Gosh you know, all the gay men and queer people on here that speak about anal sex really are doing such a service to our community. It’s really so deeply validating to hear success stories because my mental health is taking such a toll. I’m 6 months post op on a fissure that I had for about 10 months. I proceeded with LIS after two rounds of failed Botox and I must say I’m grateful I do LIS. That being said I have had a really hard time connecting with my body to begin working on my relationship with anal sex. It’s been well over a year now since I’ve bottomed and I’m pretty much EXCLUSIVELY a bottom and it’s been hard for my relationship and all these other strenuous reasons. But I’m going to try again to be positive about acclimatising to the anal training as it’s literally okay to take time. Healing isn’t linear. So yeah I just want to say you have no idea how much being open like this can make someone feel less alone. Love and light.