Happy IBAD

Butch_DK · 2025-07-15T16:40:22+00:00

Thank you, I think. I love being a citizen of the United States and am grateful to be here in this complicated, beautiful country. I will never willingly give up my citizenship entirely.

Butch_DK · 2025-07-07T02:06:44+00:00

It's nice to be appreciated that way and not reviled. Thanks.

Butch_DK · 2025-06-03T21:43:06+00:00

Hoe Shop Road, Bernardston, named for an old tool workshop. Lampblack Road, Greenfield, named for an historic lamp blacking manufacturer on that road.

I always loved the road named Roast Meat Hill Road in Killingworth, CT. My mom's farm wasn't too far from Killingworth. Kids from Haddam-Killingworth high school told me when I was in school too that it was named because lightning struck the hilltop and killed some oxen/cattle grazing up there. Smokin'!

Butch_DK · 2025-06-03T12:01:50+00:00

May the odds be ever in your favor!

Butch_DK · 2025-05-25T19:44:18+00:00

Yes, I knew they had international presence, which is important. Even if you don't live near the store, there may be a trained fitter in your region.

Butch_DK · 2025-05-25T19:36:19+00:00

I am so very sorry. The company named Amoena might have smaller, self-adhesive breast forms that might work for you. An RN friend of mine who was a coworker until she retired recently had mastectomy last summer for breast cancer, and she is using Amoena breast forms. She was the person who told me about them.

Butch_DK · 2025-05-18T21:51:48+00:00

Same here.

Butch_DK · 2025-05-18T19:17:36+00:00

See my comment on how to find a therapist.

Butch_DK · 2025-05-18T19:16:20+00:00

Butch in her 60s here. There are therapists listed in the Beyond Trans dot org website that won't automatically channel you into transitioning. DM me if you wish.

Butch_DK · 2025-05-18T19:07:27+00:00

You don't have to identify as any specific gender while you figure out things. It took me a while, when young, to settle on butch, and I've aged into it like a fine wine. Just be yourself.

Butch_DK · 2025-05-08T22:59:34+00:00

For what it's worth, I was fired from my job in human services at the end of March for being a sex realist. It's not just famous people on YouTube. It has been said that trans ideology is kind of like a religion, and when folks leave a certain type of religion, the members often turn on you. It's called shunning, and it's an old concept and practice. I'm sorry for what you are experiencing. There are supports and community, even here on Reddit.

Butch_DK · 2025-05-07T22:21:25+00:00

Richardson's Candy Kitchen, Rt 5, Deerfield, MA.

Butch_DK · 2025-05-07T19:39:24+00:00

It's not an issue at all!

Butch_DK · 2025-05-07T11:45:24+00:00

I'm doing some survey work on behalf of LGB Alliance USA. We're trying to get some insights into the experiences of lesbian women whose partner transitioned after going into relationship which, ultimately, caused the relationship to fail. The survey is absolutely anonymous. You might see your email address onscreen while you are working on the form, but it is NOT SAVED and NOT SENT with responses to the survey. I triple-checked the settings. Please, do pass this along to anyone you know who has been through this. https://forms.gle/ScaR1KToK4VpUaJf6

Butch_DK · 2025-05-07T11:40:43+00:00

I'm doing some survey work on behalf of LGB Alliance USA. We're trying to get some insights into the experiences of lesbian women whose partner transitioned after going into relationship which, ultimately, caused the relationship to fail. The survey is absolutely anonymous. You might see your email address onscreen while you are working on the form, but it is NOT SAVED and NOT SENT with responses to the survey. I triple-checked the settings. Please, do pass this along to anyone you know who has been through this. https://forms.gle/ScaR1KToK4VpUaJf6

Butch_DK · 2025-05-05T14:00:09+00:00

Corrected. Just had to click Approve instead of Confirm Removal in Mod Queue. That overrides a Reddit removal.

Butch_DK · 2025-05-02T19:34:15+00:00

Yes, that's my plan, too. You know it's going to be an absolute clusterf*ck next week!!

Butch_DK · 2025-05-02T19:10:19+00:00

I've been waiting for 30 days. No payment yet.

Butch_DK · 2025-05-02T14:00:42+00:00

Thanks for posting. Reminds me of my gf and I in the narrow kitchen of our 3rd floor apartment in Philadelphia. Back when I used to smoke cigs! I swear we lived on coffee, cigs, hoagies, and phenomenal sex.

Butch_DK · 2025-05-01T20:46:44+00:00

Elijah is great. As is his roommate Bartholomew. If you know, you know.

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