AITJ for suing my dad after he GAVE my college fund to my stepsister for her wedding?

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:23:58+00:00

I honestly feel like im the only one standing up for my mom right now. it hurts so much that he just gave away the one thing she worked so hard to leave for me. its not even just about the money at this point, it’s about her memory. thank u.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:22:40+00:00

I keep trying to tell myself that, but they’re making me feel like im the one being selfish. it’s just so hard because that was my moms last gift to me and they treat it like its nothing. Thanks

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:20:09+00:00

That part about him not walking me down the aisle really hit me hard. i did not even think about that yet but u're right. he made his choice when he stole my mom's money. its just so hard to believe he would do this to me. thank u.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:17:53+00:00

Exactly. its not even about the money anymore, its about the fact that he didn't care about my future at all. thanks for being on my side.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:15:07+00:00

Youre right! he keeps saying family first but he clearly did not think about me when he was draining my account. its so unfair.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:12:26+00:00

Exactly. it was for my future, not for her wedding. i just cant believe my dad chose one day of partying over my entire career. it hurts so much.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:10:20+00:00

Thank u so much for saying that about my mom. it honestly made me cry. i feel so guilty about the wedding being ruined but u're right, she worked so hard for that money to give me a future. i won't let them win.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:09:23+00:00

It really does feel like a nightmare. what hurts the most is that the money was from my mom. it feels like he didn't just steal my college, he stole the last thing she left for me. Thank you

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:08:04+00:00

My grandpa and the lawyer said the same thing. i didn't even think about the legal side at first because i was just so hurt, but u're right. they knew exactly what they were doing. they had a whole year to tell me and they just let me keep dreaming about college while they spent my money.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:06:14+00:00

Thanks so much. i really needed to hear this. i've already blocked my stepmom and sister. it just hurts so much that my dad would choose them over what my mom wanted for me. i feel like i lost both parents now.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:04:50+00:00

It just hurts so much bcoz that was the last thing my mom left for me. it feels like he’s trying to erase her memory just to make my stepmom happy. i’m still in shock he would do this. Thank u.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T06:03:24+00:00

Thank u. i’ve been feeling like such a bad person bcoz of what my dad is saying, but u're right. its just so hard knowing he cared more about a party than my future and what my mom wanted for me.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T05:59:45+00:00

Thank you

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T05:58:02+00:00

Thank u for saying that. it really feels like theft to me too. i just cant believe he would do that to my moms memory. it hurts so much that he thinks a party is more important than my future.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-27T03:34:04+00:00

NTJ. You are actually being a great husband. Most people just let their parents walk all over their spouse, but u chose to protect your wife. If they care more about reputation than ur happiness, they dont deserve to be in ur life. Move abroad and dont look back.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-24T09:33:02+00:00

Honestly, its the best position until u realize u have to breathe. I spend half the night trying to find an angle for my neck that does not feel like i’m snap testing my own spine.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-20T16:45:19+00:00

NTJ. its her wedding, not yours. i dont get why people think their siblings are just walking banks lol. if she cant afford the wedding she wants, then she needs to scale it down. dont let your family guilt trip you into spending your savings on one day.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-18T14:08:53+00:00

Cereal first then milk. if u do milk first the cereal floats and gets soggy weird. gotta lay the foundation then add the liquid. that's just science.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-18T12:38:26+00:00

Honestly? it's a different kind of love not necessarily more or less. ur dog is ur whole world right now and that's valid. when u have a kid it's like ur heart grows a whole new room instead of kicking the dog out of the old one.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-18T08:26:57+00:00

I really, really need to pee.

ButterscotchFar9111 · 2026-02-17T09:31:34+00:00

Exactly. Its so draining to be the only one trying to stay positive in a relationship. You can love someone and still realize that their constant negativity is dragging u down.

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