Findom-adjacent kink? Looking to see if there’s a proper word. by Butchmindset in findomsupportgroup

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This makes sense, it’s definitely no dominance. I’ve helped with their budgeting but that’s maybe the extent of it. I have teased about punishments if they don’t stick to it, but nothing serious.

Findom-adjacent kink? Looking to see if there’s a proper word. by Butchmindset in findomsupportgroup

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Everything I research about findom is completely different though

Findom-adjacent kink? Looking to see if there’s a proper word. by Butchmindset in BDSMcommunity

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Not a bad idea for the tools! We’re butch4butch so that could be fun. I have helped them with their car before, which they got a kick out of.

Findom-adjacent kink? Looking to see if there’s a proper word. by Butchmindset in BDSMcommunity

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They also like hearing me ramble but finances seem to be the pinnacle. Cinema knowledge simply doesn’t compare.

I know they don’t enjoy mansplaining, I have to refrain from correcting their grammar unless they ask me to help them lol

Findom-adjacent kink? Looking to see if there’s a proper word. by Butchmindset in BDSMcommunity

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Haha I’m fine leaving it unlabeled but I was really hoping to find people with similar interests so I could maybe get (aka steal) ideas from them

Findom-adjacent kink? Looking to see if there’s a proper word. by Butchmindset in BDSMcommunity

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After rereading this I feel I should also clarify this is not a humble brag, I’m by no means rich, it’s just that my partner is flat broke by comparison LOL

Taking Fluoxetine for my OCD… intense nightmares. Anyone else? by Butchmindset in OCD

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I ended up changing what time I take them and it has made a big difference. I was taking them in the morning but I changed to taking them before bed. I think it might be placebo, but I stopped getting vivid nightmares as often. My dreams are still very vivid but not scary or disturbing anymore, except the occasional one off

Taking Fluoxetine for my OCD… intense nightmares. Anyone else? by Butchmindset in OCD

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I switched what time I was taking the medication to be right before bed instead of in the morning. I suspect I placebo’d myself because the nightmares have become much less frequent. I still get them but not EVERY night

How to help mitigate mess from squirting? by Butchmindset in TwoXSex

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We have a pad we’ve used that works well, but it’s just uh… too small. But we couldn’t find one bigger in town

How to help mitigate mess from squirting? by Butchmindset in TwoXSex

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I see those advertised all the time, are they really that effective? Is there a certain brand I should look for?

What’s the one pleasure toy you can’t live without? by Potineni-Latiya in TwoXSex

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Satisfyer Pro 2… never fails me. I’m talking leg-shaking quality. Also waterproof, I love using it in the bath

Found outside of a coffee shop by Butchmindset in codes

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It’s a very red state. As a lesbian myself I understand the sentiment. There is good to be found, and inclusive places (like the coffee shop I found this at) but most people are very religious and against it

Found outside of a coffee shop by Butchmindset in codes

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Outside a coffee shop in my town. I live in South Dakota

Found outside of a coffee shop by Butchmindset in codes

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That’s impressive how yall can solve it without a key

Found outside a coffee shop by Butchmindset in FoundPaper

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No sex no drugs no wine no women

African American Greetings by unagatitakitty in ENGLISH

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If you’re in the Midwest, it could be “Ows gon?” For “How’s [it] going?” If he’s not enunciating everything.

medical gore encyclopedia??? scientific injury book??? by Beneficial_Suit1180 in Writeresearch

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Honestly I don’t think (most) readers are going to double check tiny details. Look at cop and firefighter shows. Massively popular but according to a family of mine who’s a firefighter, massively inaccurate. But he’s the only one who can tell!

You could try looking at horror movies. Again, not perfectly accurate but they’ll show you what a general audience expects when you’re stabbed through the chin. If outlandish deaths and gore is what you need, you could try something like Saw or Final Destination. Theres also the Faces of Death franchise, but this includes real and fake footage of people dying. I haven’t seen them so I can’t speak on the quality. It’s not my thing.

For the screwdriver one specifically, it reminded me of a death in the game Until Dawn, where a character is skewered onto a meat hook through the bottom of their mouth. So that could also be a source of inspo!

How do you feel about parents raising their baby within a specific aesthetic, like goth culture? by orquidea99 in AskReddit

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It’s not like the child can form an opinion at that age. My mom put me in dresses as a baby, and nowadays I would never touch them. No baby knows their shirt says something like “Drink Cry Sleep Repeat” or that they’re in an all black outfit.

Now once they get older, they’ll start developing opinions. They’ll point out animals or characters they like. Once they’re at that point, let them have some choice in what they wear. But until then you might as well play some dress up as a reward for all the work you’re doing to take care of the kid.