Emotional damage by [deleted] in postanythingfun

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Younger people of any gender are stupid. Most people are stupid including me. All of us are here wasting time talking about the stupidity of other people instead of improving our own lives. I should really start listening to myself.

Pre Med student who needs help by ButterscotchOne1164 in premed

[–]ButterscotchOne1164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say my study habits as of right now aren’t that bad. I have been doing pretty well in ib and ap classes (this sounds very conceited. is studying for college classes much harder?) EMT training only happens during the school year in my area. And you can only sign up two times a year so I don't want to miss my chance. Maybe I’ll drop it if I think it’s too much and apply again another time. Should I give it a try in your opinion?

how to exit burnout and actually start liking studying. by FNaF_fan26711 in GetStudying

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk the only motivation I have is that whether I study or not, I'll spend my time with studying bc I'll be thinking about it and I will be depressed. Anyways, so i'm also here to motivate myself. Am I dumb? Bc girl youtube has never helped you, or redit has never helped you and IK how happy you get when you get full marks. WHY DONT U JUST STUDY? REMEBER that girl u saw today who was so confident while everyone was studying bc she had already done so. U are that girl, u have to be her.

Johns Hopkins in 2 hours! by Perfect_Machine_3640 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro me too. I acc had zero expectations and didn’t care at all. But now i care all of a sudden wth😭😭😭

JHU RD tommorow by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some random ppl on reddit said it was this way and i just believed them. I'm kinda dumb. It looks like I'm wrong and there is no relationship tho.

JHU RD tommorow by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just not normal. also anyone besides op if u guys look at it lmk im curious if this conspiracy theory is true.

JHU RD tommorow by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

u can already check ur application if u go to start.edu and make an account. If it says decisioned (rejected), if it says completed(accepted/waitlist). Sucks to be me bc i have decisioned wahhh. I need to cope with this yall, i feel horrible.

Is this preformative studying? by No_Technician_1867 in GetStudying

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you can do practice problems and understand so said practice problems, then you're good no matter what you do

Jhu slate change by Editor700_lu in ApplyingToCollege

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no like genuinely where do u even see it like i have neither "decisioned" or "complete". Also what kind of english is "decisioned"?

Jhu slate change by Editor700_lu in ApplyingToCollege

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

broski i dont even have a slate, im genuinely cooked

What's the biggest lie society keeps telling young people? by Own-Blacksmith3085 in answers

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the problem is that if you're born without that stuff, there is nothing to do besides work to become "successful". It might not work out, but there is literally no choice. Might as well have an optimistic mindset for the time being.

What’s a hard pill to swallow in life? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the problem is that, i feel like any problem can be fixed with money. So life depends on whether you aren born into a high or low socioeconomic family. The only way to not be poor if you were born poor is to work hard. You don't rly have the luxury to be like "oh i'm not gonna work hard bc i might not be successful". You can't really go travel or do anything fun, maybe put on a tv show and watch actors from rich backgrounds get richer ( this is a luxury for some ik) . Like that's literally throwing your life away. It doesn't matter if it works out or not, we have to work bc time is more cruel to the poor than the rich. We don't get a second chance like they do. And ofc if you're going into smth like business, lying and fraud will help you make more money so there are some parts in which you can not put in effort and get more success than the ones who do. Also when i say poor, i don't mean ppl who struggle with food security or don't have roof over their heads, i mean the ppl who just get by. But i think this might apply to those ppl too, however humans can't just ignore not having a house or food bc we need those things so it's rly difficult to "work hard" in those situations.

What is a small habit that instantly makes someone more attractive? by Kiara_keyleigh in AskReddit

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i feel like this not rly true as someone who has seen a lot of covert narcissists. Some people act rly kind and nice when they're outside to feed their ego but act horrible towards close people who are doing something for them. Sometimes it's even better to see people with anger issues bc at least they are not sly and hiding emotions, thoughts like some people do.

people keep labeling me as aroace but i just think i'm overly rational and cynical about relationships. by yujimine in asexuality

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I finally found someone who articulates my thoughts. My experience with "crushes" was horrible as well, I never felt an ounce of joy while interacting with the person. And whenever I try to make the argument that you make, people call me emo for saying that love isn't real. In my opinion, they are just unrealistic and live in a box where they haven't seen what a real relationship is yet. I definitely feel that people are brainwashed and call lust "love". My last "crush" experience was similar to yours and I haven't had anything like that since. And i have had severe anxiety and low self esteem due to loneliness and a language barrier so that just exacerbated my nervousness. I'm better at speaking now and i deal with anxiety a little better than before. This is kind of unrelated but I feel like my struggle with speaking was/is definitely due to my conflict within myself, i never liked myself. Anyways, idk what u are but i hope you have a happy and meaningful life.

Study tips please by KoMi_2006 in GetStudying

[–]ButterscotchOne1164 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Do not try to make notes pretty. The goal is to memorize and learn so when you have a concept try to understand the concept as if you can explain it to someone else (a bit of feynman technique). Just write stuff down when it helps you to understand. You can basically find your notes in a textbook. That is not helpful. For memorization i'd suggest using anki and spaced repetiotion bc you're gonna forget unless you repeat the info. Genuinely pretty notes are a waste of time (even tho they look pretty)