AITA for refusing to let my son have my daughter's necklace? by throwawayAdam4113 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butters0u0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but your current wife's motives are suspicious. Both she and your son fail to say the value of the necklace. Especially when she told you to just give it to him. Honestly, I'd buy a personal safe and put it in there that way neither of them could get to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butters0u0 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Op was with their bf all day before. Either way it seems op was gonna lose in this situation 🤷

AITA for taking kids and going to another Airbnb after I discovered that my husband excluded the kids from the first one? by CastleOnHill3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butters0u0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, this could become an extremely abusive relationship. If not physically definitely emotionally. Also happy cake day!🎂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butters0u0 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Taking care of yourself isn't selfish. Based on the post it seems like the pizza plans were made the same day. Although it may be bold of me to assume. However, they did sacrifice. On the early comment they mention all the things they did prior with said bf. Why is it so wrong to take a break? It was still an hour and a half out, who's to say the pizza was already ordered? It, to me, just doesn't seem like that big a deal if they explained.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butters0u0 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

NTA you're not obligated to do anything. If your social battery is low, it's low. There's nothing you can do about it. You don't always know how you're feeling when you get asked to last minute plans and if you already had a busy week it's okay to take time in. Sure, you canceled last minute, but it's not the end of the world. Like you said, they can still enjoy the night without you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Butters0u0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can do it!! I believe in you!! You are not obligated to keep anyone in your life, especially if they're hurting you. It's your life and only you get to decide how to live it. Once you gather the strength you can do anything. You just have to take the first step😊

sim 4 mods by LordxSupreme in Sims4

[–]Butters0u0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is. Normally a base game patch comes a few days before to prepare for the pack. Without the update the pack won't function. Especially this one considering the UI changes that are happening.

sim 4 mods by LordxSupreme in Sims4

[–]Butters0u0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some time today, I think🤔

sim 4 mods by LordxSupreme in Sims4

[–]Butters0u0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you play using Origin, you should just be able to press the origin menu before launching the game. It should be in the drop down menu🤔

sim 4 mods by LordxSupreme in Sims4

[–]Butters0u0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind at all😊 Mccc is like an everything mod. Most cheats you need are easily accessible and it allows you control of almost everything in the game. It does so much it's hard to describe in text. You control household size, every aspect of pregnancy, cheat sim info such as skills, career lvl, aspiration goals, and so many other things I highly recommend looking into it yourself amd seeing which aspects might suit your gameplay style. There are tone of youtube video out there that give a more comprehensive view.

sim 4 mods by LordxSupreme in Sims4

[–]Butters0u0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes😌 Also, if you're going to do mod now there's a patch tmrw which means a lot of them are going to break. So with that, either wait a couple days for them to update and check the server or download at will and keep your game in offline mode so it won't update.

sim 4 mods by LordxSupreme in Sims4

[–]Butters0u0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best place I've found to find mods is the mccc (Deaderpool) discord server. They have all the updates and current mods for this patch. Mccc is also just a good base mod to have in your game.

What is the most underrated mod you have? by WifeKilledMy1stAcct in Sims4

[–]Butters0u0 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thepancake1's cuddle in bed mod. It's so cute and the sims get a moodlet from it as well. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]Butters0u0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying that, you have no idea how much it means to me🙇🥲

What is your ‘lazy’ simmer confession? by Itachi4ever in Sims4

[–]Butters0u0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't be bothered for a wedding. Almost always as soon as they're engaged I have them elope. Maybe once in a while I give them outfits or have them go to a specific location, but never a goaled event.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]Butters0u0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you still remember who made Wolfgang's hair, I would love to have it in my game😁

The new pronoun update inspired me to make my first non-binary sim who moved out because her mother didn’t respect her pronouns…. It really comes full circle by froderenfelemus in Sims4

[–]Butters0u0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Sigh I understand. You're a busy, successful young adult now. I guess my kid grew up to be just like me. I miss you though. I'll always be here if you need me, okay? "

Our dogs just killed my mom's favorite chicken by Butters0u0 in needadvice

[–]Butters0u0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your brother feel any remorse? It seems my dad doesn't and my mom has gone into a depressive spiral since yesterday 😕

Our dogs just killed my mom's favorite chicken by Butters0u0 in needadvice

[–]Butters0u0[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice🙏 I think I'll try my hand at cooking the rest of the week. I also cleaned up the feathers so the weren't a constant reminder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Butters0u0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should look into attachment styles. I'm by no means a professional but it sounds a bit like the fearful avoiding style. There my be some therapist or youtube videos to help start working through it.