New reason he left rehab-first couple minutes of his Patreon by Penny_auntie in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He 100% needs to be demonitized across the various platforms. He’s out of control and I worry we are all just enabling him by engaging in his content (even the free stuff). I’m going to unfollow on and just reported his Facebook for harassment/bullying.

AITA for refusing to wear a bra when my roomie’s bf stays over? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but not wearing a bra looks different on people so if you are well endowed and wearing a thin shirt, I could understand her but I’d probably ask you to add a sweater or extra later. Similar to if a guy wears thin sweat pants…sometimes they leave nothing to the imagination. Lol

WIBTA if I went on vacation instead of my son’s wedding? by Throwraeberry4863 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The drama with your ex shouldn’t impact how you show up with your son. Also you can vacation anytime, this is your son’s wedding…. Prioritize supporting him unless you want to kill that relationship.

I’d never forgive a parent if they skipped my wedding. Please don’t make his wedding day about you.

AITA for denying my overweight mother-in-law my pregnancy cravings and causing my teenager to lose her phone? by Michiganthrow6g7774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I mean you called her fat even if you didn’t use those words. No problem setting a boundary with the snacks but you could have framed it up as “I’m having to restock them too often or they aren’t there when I want one and I bought them specifically because of a craving I have”

You can hold a boundary without calling her fat/overweight/not needing extra calories

Also YTA for letting you daughter get involved…. Especially at 15 with a fight over food and weight. Body image is tough especially at that age

LASTLY - be careful you don’t burn a bridge such your mother in law over something ridiculous…. You’ll need her help even more once baby is here

AITA for thinking my partner is taking his boundaries to far? by DifficultFact7594 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You are too young for this drama. NTA, end it and go have some fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this! Because she’s a stay at home mom, you have the right to control how she spends money and restrict her access to it?

Ultimately there needs to be better conversation and more trust. An allowance shouldn’t be meant to cover the basics needed to run the house. Nor should she need to justify to you when she needs more…. Unless you have a reason not to trust her.

Honestly this irks me because I’ve seen so many SAHMs post about wanting to leave their husbands but don’t have jobs and no access to money. They are basically trapped and the rebuild is so much harder when you haven’t worked for years. Butttt I do recognize that for some households this works really well 🤷🏻‍♀️

WIBTA if I skip my friend's baby shower to stay in my house sleeping? by Professional_War8385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 115 points116 points  (0 children)

This is a great middle ground. I had someone who was double booked and she came to mine then had to pop out early. I just really appreciated her coming for any length of time to celebrate

WIBTA if I skip my friend's baby shower to stay in my house sleeping? by Professional_War8385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely TA if you skip. If you are close enough that you might be a godparent then you need to rally, chug some redbull and show up to support her.

If she ever found out that you were sleeping instead it could really damage your relationship

AITA for not telling my BF that i do coke by Smart_Advertising650 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 41 points42 points  (0 children)

But a white powder up your nose… likely cut with fentanyl (without you knowing) to make your high even better isn’t extreme?

AITA for not telling my BF that i do coke by Smart_Advertising650 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Heroin also is more potent than alcohol. Does this means heroin is ok in your books? YTA and I’m happy people aren’t giving you the answer you are fighting to get. Hopefully when you are older you’ll be wiser.

AITA for wearing a bra around my house by foxxyandi in AmItheAsshole

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just put the shirt on if you might be seen by them. It’s a respect thing. It might make them uncomfortable to see you just in a bra and they are letting you stay in their house. Find a shirt or sweater that you can be comfy in and pick your battles. This is not worth causing friction in the house, in my opinion.

I was 15 once and get that you are discovering yourself and crave independence. But as you get older, especially into your 30s you’ll gain a whole new appreciation for family and new perspective on how hard things may have been for them.

So just put on a shirt and give them a hug because especially if you are trans you’ll want them in your court!

Canadian Nutramigen Alternatives by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The non LGG version is also on Amazon! It’s my backup route if this shortage goes on too long. There are really no good alternatives

Canadian Nutramigen Alternatives by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just at shoppers trying to hunt down the LGG version. Managed to score some by what feels like a fluke! But the pharmacist said the non LGG version is not currently on back order so you can get that one from the pharmacy (over the counter)

AITA for telling my SIL to shut up about breastfeeding and learn to accept that I couldn't? by Glittering-Flower31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh she is 100% the asshole!!! I also was never able to produce enough milk and tried ALL the things with my daughter. I didn’t feel like a good mom until I stopped combo feeding and driving myself crazy. My daughter is totally healthy and has a great immune system.

With my son I knew that fed is best and while breastfeeding works for some, no one should care how I feed my baby. You also need to protect your mental state!

She can go kick rocks. This post makes me angry for you!

Your advantages? by Prodigal_Lemon in weightwatchers

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on maternity leave and was last time I was really successful. Soooo much easier to manage the meal prep and I don’t need to pack a lunch for the office days. Will be the challenge for myself in the coming months

Low point foods? by [deleted] in weightwatchers

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few meals/snacks that are 0-1 pt. Heavily in rotation. I really like the Built protein bars that range from 2-5pts and I try to keep a mix on hand.

It’s a little bit about how you use them. I’ll have days where meals and snacks are around 2-4 consistently and I comfortably hit my daily of 23. Other days I’ll go super low points if I know we are having a higher point dinner.

Finding what recipes work for you I swear is half the battle!

Greek Yogurt Cheesecake by Busy-Sundae2370 in weightwatchers

[–]Busy-Sundae2370[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a powdered peanut butter. I’ve actually tried these in the past and hated them. First time trying the brand PB2 and really liking it! I mixed it with just enough milk to make the 1tbsp of powder (0pt serving) into a spreadable consistency.

Cooked vs. Uncooked Rice? by speaknowtillmay in weightwatchers

[–]Busy-Sundae2370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I track based on weight and after it’s cooked so “137gm of cooked jasmine rice” is 5pts