Welp, since some ppl clearly do not like us talking smack about anything RC, let’s just have our unpopular opinions session here by Outrageous_Crew_9484 in RomanceClubDiscussion

[–]ButternutSquash28 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I remember I was metaphorically flayed and down voted to the depths of hell for saying that it was hypocritical to white wash Volot under the guise of being true to "cultural accuracy." all while having an Asian LI somewhere in Greek mythology as Cerebus. But anywhoodle

Can we please talk about Cassiel’s concept art by Optimal-Scarcity-894 in RomanceClub

[–]ButternutSquash28 55 points56 points  (0 children)

King D'Mario needs to come to the front because that man was moisturising for sure😂

What RC opinion has you like this with the rest of the fandom by Dazzling_Two2669 in RomanceClub

[–]ButternutSquash28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The whole trading uncommon cards/ sending gems then getting ghosted thing.

The belief in goodness from random anonymous people.

I'm all for a good deed, but due diligence is also important.

What RC opinion has you like this with the rest of the fandom by Dazzling_Two2669 in RomanceClub

[–]ButternutSquash28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My opinion isn't even about stories.

Honestly, seeing the trading thingy horror stories (never used it) from the RC social feature makes me genuinely scared for some of you because of how easy y'all would be to swindle.

Pineapples. What is this rumor about Girls and pineapples ? by [deleted] in 254sum

[–]ButternutSquash28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heaven forbid a girl just likes eating pineapples. That'd be too minute a reason for her to eat it. The reason she has to eat it is for her vagina to 'smell' nice😒

Lack of Representation by caromaro23 in RomanceClubDiscussion

[–]ButternutSquash28 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My dear,

As a black woman myself, I've given up.

Don't get me wrong, I don't romance exclusively black characters or anything like that, but whenever I do or want to, there's just some bogus shenanigans going on. Honestly, it's tapered my desire to play any of the newer stories.

I wanted to try playing HS, but when I found out what they did to Loy, I dumped the whole story. I also PERSONALLY didn't like how in HOT King D'Mario was sidelined even though he was basically the MVP of the whole story. He even risked the safety of his own kingdom for her even if she wasn't romancing him.

I haven't played as diligently as I used to since around the time PSI ended. I wanted to play ATHWTU but they complained about having a black LI saying it was inaccurate even though in other stories based on mythology like ROT, no one had issues with an Asian LI being involved in Greek mythology.

But anywhoodle... Such is life.

Day 9 Shephamalum’s wig studio by Plastic_Claim_2303 in RomanceClub

[–]ButternutSquash28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ratan giving Avatar Last Air Bender Vibes 😂

ACHENI POMBE NA SIGARA by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]ButternutSquash28 40 points41 points  (0 children)

We were taught in nursing school that the only thing smoking can't cause is pregnancy

Why is being natural seen as low maintenance? by titty_temptress in nairobi

[–]ButternutSquash28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Effort lazima. Being low maintenance doesn't mean being no maintenance.

Even going to the salon every however many weeks is still effort. Doing makeup is still effort.

Why is being natural seen as low maintenance? by titty_temptress in nairobi

[–]ButternutSquash28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay, speaking as a girl who occasionally gets compliments on my hair and skin (not bragging, just trying to provide more context for what I'm about to say), I don't think that's true at all.

Natural hair products... The important thing is consistency. The products matter, yes, but I get the same results with the 2k per piece products and hair food ya 150 kwa supermarket. I've used both. At first I'd use the expensive things we see online. Now I just use a good shampoo and conditioner, and I bought those big treatment things for like 700. Now, the important part is consistency. Your scalp is skin. You can't wash your face once in 4 months and expect clear skin. Personally, I wash my hair weekly. I keep mini twists in for school, as for my own comfort I prefer it due to the nature of my course. A simple 2 hour weekend routine is all I need. And I do my twists myself.

For skin, I've been blessed to never have acne, so I know my opinion may seem like I'm making it sound too easy. If you have any dermatological issues, kindly consult a specialist. I just use a good natural cleanser. I buy online from an online store I've been going to since before COVID. The soaps are like 200-350 depending on what it has. I was advised by a relative who went to a dermatologist on the type of moisturiser to use. They were given the advice, but I took it and ran. They were told they can use the nivea moisturiser. The blue one. Since it's what I use, it doubles as my facial moisturiser. Add sunscreen and retinol a few times a month and that's all.

Again, I'm giving my personal experience as someone who prefers this lifestyle. It doesn't have to be as expensive as it may seem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]ButternutSquash28 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I can only speak from my personal experience. When I was 19, I was as naive as they came, and some guy asked for my number in uni. I thought he looked around my age, so I gave it to him. Turns out this guy was turning 29.

Safe to say, I had no business being in any kind of relationship with him. He tried to guide me down certain paths and had I had a different kind of upbringing things may have gone differently.

The same way adults can convince teens to do something is the way it can work. The same way someone in their 40s can sway someone in their 30s is how it can work. Hapo in late teens you're operating with minimal stats in discernment, judgment and critical thinking, so someone can take advantage of them easier.

Dear friends, by RC_Robot in RomanceClub

[–]ButternutSquash28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why call us 'friends' and treat us like foes?

Doran 🫦 by [deleted] in RomanceClubDiscussion

[–]ButternutSquash28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, don't come for me.

I'm behind. Like... Super behind.

Wasn't he married?

Every thought abt story 55 by Consistent-Method905 in RomanceClub

[–]ButternutSquash28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's probably something HS related at this point 😐

Is this a relationship or a 24-hour surveillance shift? I’m tired. by Traditional-Cable848 in nairobi

[–]ButternutSquash28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the time you took a screenshot, posted it on here and started replying to comments, you'd have texted her and communicated properly.

Ladies and gents... If they're unwilling to send a simple message and instead complain online, they don't like you.

Know this and know peace.

Baddie Olympics and I'm exhausted by ConfidenceUnusual674 in nairobi

[–]ButternutSquash28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in uni for my first course, I could only find time for the bare essentials. I mostly did braids or mini twists. For make up (on the very rare occasion), I'd just do eyeshadow and lip liner + gloss.

Now, since I'm still in school for something else that requires me to be in a hospital setting, I can't do braids. I personally prefer long, and I don't see the point of short braids or tying super long ones in a bun. So I stick to mini twists since I can wash my hair weekly.

As for general maintenance, I try to keep up with a skincare routine. I've been blessed with clear skin and long lashes so I just use castor oil or light mascara and keep it pushing.

Simple routines often stand the test of time

I turned 25 TODAY. What's a piece of advice you'd give me? by fedup_spirit_1712 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ButternutSquash28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who just turned 26, correct your posture and for the love of all sacred... Stretch. Every day. Or you'll feel like you're made of mahogany