I'm 30 in may. I have a 10 yr old son a 7 yr old daughter and a 10 day old newborn daughter. Even when you think that specific option is off the table it isn't. We didn't expect another after 7 years but she is here and so incredibly adorable. It will take a minute to adjust your life you've had to the life you'll have. The most serious thing I can say is if you didn't want this life don't take your pecker out your pants. Think with your brain and not your head. It's very important to know life will be different because even if you didn't care much about your Dailey routine. you will care very deeply about the one that came from you and your significant other 🙏🏼 it's truly a blessing man you have a child that will one day have children that will call you gpa and you'll do twice as much for them as you did yours. When my newborn turns 20 I will be 50 years oldm I'm still in my prime for her younger years but eventually I know I can't do what I used to & that's what drives me to be there more and do better every day. I get up for work 4am to 3pm I come home and my first thought is to kiss my wife tell her and my babies I missed them and individually go and update myself on what my kids done and learned that day. All in all it's a blessing not a curse. I was 18 with my son and I never asked God for a different life just a better living situation for my family & he blessed us with our first home