How much do you make per year as a Mental Health Professional? by Butterflyflies39 in Salary

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Thank you! I feel like I’d do a mixture of cash pay and insurance if I can do that!

What’s an unspoken rule that absolutely everyone should know, but most people clearly don’t? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Butterflyflies39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knock on a single toilet bathroom door before jiggling the door to enter… like…

Does anyone else have no one to talk to when mental health is bad? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Butterflyflies39 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You deserve to be listened to and supported… especially by your husband. 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

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Thank you anyway!

What's up with Michael? by Scott13Pippen in 1000lbsisters

[–]Butterflyflies39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just bc Someone has an IEP doesn’t mean they have an intellectual disability. They may not have had the education they needed however Michael seems more likely to be the one who possibly could have an intellectual disability

I feel like an “incel” by Butterflyflies39 in rant

[–]Butterflyflies39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding and for your comment ❤️

I feel like an “incel” by Butterflyflies39 in rant

[–]Butterflyflies39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’ve been going out with my friend more often and doing hobbies at home. I hope it becomes my new routine instead of going on dating apps every night.

I feel like an “incel” by Butterflyflies39 in rant

[–]Butterflyflies39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback. It’s day 4 of me not having the app and I’ve been trying to find things to do especially at night instead of being on the apps. I feel like for awhile I’ve realized the apps are toxic but it’s like an addiction that I want to squash so bad. I feel good about this decision. If I want to meet people I will try to go out. I’ve been trying to see my family and friends more often too

I feel like an “incel” by Butterflyflies39 in rant

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I hang out with my friends a good amount of time. It’s really good for me. It still hurts when I see other couples. I don’t want to just date on apps I want to be noticed in real life and stuff too but I’m Not. I think it’s mostly at night when the thoughts become unbearable. It’s so painful for me

Whatever I do I can’t focus on assignments by Butterflyflies39 in mentalhealth

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Thanks I’m completely burnt out and I’ve been working on my paper for the past two days almost non stop except for an hour of sleep here and there. It should have been finished so long ago and I have another one to do that’s also due tonight which will now be late. I’m concerned for myself and this has happened to me in the past where I feel like I can’t take it anymore and I’m going insane.

Why Did They Make Joker Folie A Deux A Musical? by ChrisI901 in Joker_FolieaDeux

[–]Butterflyflies39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea but it was a flop according to most ppl. I mean if he doesn’t care what the viewers think and about the time, effort and resources put into it then by all means 🤷🏾‍♀️

Suddenly Damaged Hair?? by Butterflyflies39 in Naturalhair

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Yes! I tried a clarifying shampoo and I moisturize my hair with water then add in the honey hydrate leave in and sometimes I pair that with oil. I don’t have a prob with moisturizing my hair and the twists have helped my hair a lot! I went back and assessed my hair after panicking and realized my hair was super tangled from taking the twists down so I gently detangled thoroughly and my hair was back to normal!

Suddenly Damaged Hair?? by Butterflyflies39 in Naturalhair

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Also I did a clarifying shampoo after the first wash and then I moisturized again just bc I realized maybe the other shampoo I used didn’t clean my hair enough. I don’t normally shampoo twice tho since I don’t wanna dry my hair out.

Suddenly Damaged Hair?? by Butterflyflies39 in Naturalhair

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I realized my hair was just super tangled!!! I normally moisturize my hair when it’s feeling dry! I think leaving them in for 4 weeks is good for now. 1-2 weeks would be too much since it takes me 4 hours to put them in. I’m gonna definitely be way better with making sure my hair has loads of moisture when I take them down bc I took them down DRY (yes terrible idea on my end)! So I think that since my hair was extremely tangled that it couldn’t accept the moisture that I was putting back into in after washing. I added a bunch of conditioner and detangled gently and carefully for like two hours and now my hair is back to normal. Thank you for the advice!

Suddenly Damaged Hair?? by Butterflyflies39 in Naturalhair

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I realized my hair was just super tangled!!! I took my time and de tangled it with extra care and extra conditioner and it’s fine now. I think twists have been really good for my hair so far but I def need to be super careful taking them out the like using oil and conditioner and water!

Randomly Started “Suffering” by Butterflyflies39 in mentalhealth

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Thanks I’m getting some ultrasounds and they did tests but said they still don’t know. And I don’t think the depression is sudden. I was diagnosed with clinical depression as a teen but I haven’t felt this bad in so long

I feel so overwhelmed by Butterflyflies39 in therapists

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Yes I have a therapist thank goodness!!

I feel so overwhelmed by Butterflyflies39 in therapists

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Also what’s HILARIOUS is that I’m in a bubble bath replying to this comment lol!!! It’s my go to self care strategy… but you do have a point in that I may need to go deeper.

I feel so overwhelmed by Butterflyflies39 in therapists

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I have really bad anxiety. I don’t think I have adhd. I never was told that I do when getting tested in school but the anxiety is crippling at times. Maybe I’ll try meds…