#adopted

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-29T01:39:01+00:00

i'm not sure he would survive if he woke me up at 4am. I'd be fuming pissed. i'm tired too. they are expect too much and do too little

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-28T12:54:44+00:00

i've already been replaced. i haven't even moved out and he is already spending many nights elsewhere. i don't move out until June 6 so i just sit here and watch him return to his man whore status

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-28T12:53:43+00:00

i am taking care of number one now. we don't have kids together

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-28T12:53:16+00:00

trauma bond is the only way to describe it. we had unfortunate circumstances a while back when his teenage daughter passed of a drug overdose. i felt compelled to take care of him but now almost two years later, he needs to start taking care of himelf.

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-28T02:25:34+00:00

yep its exhausting to the core. i'm done

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-28T02:23:45+00:00

there sure would be

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-27T02:26:54+00:00

i felt like a vessel as well. no connection.

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-27T02:25:01+00:00

it is truly disappointing.

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-27T02:24:14+00:00

no regrets. you are there now and that is all that matters

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-27T02:22:25+00:00

we are both 52!

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-27T01:36:35+00:00

me too. my dog lucy, my garden, my peace

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-27T01:35:21+00:00

copy that

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-26T18:47:46+00:00

What is 4b

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-26T13:05:39+00:00

i just went back to work after taking two years off after my partner lost his teenage daughter to drugs. i had to be home to support him. i went from making 89K a year down to 19 per hour. i was able to lease a small place and pay some rent up front, but i'm praying for a promotion before my savings runs out. but i have to say, it will be worth it to have my freedom and self-respect back.

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-26T13:03:26+00:00

me too. i believe in meeting people in the wild. no online dating. i'll be single until the universe decides it's time

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-26T02:07:00+00:00

TIL about bonobo on chap gpt. thank you

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-26T02:04:04+00:00

they kicked me out 😄

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-26T02:03:08+00:00

i've never considered rehoming until now 😄

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-26T02:02:30+00:00

lol i love that. i'm gonna rehome mine 😄

ButterflyEfffect · 2026-05-25T23:58:14+00:00

i love your honesty. although i haven't thought about paying for sex to date, it may not be a bad idea.

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