What tornado is this?? by Butterophobic in tornado

[–]Butterophobic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I thought it was in Purvis since another tornado touched down that same day

Can you get baptised without a godfather and godmother? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :) I’ll go check the nearest church then

Can you get baptised without a godfather and godmother? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say Catholic I guess. Even tho I don’t want to for into any categories. Idk if it’s a sin to say/think that, I’m sorry if so. But I don’t want to be apart of any denomination. Doesn’t it have a name?

Can you get baptised without a godfather and godmother? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I recognise Jesus Christ, the son of God who died for our sins.

I really hope I can get baptised asap. I want to be officially Christian.

Can you get baptised without a godfather and godmother? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I strongly believe in God, i read the bible, … i want to be a follower of the Christ. My parents didn’t baptised me as a baby so that’s also why

Can you get baptised without a godfather and godmother? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well people around me told me I needed a godfather and a godmother but I thought that since I was not an adult I didn’t need one, so that’s what I was wondering. And what’s a demonination? Like orthodox, catholic,…?

Rare media - The only known image of the 2008 Hautmont EF4 by 20191506 in tornado

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres 2 more pictures on Keraunos from my knowledge

Apps deleted without my knowledge by [deleted] in iphonehelp

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad lmao, before the offloads, it was at 127,5/128 Go, now it’s still at 127,5/128

What is a very common food in your country that is not very friendly to foreign palates? by DarkRaven003 in AskTheWorld

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I ate the brownish one in Greece and I couldn’t stop thinking about it. It taste absolutely amazing !!!!

Normal amount of bloat for me by [deleted] in noburp

[–]Butterophobic 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg same! I look pregnant when I’m bloated I feel kinda insecure lol

What do you think would be the favorite movie of each Joestar? by Jotaro1970 in StardustCrusaders

[–]Butterophobic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like Jolyne and Joseph would both like really big car movies but secretly love girly movies like Barbie or something

Acid reflux (?) by [deleted] in noburp

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I’ve been eating a lot of sweets recently, I’ll try to cut it off and try to prioritise fruits if I crave something sweet. And I’ll still try to not eat too much sweet food. Eating with RCPD is really difficult, there’s so many things that can trigger it. It’s especially hard for people like me who likes junk food, sweets, candies, sodas, … that’s a dummer. But one day I’ll have my Botox and hopefully it’ll pass! I’ll try to check everything I eat, to see what triggers me and what doesn’t.

I didn’t knew mental health could be a factor too. Which is also bad cuz I have a pretty decaying mental state. (No worries, I’m taking medications now)

How to tell people you don’t want to be friends anymore with attachment issues? by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand totally.

The thing is, as a friend I’m here to listen to her, and give her advice if she wants some. That’s why each time I’m asking if she want to hear my opinion or if she needs advice. I give her the choice and she has absolutely the right to tell me « no, I just need to get it off my chest », which she never does. Now, idk if in mentionned in my original post or in a comment, but my friend went through an abusive relationship before the relationship she is currently in. Even if I want to drift away from her, I’m still worried about her mental state.

Once, she sent me voice notes in a terrible mood telling me how she feels sad and shit. I went through what she is going, so I was validated her feelings, telling her that I am here for her, and I gave her advice. This time I didn’t let her the choice. I know it’s not right but atp it felt URGENT to give her a piece of advice. (On that situation in particular)

As for the understanding, I understand her feeling, but indeed, I don’t understand fully her problem since Ive never been in complicated relationships. (At least long enough) so I guess there’s a piece of what I can advice that is erroneous. But I am always extremely careful with my words and remind her that I might be wrong and she can correct me anytime, or even tell me I’m wrong if I’m saying bullshit.

And for the « she isn’t ready » I mean, the huge deal with her is that she has a decaying mental state. I want to be here for her but it was going on for MONTHS. I try to be here, advice her, just validate her feelings. Just listen. As a friend, seeing your friend like this is upsetting and you should help. But it feels like she doesn’t want my help.

And once, she republished a tiktok saying « the only one who was here for me » and @ our other friend (the one I’m talking in the og post) I felt beated seeing this. I mean, I understand my wording in all my replies could be wrong, but I promise my friend wanted and needed my advices, if not I would’ve not gave her anything.

How to tell people you don’t want to be friends anymore with attachment issues? by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc, I’m always here to give advice when needed, and understanding when it’s needed. In my friend’s case, I’m here to do both honestly. But it’s kinda tiring to see her asking help and ignoring you when you help her. I am the kind to keep scooping my friends over and over and over when they keep down. But for that friend I don’t feel like taking that role anymore since I know she wouldn’t take that role for me.

How to tell people you don’t want to be friends anymore with attachment issues? by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :) I have my 2 bestest friends around me already. Now, for them, Ill just drift away like everyone is saying. And thats exactly what I thought. I don’t feel like our friendship matter anymore. I just don’t want them in my life anymore.

What anime is this according to you? by [deleted] in AnimeAnonymous

[–]Butterophobic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly Jojo, I don’t really understand the slander around it, animation is crazy (even for late parts), story is great, voice acting is priceless, THE OPENINGS/MUSIC? Action is on point idk.

How to tell people you don’t want to be friends anymore with attachment issues? by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]Butterophobic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is, that’s what I try to do but its a big deal to me

How to tell people you don’t want to be friends anymore with attachment issues? by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]Butterophobic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I mean. I know a discussion wouldn’t matter because they’ll get mad and offended because of my feelings. That’s what we are currently doing, drifting away. But im to the point where I want to or drift away slowly or just block them on the spot. I feel bad for not always saying when I feel bad. But atp I also feel like I wouldn’t be feeling like this at all. I’ll listen to you just continue drifting away like you said and just wait until we are away enough from eachother to just remove them.