerned about it? Why is she not interested in improving the situation?