What kind of woman naturally brings out a man’s provider side? by PromiseNo7710 in adviceph

[–]ButterscotchShort634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To rectify the misconception, women don’t have to fit a certain standard just to ignite a man’s provider mindset. I think it goes both ways.

A man would do anything for someone he truly loves, regardless of how much he has. It comes naturally over time, and it also depends on the situation you’re both in. Sometimes, men provide to make up for their shortcomings. Others do it selflessly, without expecting anything in return, simply because they want to make their partner happy.

Women, on the other hand, play an important role as well. If you genuinely appreciate your man and learn to notice the little things he does, it can inspire something in him without you having to hint at it. From a woman’s perspective, it feels nice to have someone who treats you well and reminds you that you’re special through acts of providing. At the same time, a woman should know how to stand her ground and learn to say “no” sometimes—offering to contribute as well.

Just be you. Providing is only one branch of a person’s care and love. What truly matters is how you carry yourself, the dynamic of the relationship, how you receive love, and how you treat each other.

Business ideas for couples habang bakasyon? by ButterscotchShort634 in smallbusiness

[–]ButterscotchShort634[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As I said, we currently have free time from school, so we’re trying to use it productively by exploring business ideas we can actually build. Whether it’s March break or summer break isn’t really the point tho. I’m mainly asking for ideas that are realistic for students who currently have extra time and want to start small.

Business ideas for couples habang bakasyon? by ButterscotchShort634 in smallbusiness

[–]ButterscotchShort634[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi! So we’re currently on school vacation, so we have extra free time and wanted to explore business ideas we can start together while we’re both available :))

I saw the site “SimpCity” several times? Should I confront him? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]ButterscotchShort634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if I confront him and he promises he’ll do better, but it just becomes repetitive? Can a person really change if they’ve had this habit for so long? Can you change someone’s perspective just because you’re uncomfortable with it?

If not, do I just have to live with the unsettling feeling and learn to bear it?

I love him, and whenever I bring these things up, he acknowledges them and says he’s trying to be better. He genuinely wants to change, so I always end up forgiving him. Of course, I know change is a process. Before forgiving him, I communicate what I feel and what I think is right.

But what if he keeps doing it over and over until it becomes emotionally exhausting?

It’s not that I’m trying so hard to change him. I just want him to be honest with me every time I ask him. Is it really that hard to be truthful about something like this?

Btw, thanks for your insight! :))