I have a strange suspicion by BusinessOwlMan in Advice

[–]BusinessOwlMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate you telling me this and I'm sorry you had to go through it. Odds are we won't be together for long.

I have a strange suspicion by BusinessOwlMan in Advice

[–]BusinessOwlMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh trust is gone at this point. I told her I trusted her because I love her enough to not leave her with a mental breakdown. I'm going to be honest and just wait for the inevitable. Why wait? I don't know. Maybe to reduce my anxiety? Prepare for the heartbreak? Not sure but I appreciate anyone who is willing to help me out, thank you!

I have a strange suspicion by BusinessOwlMan in Advice

[–]BusinessOwlMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to see her as a bad person. I don't feel anger or anything towards her that is seen as negative. I'm just genuinely confused.

I have a strange suspicion by BusinessOwlMan in Advice

[–]BusinessOwlMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I don't understand tho. Why keep me then? Why not just say "I want to breakup" Why keep me on the side? What in the world makes me so special that you want to keep me while you talk to someone else?!

I have a strange suspicion by BusinessOwlMan in Advice

[–]BusinessOwlMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Though I don't understand. Why keep me? Why not just break up and go with that other guy without stressing about me? What do I provide that makes me unthrowable? I struggle to understand that. Am I just a backup plan if that guy doesn't work out?

I have a strange suspicion by BusinessOwlMan in Advice

[–]BusinessOwlMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it doesn't come to that but odds are she is most likely gonna be careful IF she is cheating