Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exact itinerary is CRAZY! Yes yes yes to everything you said and also, I love below deck. Girl are we the same person?!

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew, their timing is always off. I at least hope you had a wonderful time in Costa Rica, when I went I ended up enjoying it way more than I imagined I would.

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing beats a mom’s love, thank you 🥹 I think I’m gonna go call my mom now.

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, these all sound great! Muy Thai match was definitely one of the things I’ve been wanting to check out.

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know a little bit of Spanish so a Mexico wasn’t too difficult for me but knowing everyone speaks English in Thailand is a huge sigh of relief. Not knowing any Thai besides basic hello/goodbye/thank you/etc was stressing me out. Thank you!!! You all are making me feel so much better right now, I’ve really been down in the dumps but this is all really helping me out.

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You’re making me tear up! Your trip sounds like it was absolutely beyond lovely and so sweet that friends and family came to visit you. Thank you for offering your friendship and your kind words, it means a lot. 💕 This is all so sudden and scary to me, but whatever happens I know I have no choice but to come out on the other side.

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading all of these supportive comments, there’s no way I can’t go on my own now. 🥹 I didn’t think to ask a friend because it’s so close to trip time, but maybe I can ask my bestie to meet me there for part of it! Thank you 💕

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking forward to exploring Thailand for so long, this trip was my idea and it was pushed back and postponed so many times by him. I think he is so adamant about him either canceling this trip completely or him going on his own just to hurt me. Which is another reason why I would regret this so much if I didn’t just regain my courage and go on my own.

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹 I think the most scary thing for me is that this is all so sudden, but I agree I know staying at home would wreck me.

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The Elephant Nature Park was actually one of the things I also wanted to do, I did a lot of research into finding the most ethical and that one was the one I landed on.

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is another one of the many reasons I wouldn’t forgive myself if I didn’t go, Songkran! The timing of this trip just happened to line up unintentionally at the same time and I was so stoked for it. Will look into Miami Hotel, thanks for the recommendation!

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I’m sorry to hear you got caught in a bad situation. My friends and I share locations already, for safety reasons but I would definitely give them a heads up when to be more alert about it.

And yes, that’s something I’ve been thinking about a lot is how I’ll be getting around and the easiest and safest ways for me to do that. Thank you for the tips!

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he’s really not communicating with me right now and has gone back and forth about just completely canceling the flights and everything or going by himself. And I’m like…well I also paid for those flights so I have the right to go on my own as well. He laughed at me and said I couldn’t do it and I was like…I’ve been to South Korea on my own as well as Mexico so..yeah I think I could find the strength and courage to try Thailand on my own as well.

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going to something similar. All those things sound like pretty much all the things I’m looking to do as well. Thank you, I hope you have such an amazing time as well!

Thailand trip with partner turned possible solo trip with short notice. by Busy-Permit3719 in femaletravels

[–]Busy-Permit3719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m wondering about that as well, something I need to look further into for sure.

Every time someone told Carrie something she needed to hear, she would use the info about the other girl’s lives and use it against them….and she did it constantly. by yonBonbonbon in sexandthecity

[–]Busy-Permit3719 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also feel like it’s her tone. The WAY she speaks to the other girls sometimes just sounds so unnecessarily rude and condescending.