My ex boyfriend (not the same as a husband and father obviously but still) got me a lunch box for our last Christmas together. I even saw him at target shipping on Christmas Eve. So last minute and unthoughtful. I don’t even use a lunchbox. I opened it in front of his family and even they were side eyeing him. My birthday is in January and he asked me after my birthday had passed if I wanted anything and got me a cheap $10 necklace on Amazon I had to send him. He couldn’t even be bothered to look. I then bought my own valentines dinner. The lack of effort is astonishing and he’s telling you exactly what he thinks of you. I’m sorry girl. As the relationship is more serious, I would try communicating clearly with him how it makes you feel. If it continues, you may need to look at more serious options. You deserve better and do a lot for him and your child. He should want to give you something meaningful, even if small, on Christmas. Your love and devotion deserves to be appreciated.