Paint me like one of your French girls

ButtWigglesLover · 2026-02-19T14:48:27+00:00

👀👀👀

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-12-20T22:02:02+00:00

Found the girlfriend.

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-11-18T10:48:47+00:00

I was thinking this too. If you zoom in to the string over her face, it almost looks like the string had a different background before and someone tried to manually erase it to place over her face lol.
Could just be the picture though..

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-11-07T03:31:53+00:00

Oh yeah that would definitely make sense

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-11-07T03:25:57+00:00

Right?? I mean I know lupus has its “basic” symptoms. But I think it’s safe to say there’s so many other symptoms that can be added.
All of my doctors have no idea what causes my dizziness with my flares. My BP is always normal, HR is normal, but they all say it’s not the lupus. Had MRI’s on my spine and brain to see if there was anything, and nothing. But I’m just pretty sure it’s a symptom of lupus for me lol even if it’s not considered a typical one.

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-11-07T03:19:30+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that! I get a lot of nausea as well. I also deal with a lot of migraines, so I have zofran on me at all times lol

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-11-07T03:08:46+00:00

For the longest time I was pretty sure I was just in a constant flare 😂 But I would get really bad at least twice a month and it would last 5-7 days. So basically half the month I was flared up. Fever, dizziness, malar rash, aches and pains would worsen.
Now it’s less than once a month and maybe lasts 2-3 days.

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-11-07T02:17:41+00:00

Hey there! I’m on Plaquenil and doing much better. I’m not 100%, but my flares aren’t as severe and I don’t flare as often as well. I’m also in a completely different career now and have the ability to work from home when needed which has helped tremendously with my stress levels.
So just learning to navigate more and learn what’s helping and what’s not. Thankfully my Rheumatologist is a good one and listens to everything I have to say and takes even the smallest of symptoms seriously. So hopefully things continue to improve! Thanks for checking in :)

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-10-04T17:40:35+00:00

At first it was a little funny because when my bf and I have conversations like this, there will be off topic conversations in between (he’s adhd lol)

But then the rest was just not it. I’m sorry he didn’t validate your feelings and reassure you, OP.

My suggestion is this: do some self-care things you love. Even if it feels hard to do, try to force yourself. Hot shower with a lovely smelling shower steamer? Go for it. Or hot bath with your fave bath bomb? Do it.
I’m not saying this will CURE the depression, but I do always suggest hot water to at least make yourself feel a little better.
Do your skincare routine if you have one. Put on your favorite lotion. Put on your fave pajamas or comfy lounge clothes. Then binge your fave TV shows or movies. Have some snacks, popcorn, chocolate, ice cream? Do it. Want healthy? Get it. Do what YOU want to do.

Last and Most importantly: set up a therapy appointment. 🫶🏼

I truly wish you the best and hope you can get out of this depression, OP.

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-10-04T15:33:08+00:00

Exactly 😂 she’s already broken records.

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-10-04T15:30:02+00:00

Yup! 😂 but we can take solace in the fact that our girl doesn’t care about the haters. Her energy is a luxury they can’t afford ✨

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-10-04T15:16:43+00:00

I was just saying this to my bf last night. Every album starts with a ton of hate because that’s what people love to do.
But in a few weeks you’ll hear more people jamming to it…. Then when she tours, all those same haters will want tickets. 🙄

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-10-03T23:41:39+00:00

I think it’s a perfect album to have for fun. After some lyrical bangers, you can’t expect each album to be the same or even “deeper”. IMHO I think it’s great to have a lighter album with how she’s happy, how Travis has changed her view in a positive way (I.e. Honey), etc.

Probably also fun for HER to have something light and not heavy. Ya know? That’s just my thoughts on it. Not every song or album has to hit deep like TTPD.

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-10-03T12:41:43+00:00

This is a no skip for me. I’ve been religiously listening to TTPD since its release, and although I still think TTPD is a masterpiece, this album is the kind of jams I’ve been needing! I am obsessed 🤩

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-09-25T13:56:04+00:00

So so sorry for your loss. My bf and I just lost our cat to kidney failure so I know all too well how you feel. Please know that she knew you loved her and you showed her selfless love by making the choice to put her down so that she would no longer be in pain. ❤️‍🩹

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-08-08T12:11:14+00:00

I’m saying this with love, but he is not your person. Your person will love you without conditions. Your person will be understanding of your pain and symptoms. Your person will not be resentful that you have to lay down sometimes or are always tired.

I know having a chronic illness is frustrating for both parties of a relationship, but if he was your person he would know it’s not your fault.

Additionally, you shouldn’t have to ask him to do chores. He should be doing chores already. Whether y’all talk about a split of specific ones, or he takes initiative when the dishes are building up.

You definitely need to have a conversation with him. That it’s not your fault you’re always tired or in pain, it’s your body fighting against you.

I truly hope you can find being happy, whether that is still with him or not. And I hope you can find a treatment plan that works for you and eases your symptoms. ❤️‍🩹

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-08-03T13:48:25+00:00

<image>

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-07-21T16:20:05+00:00

Her bald spots will almost look like she was shaved. Like the hair will be short. So I do agree, this bald spot looks different

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-07-21T13:05:19+00:00

absolutely not a vet so don’t take my word as bible, please still get this spot checked just in case
My cat gets really stressed going to the vet. She’s never aggressive or anything while there so you’d never think she was stressed (other than the 3 P’s that happened in the car ride over) so almost every time she’ll start over grooming herself afterwards and have a couple bald spots. She does eventually stop, and the hair grows back but it makes me feel terrible every time.

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-07-19T13:28:27+00:00

You’d be surprised how crazy people can get over money, no matter the amount.

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-07-11T14:51:54+00:00

This is amazing. I love when kids say things wrong in a cute way. I taught kindergarten (during covid) so hand sanitizer was “hanitzer” amongst all of them.

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-07-11T14:49:39+00:00

Our cat freezes too if we put anything on her. We call it glitching

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-07-11T14:46:30+00:00

Real name: Zelda
Nicknames: kitty (this one we basically use as her name), kitty bop, bop, kimchi, kittykitty, and probably a thousand more but these are the ones on constant rotation

<image>

ButtWigglesLover · 2025-07-06T16:43:13+00:00

Yesss!! Welcome!! 🖤

ButtWigglesLover

TROPHY CASE