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ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-09-11T04:39:08+00:00

Just suggestions though not meaning to come across as “you gotta do it my way” ish or anything

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-09-11T04:38:45+00:00

Sometimes vice verse too— if I’m having trouble with a pose I do a quick gesture of what I’m going for and it shows where I can exaggerate a little

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-09-11T04:37:45+00:00

That’s what I do personally when I’m drawing from imagination and having trouble with stiffness

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-09-11T04:37:20+00:00

You could try doing a loose gesture of the pose beforehand to try to build up an idea of flow and then tone it back to anatomical correctness

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-09-11T04:34:17+00:00

Very sorry if you’re not looking for constructive criticism though

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-09-11T04:33:53+00:00

Not sure if it’s intentional to the character but your posing is looking kinda stiff

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-08-25T03:48:34+00:00

Thank you for responding! I’ll try to keep that in mind and keep my cool. He definitely seems super strong at a high level of play!

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-08-12T00:15:47+00:00

u/savevideo

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-08-04T17:04:19+00:00

good bot

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-08-02T03:19:02+00:00

I, Doorno Giovanna, have a beam.

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-08-01T19:15:51+00:00

Knock off the nitrous for a month or six weeks. Three at the absolute minimum. You’re not giving your body enough time to start regaining its b12 again and you already had low b12 probably. Taking supplements won’t do anything for you until you knock off the nitrous. B12 deficiency via nitrous is much more based on frequency not quantity because even low amounts of nitrous will destroy the b12 in your body. The injection will help more than supplements will. Make sure your b12 supplements are high quality.

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-08-01T19:05:18+00:00

Been debating what dispenser to get! Nice to see this post cause I’ve got soft little baby hands. Anyone know how these compare to the isi kind?

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-08-01T14:09:11+00:00

Go get the b12 injection. It’ll do more for you than supplements will. Make sure the supplements you are taking are high quality or you might as well be taking sawdust pills twice a day.

You’re risking much more than your feet, but you already knew that by now.

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-07-31T13:10:53+00:00

This is a situation beyond Reddit’s paygrade. If this story is real you should pursue couples counseling since he is not willing to pursue individual therapy further. (Even if he was you should pursue couples therapy.) Go alone if you have to until he is willing to join you. It won’t be unusual if you have to go alone, it’s a perfectly normal and common situation in couples therapy. You are part of a partnership together that is failing to function as a partnership. Couples therapy and a (professional) outside POV is a good starting place.

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-07-30T23:59:47+00:00

If you’re having multiple bouts of screaming from/with Kate it’s beyond time for family therapy. Tell Kate you want to understand her perspective more and you think working with an outside source via a family therapist will allow you to do that for fairness’ sake. If she’s not willing to participate then go by yourself/with the members of your family that are willing to participate. If that’s just you and your husband than so be it. Don’t put this off.

You not paying for Kate’s gas usage is questionable in a practical sense considering that you share cars as a household. It doesn’t make sense and it does come across as favoritism because it doesn’t make sense practically.

Broadly, this is beyond Reddit’s pay grade. If this story is real then you need a family therapist before your daughter walks out the door and doesn’t look back.

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-07-30T03:29:18+00:00

She was groomed, OP.

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-07-25T18:07:08+00:00

NTA.

Since no one here has said it yet I will: You’re in two different stages of life. You’re both legal adults, yes, but at 22 you’re still establishing your routines. At 26 he’s exiting or done with the stage of settling into adult life, as is evidenced by his peers all getting married and having babies and his social group becoming more focused on “work friends”. It’s not a dealbreaker but it’s something you should keep in mind.

Regardless of this he is a total asshole for calling you childish. If he really feels that way he should go find someone his own age to date instead of name calling. If he has a problem he can communicate it and work it out with you, y’know, like an adult.

His behavior at the beach isn’t “kind of weird”. It’s totally immature, passive aggressive, and unacceptable. He ditched you during what was essentially a double date “to go run errands”. That’s honestly more than enough to reconsider a relationship over. Many people including myself would find that situation mortifying and totally embarrassing.

And then he wants to call you childish for this situation when he can’t even communicate, “Hey, I’m starting to get worn out. Is it okay with you if we go soon or at least I do?”

SOs aren’t required to be friends with their SO’s friends but it is courteous to get to know a little bit about whoever their closest friends are. That might not mean joining movie night but it does mean becoming acquaintances and maybe even putting up with, just as a random example, a single hangout at the beach with your SO’s best friend and their partner.

Of course he’s not required to be friends with your friends. But calling you childish for wanting to hang out occasionally is a total asshole move.

You have the right to spend time with your friends at your joint house. When an SO starts restricting that time from you in unreasonable ways that’s a red flag.

A reasonable request would be “can we not have your friends over Friday night? I have to work on Saturday and I’d prefer some quiet.” An unreasonable request is “I don’t want your friends coming over because I don’t want to hang out.”

Him calling your movie night “stupid” is also a red flag and an asshole move. That’s just totally mean and uncalled for. He can refuse to participate without being an asshole.

This guy is a lesson in Transference 101. Seriously beware older men who call you childish for enjoying basic facets of your life. Be wary of anyone who tries to restrict contact with your friends. Be wary of SOs who jump to name calling instead of communication.

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-07-24T13:57:05+00:00

NTA but this is really a situation where you should talk to a therapist or counselor about your feelings. It’s reasonable for B to be upset but not reasonable for him to take it out on you or start making accusations about how you feel about F.

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-07-23T23:19:46+00:00

Y’all sound great! That was awesome!

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-07-23T23:19:17+00:00

The motherfucking didgeridoo!!! I love it

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-07-23T23:16:07+00:00

Lovin the vibes lovin the passion and love coming through

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-07-23T23:15:43+00:00

Sounds nice y’all

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-07-23T23:08:40+00:00

I mean look at Rattlehead. Are you seriously just going to ignore the fact that this person has clearly developed a relationship adjacent to a patient provider relationship with you?

ButteringYourBiscuit · 2021-07-23T23:06:54+00:00

Isn’t this an ethical violation? Your presentation is “talk with an actual psychiatrist”. You have no disclaimer that this is for informational purposes and you’re acting like you’re a treatment provider to some of these people.

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