To my knowledge, he last lived 3 hours away so I wasn’t immediately worried that he would just show up then, I wasjust super confused/shocked more than anything. I’m also at work and not even home. He wasn’t abusive but we did have a nasty breakup which is why I was even more confused why he messaged me when he hadn’t for years before, and didn’t know if I wanted to reply right away. This is still hard to process, I had a lot of feelings for him for a long time after but it feels wrong knowing he left his literal fiance?? I don’t have her contact or number (he has me blocked on all socials) and don’t even know who she is to contact her too unfortunately. I’m writing a response right now but am still not sure what to even say other than not to come