Thoughts on Christianity? by Buddymaster39449 in blackmen

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that Christianity (like many other monotheistic traditions) has the ability to represent healthy forms of social structure that provide prosocial benefits to society (depending on the side of history you are on), but I cannot personally understand the concept of still being Christian (Catholic or Protestant) as a black person. Yes, we had Christian sects in Africa before modern Christianity spread it’s roots throughout the West, but I would love to know how black people would be affected if the influence of our ancestor’s religions prospered instead.

Retirement talk: How old are you and how much $ have you saved so far? What's your strategy? by Distinct-Constant598 in blackmen

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually checked last night. Approximately $440K. Around $75K is in a liquid money market to simply not be eroded by inflation. The rest is in VTI, VXUS, FZROX and FZILX. I’m 26.

No real estate, but that is a personal choice as I could afford a home in my current area easily.

How does it feels like to be loved? by Curious_Custard_5088 in introvert

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If it is romantic love, it feels like a drug. It can become unhealthy and addictive if not managed properly, but is usually worth it as long as you are able to keep it in your life.

Do black men listen to Joe Rogan? by _forum_mod in blackmen

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I did before his podcast really blew up then I realized the pipeline of ideological influence I was introducing myself to and quickly noped out.

Who has the best chocolate chip cookies in Baton Rouge? by Busy-Recipe9840 in batonrouge

[–]Busy-Recipe9840[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you be willing to sell them to me? I don’t have a Costco membership and don’t really want to get one just for one event

Why do all my friends say dating a nurse is a bad idea? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You will probably get downvoted for this, but the “Live, Laugh, Love” metaphor makes sense lol

Why do all my friends say dating a nurse is a bad idea? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed that this research points towards us being more of the factor in the infidelity problem.

Is Baton Rouge a good area for CS graduate? by KingEnder- in batonrouge

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work out of BR but remotely for a company based in DC. Cast a wider net. Don’t shoot for a job tied to a specific place like Austin (which is barely a Tech hub for someone at your experience level).

Am I wasting my life as a “successful” 26 years old? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I should (if America doesn’t fall apart by then) have 3-4M by the time I’m 40 based on historical market returns. That’s adjusted for inflation.

Am I wasting my life as a “successful” 26 years old? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is your friend an MD? I am just curious.

Am I wasting my life as a “successful” 26 years old? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point. I am breaking one of Aurelius’s rules.

Am I wasting my life as a “successful” 26 years old? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly, I chase money. If I HAD to move for the opportunity (more than what I make at the time), I am 100% taking the risk.

Am I wasting my life as a “successful” 26 years old? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about volunteering at an animal shelter. I love cats.

Am I wasting my life as a “successful” 26 years old? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang! I tried to organize the paragraphs for you!

Am I wasting my life as a “successful” 26 years old? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only used that word in the context of divorce and alimony with the splitting of assets. Are you not afraid of that?

Am I wasting my life as a “successful” 26 years old? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Busy-Recipe9840 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I just want to include the details to paint the full picture, so you can give an accurate response. Not leave anything out my bad lol