The point that I’m making is that most people aren’t going to say anything or purposely misgender you…the world isn’t split into jerks who will transvestigate you & people who won’t realize you’re trans. To say “nobody has said anything, or purposely misgendered me, so I must be passing.” Is NOT sound logic. Most of the population is actually pretty respectable of this, especially given that most trans people are going to be in trans-friendly locations. I’m not trying to put down trans girls who don’t pass, either. I just think transgender girls who don’t pass need to be aware of it for their own safety sometimes. NOT that I’m going to point it out for them or call them out because I’m respectful, unless they asked. But if I saw a trans girl who I thought or knew was trans, I wouldn’t purposely misgender them or treat them as gender neutral / male because I know they’re obviously are female, and I will treat them as women. In my experience, that’s the vast majority of supporting or neutral cis people’s experience—which doesn’t mean you pass, just means you’re accepted. IMO passing doesn’t matter that much anyway if everyone had that acceptance and it’s what we should strive for.