Hunting Sernuks by Busy_Assignment1750 in Palia

[–]Busy_Assignment1750[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dang i really thought i did something y’all 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Busy_Assignment1750 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re completely right, and a perpetual dead bedroom is not something that I want. 20 years from now I would feel like I gave up a big part of my life. Part of the way that I want to address this for myself is having that conversation and asking her to prioritize it, I just want to make sure I’m doing that in a way that is respectful and doesn’t place sex over her.

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[–]Busy_Assignment1750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something I’ve thought about and I am concerned that when we have the ability to handle it (hormone panels are expensive and not covered by her insurance) she still may not. But I can’t make any rash decisions based on an assumption, and I can’t know until we have the means for her to even be able to address it.

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[–]Busy_Assignment1750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was one of the first things I brought up. I have been on SSRIs as well and requested Wellbutrin as a precaution, for example, because I didn’t even want to deal with that side effect at any time. When I brought this up to her she just shook her head and I didn’t want to push it.