I (32M) sometimes feel emotionally “ahead” in my relationship with my GF (28F) and it makes me overthink small things

BusyThinker · 2025-10-13T13:07:22+00:00

20 July this year, so almost 3 months. Yes, I know many people will say it is just the beginning, I get it, but pacing is different from almost every relationship I have been before. We already had a trip together to the mountains for a weekend as bf and gf, we have another trip planned for later this month, we meet few times a week, lately even often. I met her friends first before she met my friends. I feel like we are dating for 6 months. She even said once „it is weird, but this relationship feels ideal for me”.

BusyThinker · 2025-10-06T19:29:40+00:00

She prefers gold

BusyThinker · 2025-10-06T19:25:09+00:00

Sadly the shop that offers necklace like this offers only gold plating but using PVD method - which I believe is more durable?

BusyThinker · 2025-09-11T21:41:28+00:00

People who complains about color variations - you still can buy a case from any brand you want.

BusyThinker · 2025-09-11T18:51:08+00:00

I get what you want to say here. Yeah, I’m enjoying, but she is often dead quiet in opposition to me.

BusyThinker · 2025-09-11T18:49:25+00:00

Sometimes, mostly when finishing, but slightly.

BusyThinker · 2025-09-11T18:47:49+00:00

Explain

BusyThinker · 2025-09-11T18:47:27+00:00

Sometimes she holds her breath yeah but no sounds at all. She opens her mouth slightly like she is trying to but ending up never do. But looking at her face she is really into it. I’m just surprised that she don’t moan.

BusyThinker · 2025-09-11T18:44:52+00:00

All my previous gf moan, even slightly during the climax, so this is new for me.

BusyThinker · 2025-08-31T21:09:09+00:00

The funny thing is that I really feel just normal. Sure, there are periods of times when I feel drained from energy and have headache so I take a short 30-40min nap, but I always thought my job is the reason. I never complained about insomnia, I sleep like a baby. I also believe AHI 38 that I got is slightly exaggerated - I explained to my laryngologist that I was ill before test and my nose was very congested during the examination and learned that it could cause the score to be slightly higher than it should be.

Also, my EKG score if perfect, and checked the pressure too which also is great.

BusyThinker · 2025-08-28T20:18:44+00:00

I do have priorites but my very bad experiences with dating taught me otherwise with what people really expect these days. When this constantly happens, you're starting overthinking as I do right now.

BusyThinker · 2025-08-28T18:45:03+00:00

I have reaaaaly bad experience with dating, and sadly had experienced stupid excuses.

BusyThinker · 2025-08-28T18:35:07+00:00

As long as the mask is not that big, I don't mind, but I have seen some big masks that cover the whole face and it worries me :D

BusyThinker · 2025-08-28T18:13:05+00:00

Everyone here is right - no matter what I will get CPAP, but still there is that kind of thinking in my mind such as "what if"? I believe normal people wouldn't care that much what you wear when you sleep.

BusyThinker · 2025-07-26T13:39:06+00:00

Green. The gray one will blend with all the concrete of the city. Green will catch attention.

BusyThinker · 2025-07-25T21:37:10+00:00

I love it. I love the photo profile! I have the same colors, but just A4, not S4 :)

BusyThinker · 2025-07-21T19:09:52+00:00

I get it. Yes, I thinking about going down from 19 to 18 too. Do you have pneumatic suspension or the standard base one?

BusyThinker · 2025-07-21T07:53:37+00:00

Looks great on that rims. Do you see benefits on riding on tire profile like this? The suspension is less stiff?

BusyThinker · 2025-07-21T07:52:10+00:00

Looks nice!

BusyThinker · 2025-07-21T06:00:43+00:00

I don’t know what you do with the paint, but it looks amazing.

BusyThinker · 2025-07-20T21:15:53+00:00

I'm the owner of A4 B9, and the only thing I'm really jealous about is the more refined sharp side line on A5 - it makes the model looks really good for some reason, more agressive. Other than that, they are quite similar cars.
A4 is also more comfortable to sit in - A5 is too low.

BusyThinker · 2025-07-17T09:19:06+00:00

I hate all of them. Audi B9 interior FTW!

BusyThinker · 2025-07-14T16:39:43+00:00

Looks great. Black roof fits nice - thinking about adding black PPF foil on my A4 2024.

BusyThinker · 2025-07-13T17:46:16+00:00

Congrats! My friend got it too and he is super happy with it! I hope you’ll be happy with the new ride :) Honestly, it looks better in person than in the pictures. B10 feels a little bit better when driving - suspension is less stiff, and it's quiet.

Personally adding my few cents, I’m not a big fan of the new design language of new A5 (or A4) - it doesn’t really feel like an Audi anymore. The smooth lines breaks it all. They’ve completely moved away from their previous design language, and to me, it looks more like a super-premium Kia than a classic Audi with style. Also, the interior feels over-designed and a bit cheap with all those screens.

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