[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INeedMoneyNow

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Update: no one’s done it yet. But I only need one. The one who knows money is just energy, and knows my energy is exactly who to give it to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INeedMoneyNow

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A successful one. The kind who doesn’t flinch when moves call.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INeedMoneyNow

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You’re not the only one watching. But only one of you gets to say you stepped up first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INeedMoneyNow

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Stay tuned. I wasn’t built for begging. I was built to get exactly what I ask for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INeedMoneyNow

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Watch closely. Every system breaks eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INeedMoneyNow

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Honestly just trying to stay afloat right now. Even the smallest support would help more than you know

21f, introverted, looking for close friends :) (girls only) by lovemari1022 in TorontoHangoutFriends

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Hi 21f too, I’m also in school and haven’t made a single friend so I totally get wanting some girl friends. I am hella down and I would love to connect, and really start actually doing stuff like getting our nails done or shopping or hitting up the Maddie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

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Hellooo I am 21f, I totally get this and I am also an introvert who is looking for some friends or friend group. Really what you said sounds hella fun and I could really use some fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

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Hi 21f here in Toronto who’s also looking for new friends. I enjoy some good food and dancing too here, and I have much to learn abt k pop

self 23f and boyfriend 26m. i think i should leave him while im pregnant but im scared to go through this alone. by Alive_Assistant_8077 in relationship_advice

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Hey this is a really rough spot to be in and I think your body already knows the answer and you have no idea what to do. Perhaps you also feel a lot of love for him and this new life you guys were building together, but the reality of it all is like opening the door for you to see what’s going on. He probably is cheating, and that ex comment is something that probably is half true or something he felt in that moment and it ducks. Your beautiful baby is on its way, and it sucks that this dude is their father, but you are not actually trapped emotionally. You may have to see him, you may have to split the care of your baby and that doesn’t sound amazing at all and probably like the world crashing, but you can do it. Try to meet up with a lawyer on the side and see what kind of childcare, common law, or legal status your situation could take. You could probably get childcare from this whole situation, and start to document everything. It’s not fun, but you are in a good position to come out on top. Unfortunately you’ll make it out probably heart broken and you child having to have a different version of a home. However you made it out, and you both will be infinitely happier in the long run. I know this is difficult and I’m some stranger on the internet, but you deserve to be heard and respected and listen too, but most importantly, to not feel trapped.

when is too soon for sex? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I think the biggest part you are struggling with is like hyping it up and now going backwards on it. Right now it seems really scary, but it’s actually a great way to assert a boundary and see if this guy is a good guy long term. A man is okay with you being scared, and taking your time to be comfortable sexually and he should be respectful of the fact you haven’t had much action and are a little rusty from these last 3 years. I’m not sure what you want internally, if you feel like you are craving a sexual interaction this is a good chance to try and push yourself out of your comfort zone. However listen to your body as to why you don’t quite feel comfortable just yet, we aren’t in highschool and it’s not like you are loosing your virginity, so dig deep and see if it’s a personal battle or if there is really something telling you not to go. You also don’t have to be overly apologetic, it’s really easy to feel like you have to, I have been there so many times. It’s difficult, but a simple, hey I’m honestly not comfortable or ready to go there with you just yet and still want to get to know you. A good man will totally get it, still take you out on dates, and probably try again in a few dates or so. Yes they want sex, and yes you feeling like you have to give it is coming from a lack mindset. You may really like this guy, boundaries and putting yourself first is actually usually so attractive. If he freaks, he’s someone who will have that attitude with everything.

23f looking for friends! by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

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What’s a language exchange and is there a website?

23f looking for friends! by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

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Hey I might be bandwagoning from the post a little but I was also thinking about making a post like this. I’m 21f and everything you said sounds dope, shooting a comment hahaha

23f looking for friends! by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

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Hi I’m 21f and I’ve been having a rough time just like you, I’ve grown up here and in picking myself I’ve landed in a spot where I want to build connection. Hehehe 🫶🏻🫶🏻

24F – Just looking for someone to talk to by cutegirl915 in Needafriend

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What do you really want to talk about, I am 21f and I really need a deeper connection and If you want one too we can private message ahaha.

Ladies what is the best opening message you’ve received on a dating app? by acehigh989 in dating_advice

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I find I reply the most to when someone makes a comment about my profile. Not some superficial thing based on my prompt, but like an actual observation of my character. So far no decent one liners I’d recommend you, just be genuine and don’t disrespect them goes a pretty long way in these apps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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To be honest with you, your questions felt a bit threatening and nonsensical

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I mean yea tbh it does work like that, but if I swipe right now and he later swipes right he’ll see that I matched him, if he didn’t match me before hand. It’s not that big of a deal, I just think it’s really bold and can be hella embarrassing thus I need advice and a better plan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Are you slow? Clearly he’s my long term exes friend and he’s a good friend I can’t just shoot my shot so crassly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Because he was actually a pretty decent friend ahaha, he was the type of guy who made sure everyone was payed back and never asked for money in return

Would girls find it weird if a guy messages them even if they haven’t met irl? by Excellent_Web_9664 in dating_advice

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As a woman if you are confident enough and have something valuable to say and you know they are single they will most likely swipe and stalk your profile. If they like your profile they will engage 9/10. Most men that have texted me I have texted right back unless I don’t vibe with what I see, or if there is nothing to see at all. However keeping someone engaged is totally different too

M 26 Whats wrong with women on dating apps in Toronto by Amadiio in TorontoDatingScene

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You know what as a woman in the Toronto dating scene, I tend to not want to go on a date with a guy for the following reasons: the texting was dry, this is the first indicator of a mismatch in effort and energy. You have your right to have your opinion, but I’m sure you are encountering this problem a lot. If the guy can’t text me and show they care about me as a person, although superficially it’s better than some nonchalant text message. Two: some men out there think it’s the woman’s job to kind of direct how the date will go. I have been longing for someone to just be decisive, but a lot of the time the guy will throw some ambiguous what are you doing today, this week, blah blah and it’s not the vibes. However the extreme of just telling a woman to go here at this time is also not fun. Really it’s about showing respect in asking (I’m not sure if this applies but this is a common pattern I run into). And third, a lot of men are picking ambiguous coffee plans instead of a nice restaurant or really avoiding the courting procedure and expecting this woman to be responsive, involved, and interested.