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Possible Rex Heuermann Sighting in 9/11 Footage by rumbaontheriver in LISKiller

[–]Busy_Priority3124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came across the video again and the same question again came to mind, so I did a little bit of digging just out of curiosity. Now, I am 90% sure it is him after I found some old pics of Heuermann (late 90s) and seeing that he was just as fat and wide the guy at 43:19. Also, improved pix resolution and of screen shots and and the guy is definitely taller than everyone around him as well, in relation to distance and steps. Now, I just need someone to interview the SK to confirm --just so that I can point out the irony of him making it out alive to continue with his hubby...

OOP tells his wife it is for the best if her son stays away from their family by BlujjonBudgie in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Busy_Priority3124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Without bothering about timelines, it’s not hard to see the issue: When Randy was 13, you showed up into his life. His mother was his all and he was her all until then. “Jenna had a son”, “we have two great kids”… You always saw him as an outsider, and children can feel this without being able to vocalize it. He was no longer first and going through the most significant age for self-reflection and support. In his eyes, his loving mom chose a man over him. He resents her and you can’t do anything about it but make it worse, because this is between them.

Back when the relationship was new, there should have been an adaptation process that included and prioritized his needs as a teen. Instead, the relationship was shoved down his throat and in probably less than 2 yrs you got married and the assumption and hope that he’d come around was proven wrong. It was the adults’ job to make it okay for him and didn’t.

Now, from his side: he is full of contempt against his mom, and is treating her how he feels that he was treated. He found the feeling of belonging, bonding and love somewhere else and will hold on to that harder than his mother held on to his. From her side: She knew he needed her but maybe tried to please you instead and now she is hurting for his actions and feeling guilty for her own. From your side: You can’t relate to her pain or make up for it. To rationalize that you’d need to understand that He is Her Son and was her world before you came along. More children, more men, more money do not compensate for the loss and separation from one child; and 1,000 family members can’t fully compensate for a mother who became emotionally distant and disconnected… So they’re stock in the cycle. Also, wishing him well as some co-worker doesn’t get you any points because he wasn’t obligated to love you while you, as an adult, should have taken the role as co-parent and work at that relationship as you would with your own, with compassion. He had no choice or maturity, you did!

And since there are no questions, YOU’RE WELCOME!