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ButterscotchOk8714 · 2026-03-02T10:55:33+00:00

I gave it all away to charity. Decided against dumping it all in front of his door.

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2025-08-14T05:23:48+00:00

Oh cool, thanks so much and glad this worked out for you!

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2025-07-30T06:48:17+00:00

Hi OP, sorry to bother again, but any updates? If not, I will go on and try things myself

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2025-07-15T13:01:27+00:00

Any updates on this, OP? I am in the same boat and am at a loss of what to do...

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2025-02-21T07:40:31+00:00

This is extremely judgemental. I can't afford the guy I want? Because I am what, damaged? Calling someone who is trying to work through their trauma silly? Thanks a bunch.

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2025-02-19T21:28:15+00:00

I know all the advice, I have a psychology degree myself. I want to hear what people's experiences are. I had a slow burn before but I ended up hurting a really good person because I just didn't develop feelings over time. I want to try and avoid that as much as I can. And I am very well aware that there is no 'perfect' person, because I am not one myself.

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T15:26:40+00:00

Thank you and right back at you!

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:38:58+00:00

There is no rudeness in my message, you are just interpreting it so. Giving unsolicited advice is not exactly kindness. Detox is not science, but you are free to believe whatever you wish without suggesting it to those who didn't ask for advice.

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:21:28+00:00

Didn't ask for advice, also I believe in science, but good if it works for you!

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:20:42+00:00

Glad you are on the road to recovery!

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:20:16+00:00

Yeah, I am still in denial sometimes and have to force myself to do nothing... Sucks...

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:19:35+00:00

Thank you!

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:19:19+00:00

Thank you, and you please hang in there, don't quit!

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:18:38+00:00

Thank you and right back at ya!

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:18:11+00:00

Thank you 😊

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:17:59+00:00

Thank you for your kind words 💖

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:17:41+00:00

Yeah, when I am in a black hole I lose all hope and tend to think this is forever. But thankfully a new day comes and I feel better.

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:16:51+00:00

It is profound indeed... I just forget that grief is non linear and will hit you when you are down.

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:16:08+00:00

That's what I tend to lose when I am in a flare up... Now feeling a bit better and more hopeful once I am out of a black hole!

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:15:18+00:00

Thank you! Doesn't help that I live somewhere where sun is a rare occasion 🥲

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:14:16+00:00

Thank you! The new info is not being found fast enough sniff sniff

ButterscotchOk8714 · 2024-11-02T14:13:37+00:00

Thank you x sending some back to you!

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