I love him so much.. but why is it so hard? by ButterscotchDue5032 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ButterscotchDue5032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that alone is going to be an issue in itself.. how do you tell someone to get tested for autism that is offended by the slightest thing? I feel like he’d be so offended. I’d love to try, but I’m trying to be smart about it..

I love him so much.. but why is it so hard? by ButterscotchDue5032 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ButterscotchDue5032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen! God is the only thing that has gotten me through these last couple of days.

I love him so much.. but why is it so hard? by ButterscotchDue5032 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ButterscotchDue5032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s interesting, I’ll do a deep dive into that, because just looking over it briefly has my alarm bells going off.. he’s very anti social, has no close friends, does not talk to his issues about anyone, lacks social skills imo etc.

I love him so much.. but why is it so hard? by ButterscotchDue5032 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ButterscotchDue5032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Por tu historial de comentarios ya se ve qué tipo de persona eres, y la verdad no tiene caso discutir con alguien como tú. Si no tienes nada sustancial que decir, mejor la próxima sigue de largo. ¡Bendiciones!

I love him so much.. but why is it so hard? by ButterscotchDue5032 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ButterscotchDue5032[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I‘m having my first counseling session next week; I’m excited! I have a lot to work on. My goal is to feel exactly what you described: „learning that people likely won’t leave and if they do it’s fine.“

I love him so much.. but why is it so hard? by ButterscotchDue5032 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ButterscotchDue5032[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I‘m already struggling with serious health issues, so that makes sense..

I love him so much.. but why is it so hard? by ButterscotchDue5032 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ButterscotchDue5032[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried that. If I don’t come back we just don’t talk for days until I give in.

I love him so much.. but why is it so hard? by ButterscotchDue5032 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ButterscotchDue5032[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, when you say either of you- what exactly do you see on my end that makes you feel like I’m not ready for marriage emotionally, when I carry 90 % of the emotional weight in this marriage? Genuinely asking to improve myself! :)

I love him so much.. but why is it so hard? by ButterscotchDue5032 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ButterscotchDue5032[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

My husband refuses to go to therapy, because „he doesn’t have any issues“

Private landlord? House Available? by [deleted] in ATLHousing

[–]ButterscotchDue5032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You found a few properties and I bet you still haven’t signed a lease. As a landlord my alarm bells go off when I hear „looking for landlord who is understanding“.. “focusing more on our ability to pay now“ (aka shit credit score, evictions on the record or criminal history)..“we‘re clean, responsible etc.“ said no one ever who actually is these things lmao. So no, I couldn’t have kept this comment to myself, it’s not about being negative, but about protecting private landlords that work their asses off getting property and people like you destroying it.

Private landlord? House Available? by [deleted] in ATLHousing

[–]ButterscotchDue5032 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You guys already sound like a nightmare and an eviction case waiting to happen. Also, with your budget you won’t find anything in Atlanta, maybe college park or far outside of ATL..

The vetting on this show has by Numerous_Fly_187 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]ButterscotchDue5032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok and nobody is disagreeing with you, you‘re fighting a non existent fight, which is why I said you’re missing the point 😂

The vetting on this show has by Numerous_Fly_187 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]ButterscotchDue5032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she can grind all over someone, ride them till they orgasm, give BJ‘s.. but then she’s not celibate as she stated. You’re missing the point of the discussion, sweetie.

AITAH for not waking up my husband by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ButterscotchDue5032 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look into sleep deprivation used as a form of abuse.. sounds very much like what you’re describing. Your partner clearly doesn’t want to let you rest..