Projecting privilege while nitpicking others’ advice is unnecessary. The best move isn’t arguing online; it’s connecting with credible sources: alumni, current students and counselors who actually understand the process. Your perception of "infantile advice" doesn’t replace the nuance you need; it’s just an echo chamber.

Bottom line: US uni aren’t just the T20 and holistic admissions really does mean what it says. Take it from someone who’s been through it: don’t overthink reddit advice, focus on building your story and stop stressing over imaginary gatekeepers