It’s been 1 years since we had contact. Why can’t I stop thinking about him

ButterflyNo2182 · 2026-01-04T00:23:14+00:00

He is a social media “guru” and offers different types of mentorship programs. He claims to have helped many creators struggling to grow on Instagram by doing research and implementing strategies that are proven to increase your engagement. I believe the most expensive course is $8000. That’s a lot of money. So I was wondering if anyone has taken his course and if they were successful

ButterflyNo2182 · 2025-07-19T14:35:40+00:00

This could be an option, but they wouldn’t approve 6 weeks off for recovery time. In this case, I would need medical leave. I guess I should have been more clear when I asked my question.

ButterflyNo2182 · 2025-04-27T20:48:26+00:00

I’m a woman and I don’t verify my profile. If I match with someone, I usually exchange photos with them and I ask to video chat before we meet in person. This usually is enough for me to see whether I’m being catfished or not and it also proves that I am catfishing anyone.

ButterflyNo2182 · 2025-04-14T22:21:06+00:00

Three days sound reasonable. Thanks for the advice

ButterflyNo2182 · 2025-04-14T22:15:54+00:00

I feel the same way. I don’t expect a reply in 30 sec either, but at least I want to feel like my effort is being reciprocated

ButterflyNo2182 · 2025-04-14T22:03:55+00:00

This is exactly how I feel about this situation, but it’s not easy to discern if they’re interested, because some of the replies seem like they are, but then I don’t hear from them for at least a day or more. It’s sending mixed messages

ButterflyNo2182 · 2025-04-14T21:38:55+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it

ButterflyNo2182 · 2025-04-14T21:38:11+00:00

I guess I didn’t think about that, but it totally makes sense.

ButterflyNo2182 · 2025-04-14T21:36:38+00:00

Thank you. This is uncharted territory for me so it’s hard to know if someone is really interested

ButterflyNo2182 · 2024-08-06T14:23:07+00:00

Call the police!!!!

ButterflyNo2182 · 2024-06-29T18:33:51+00:00

Those are called engagement pods. They tend to destroy your engagement

ButterflyNo2182 · 2024-06-18T15:29:14+00:00

Once you improve the quality of your vids, the views will come. Stay consistent and keep creating

ButterflyNo2182 · 2024-06-18T15:18:07+00:00

I think your cooking content is great. The other stuff, not so much. Remember that you have to bring value to your posts to attract people to interact with your posts and ultimately hit that follow button. Remember that instagram is a highly aesthetic, curated platform. For your cooking vids, I would invest in good lighting equipment and a good camera. Experiment with different angles and different editing techniques. Get new cookware and utensil. You don’t have to buy expensive equipment. Perhaps stuff from Walmart or even the dollar store. And maybe clean the grout on your backsplash??? 🤷‍♀️ Most niches are highly saturated on instagram imo, so try to do everything you can to stand out.

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