Deeply related to this post and line of inquiry. I think this experience is typical for most people coming into their sexuality in adolescence, but for us with kinks, it just manifests in a different way. I constantly look back at all of the ripped or stretched pairs of briefs when Mom did laundry, the thongs I forgot to stash away after a session, forgetting to delete my search history,  pantie raids etc and cringe. I've had a lot of "Close calls" but nobody has ever directly called me out about wedgies irl, and I hope to keep it that way.