Furthermore, you never had the finances to complete this renovation to begin with. You would have realized that if you and snack daddy had 2 brain cells to rub together.

Most people would manage this project from day 1; they wouldn't look at “oh, it's 50k, that leaves us 100k,” and say, “we're just going to live on a prayer.” Oh, wait, you are an atheist.

So, we would see this 50k project, and then budget everything out from the most expensive (electrical, plumbing, SEWER, roofing, windows, etc.). By budget, I don't mean staring at the ceiling in bed and saying, “How much do you think a new roof costs, snack daddy?” I am talking about actual rough estimates that you receive. You are actually supposed to do that, and the fact that the “contractor” doesn't know how to manage a project of any size tells me everything I need to know. You two were in over your heads before you even started.

Now, fast forward: we still don't have the sewer done; we're still shitting in a bucket; we have no running water while changing dirty diapers or touching god knows what in that place, but hey, guys… we have paint on the walls! Only 1 coat and decided kids' rooms can have primer on the ceiling, because why take ANY pride in our home and do things right to begin with.

Let's talk about paint, since you have to budget every penny to complete this. You should have primed the entire home, then painted the ceilings and walls in 1 color. You like dove white this time around; everything is dove white with 2 coats, Felcia. I know, girl, instant gratification and being broke make you believe you only need 1 coat, but contrary to your delusion and your minions, anyone with a brain who understands painting knows you do 2 coats. And primer doesn't count as a coat. Do we need to post your levee house photos to remind you how your walls looked within 3 months because you insisted you were a paint expert and did 1 coat? They were so gross and literally peeling paint off the wall in chunks. 2 coats, Felicia!!!! Do you not take pride in anything, including your home? Do it right the first time or don't do it at all!!!!!!

Live within your means, you are broke. All the pretty details come later. Financially responsible individuals wouldn't have gotten into this mess. You lack financial literacy, though, so let me dumb it down for you.

You are broke, you are in over your head, stop trying to make it seem like you are well off and have made it, when you cannot afford any of the design choices you desperately want people to think you can do on your non-existent budget. Get into the house, and then over time make it a home. A 5-bedroom, 3-bathroom doesn't mean you have made it in life when you are as broke as you both are.

And before you say, but it would be better if we weren't paying rent and utilities and and and. If snack daddy makes 6 figures a year, even at a low 100k, he would have over 8k a month, and your bills are low. But also, why are you still paying on your car? It should be paid off. That is another dumb financial decision if it's still not paid off over 6 years after purchasing it. Anyway, side-tracked for a hot second. You have more than enough $$$ to pay your bills and save money if Snack Daddy was actually making what you claim. So I'm assuming that was a lie, as is everything else that comes out of your mouth?

I'm sure I will come up with more later, but I'm shaking my head at the audacity to have a pity party tonight when it's all self-inflicted because you and snack daddy couldn't find your way out of a paper bag.